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Archived questions from: 17 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I had an emotional affair and my wife still won't get over it. Is there anything more I can do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I had an emotional affair with a work colleague. My wife just WON'T let it go. I have reassured her that I've never loved anyone but her but she won't believe me. I've booked for lunch tomorrow but I sense from her attitude tonight that it...

Should I stay with my boyfriend or try and date the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 2 months. There is something about him I just don't click with. I don't feel the same way with him that I have with other guys I have dated, even in the same time period. He is older than me by 8 years, I'm 21 he is ...

Does she really just want to be my friend or is she playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - What is she thinking? The woman I had an emotional affair with contacted me again after I told her that for my girlfriend's sake, I wouldn't be spending any time with her or emailing with her. I thought I was completely over her with her out...

She was more into me in the beginning and now the tables have turned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hey me and my girl have been goin out for 1 year and 7months now and in the beggining she made me feel as If I was her world.She actually told me I was her second proirity in life.she used to be so jealous for me (cute jealousy) and alwayz accused ...

She's been with some of my friends and it's bothering me! How can I move on from this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I have found the woman of my dreams...unfortunately she found my friends first. Before my girlfriend and I got together she had hooked up with several people close to my everyday life. Joe* my roommate(who is in my fraternity), Mike* my downstairs ...

Should we take some time apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Question: Should we take some time apart? My boyfriend is wonderful and I love so much about him, however I also despise a lot about him. I often believe that I am just being petty because I am a little older and I am more "particular". I also ...

My boyfriend ignored me for a couple of days and then contacted me.. what's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hiya I have been going out with my bf for 4 years now and it feels like lately he is not interested. When we are together we are fine and he is really lovely to me but when he goes home to his mothers he ignore me for a couple of days and then rings ...

How to set it straight to a man who is overly sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy online. He's going through divorce. His divorce isn't finalized yet. He's a US citizen but has international business in Filipine. He came to CA to visit me and took me to Seattle for a week. We did make out, but didn't have sex. ...

Boyfriend can't perform in bed as good as he thinks he can.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

17 February 2010 (?) - I just started having sex very recently.My Boyfriend and I have had sex a couple times and everytime it was bad. I cheated on him with a friend who I asked to teach me how to ride and perform fellatio and some other basic positions and the sex was ...

Should I take her back after all she put me through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hi, this is a long story but here it goes. I met this girl almost a year ago (we were both 20 years old) and we became really great friends for 4 months. I ended up asking her out and we hit it off after a slow start. She ended up telling me she ...

Why is it that women, more often than men, still have "friendships" with their ex boyfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hello all. I need some point of views from the ladies to really understand my girlfriend. We are constantly at each others throats...Here is the topic and I want to get everyone's point of view on the matter. Why is it that women, more often than ...

My Prince Charming says he'll only stay with me if I give our baby up for adoption.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi, i am 18 years old, i am having a baby, i am 17weeks today, me and the father are together but he says he will be with and stay with me if i give the baby up for adoption, and if i keep it he will leave, I am stuck in a rut and im not sure what ...

I'm scared my insecurities will ruin my relationship, how can I overcome this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - hi, i am 19 years old and i have just found the most perfect guy for me, i have never felt like this before and i know he is the one for me. i have completely forgotten that other attractive guys exist because i only have eyes for him. howeve...

How do I tell him that this has hurt my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. Due to a compulsory year abroad as part of my uni course we have been in a long-distance relationship since October. I thought so long about whether I should go or not because I knew I would find ...

Does a relationship goes with money or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, i have a problem. there is one girl. am older than her. am 23 and she's 18. we met on the internet. we are planning to see each other. we supposed to see each other on valentine day but she disappointed me. when am calling her, she's ...

I don't enjoy sex anymore, will this cause problems in my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I think I need help sometimes if I'm having sex with my lover I don't anything and I thing that will cause problems into our relationship I don't know what to do...

He told me he just wants to get laid and not have to work for it! Should I leave him to find someone better suited to me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Ok so I have been dating a 22yr old guy now for about 7-8months and I am 23. Our sex life had not been very exciting so I finally got the courage to bring it to his attention recently. He only ever is either on top of me or me on top of him, those ...

Does he find me sexy or is he only touching me because he would feel bad turning me down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - The other day i went cinema with a group of friends i sat next to my ex, we flirt with each other but he's a bit hesitant and says he would never want to take advantage of me so he pulls back sometimes. Theres nothing wrong with friends flirting he ...

My boyfriend has caught me flirting online, and now he hasn't spoke to me for over a month!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - question to the guys. my boyfriend of four years has caught me flirting online. its not the first time and we always broke up because of it. i never cheated i did it for a laugh when he was at work,i did text them but never met any. i denied it and ...

How do I accept my gf's promiscuous past if I've only been with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - I've seen a few questions on here that are similar to mine, but I think mine has a special little twist on it. My girlfriend, whom I've been with for 6 years, has a very promiscuous past. Around 40 - 50, she can't remember exactly. And before her ...

University break ups?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hello there Recently me and my boyfriend, of about 2 years, talked about what we were going to do for university,even though its about a year away from him actually going. we will be going to separate universities. He says that he wants us to break...

L love him but I think he is seeing someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - l love my boyfriend so much l feel as if he is seeing someone else he can take a week or two with out seeing me but if l ask him he keep on saying he loves me and he not seeing anyone else ...

Why would they label me a stalker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - My nickname is Rocco I have talk to this girl and she labeled me a stalker the other day, meet her on myspace and we talked I got her digits and we would text I told her my school situation and she cracked a joke but then it was like we would te...

Does this sound like the personality of a control freak, or a pathological liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. I would really appreciate you helping me play psychologist here. I'm going to tell you about the guy I've been with for the past four years and I'd appreciate your thoughts on what you think about his characteristics, why he does ...

This is the last thing I want...but I feel jealous of his 3 year old daughter!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I NEED HELP!!!! Seriously!! ok, im 21, and my bf is 23 Ok im gonna try n not make this too long.. But My situaton, me and my fiance are getting married next year, and we currently just got house together and its me, him and his 3 year old daughter...

She has made me feel like some sort of sex maniac just because my penis touched her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - So I was hanging out with my girlfriend of a couple of years watching some TV. She asked me to give her a massage. This is kind of a turn on for me, I admit. She pointed out something on TV, I wasnt' paying attention so I leaned forward. When I ...

I know she has feelings for me too but she has a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - hi I wrote last night , title:I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to steal another man's girlfriend, but I cant help feeling this way! too clarify I am not trying too use her to stop my drinking problem. she knows I have a drinking problem and has ...

The girl I love thinks I am a cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Hi, i am 23 age boy who have a complicated life with my girl. anyone have idea please please tell me. I saw a girl who's looking good, homely character and i fall in love with her. She is the girl who is friend of my girl friend. And actually i s...

My boyfriend wants to watch a sex video of his friend, is this bad or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - i m in a long distance and committed relationship.recently i and my bf were chatting through sms and when we were talking,he was telling me that how he knows some guys who cheat their gf by keeping hidden cameras and taking video and selling them.i ...

Drop everything and go for love, or work out what is already there...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - hello everyone, im kinda stuck in a situation that almost everyone one here can relate to on either side. Ive been together with my wife for 6 years now and have been married for a little over a year now. We have gone though tough times and I have d...

I just want to change his feelings towards me and make him stop cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - the guy i have been messing with for 7 months has finally asked me out.but i really think he has another girl on the side.but i really want him to love me and be faithful.i dont know how to make him feel that way.i want to make him jealous without ...

I slept with over 30 women to try and find vengance, but it never came! Now I am trapped in a loveless marriage but I don't want to start a new family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Ok, so this is my story. I am on separation. Have been married for the past eight years. Not that I wanted to spend the eight years with my wife but thats what counsellors would tell me to forgive and accept my wife after she lied to me about her ...

Is my mum right - should he grow up and provide?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend is 35 and I am 26. My mother doesn't think he's good enough for me, for very old fashioned reasons. Now I'm beginning to think she's right. Or am I being shallow? My boyfriend worked but kept dead end jobs until he was ...

I feel like I am second best to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I am engaged. We have been friends for several years, but always had a thing for each other. He was with his ex... and I was with mine for about 4 years, but we remained friends throughout that whole time. My fiance ended his relationship with his ...

I need some advice on how to end this nightmare

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - I am in a bad spot in my life right now. Everything seems to be going wrong in every direction. I am divorced over 45 and not happy. I started seeing someone who what it thought was getting out of his marriage but over 2 years later he still hasent. ...

Lately it feels like we are drifting apart and I have no idea what is going on with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together so long that I really can't imagine life without him. He feels the same way and we've somehow managed to stay together going to two separate colleges for the last two years. Lately, though, it seems like we're ...

I really don't understand him, can anyone shed some light on his behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - ok there is this guy i like we are friends i know he used to like me. im not sure now. but lately he is doing things he never did before like always touching my leg. asks me if i would ever marry him we argue a lot and sunday he asked me why arent i ...

Parents hate my baby's father and threaten to abandon me if I rekindle a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi I'm 27 yrs old female and In early 2009 I lost my job then my apartment due to financial difficulties ever since then i have been living with my mother and step-dad. they have been accommodating. during the time i lost everything i was pregnant ...

Do I let it ride until calmer minds prevail or ask for a discussion about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of one year is one of those people who loves to have the last word and makes remarks after which he swears he's just kidding but doesn't like it when you say them back to him. I am one of those people that won't always let you have the ...

Is my daughter taking advantage of me? I helped her out with a loan over a year ago and I've not received a penny back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - two years ago, i reunited with my daughter whom i've not seen in 18 years. All was well until, 3 months into the relationship, i helped her out with a loan. It's been more than a year now and I have not received my money back. She says that she's ...

I'm back with the father of my children but I'm in love with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - ok its really weird but i have been dating this guy for like 5 years i have two beautiful daughters with him . we were actually separated for like 3 months because of problems but anyways.... started to date this guy that i had dated back in high ...

I know it is wrong to make a move on a married lady but I cant walk away from her....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - Ok I met this lady who is a physical therapist where my mother is at a nursing home. From the very day I was introduced to her I have been smitten by her. Anyway, she is married with 3 kids two boys and a girl. I asked the lady who introduced us ...

What should I text back to him? I only suggested we go out more as a couple rather than staying in all the time and he has reacted really badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - a guy i met on plenty of fish website.. on out 1st time seeing each other we went for a Drive..but he wanted to come and hang out at my house i said no. he says he wants to come to my house and chill with me cos he has no money to take me...

How do I confront him and tell him how I feel? After 5 months of feeling this way I cant take it anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hiya, Back in september, i posted a question on here about my attraction to my college friend called 'Im Stuck Between My BF And my College Friend' and how i already had a boyfriend.( I would just like to take this time to thank those people w...

We've only recently got engaged but I don't know if I want to be with him anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - hi well iv been with my boyfriend 2 years and we have a daughter together who is 11months old the thing is we keep arguing and i feel like im beginning to hate him i do love him and we got engaged a few months ago but im not happy anymore and i feel ...

Is there any way I can get her back without begging? Or should I move on - and if so, how do I get back into the loop of making friends and talking to girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

17 February 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question 1 Hi, i have recently got left buy my girlfriend of two years, Yesterday she said she wants to experience the fun of high school. I am leaving her alone li...

I told him the ring he proposed with was not my style and now he is really hurt! How do I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend proposed to me out of nowhere and the ring was from a pawn shop, I told him yes, but the ring wasn't my style and I kind of wanted a new ring, not someone elses. I told him this and now he is really hurt, my question is how do I fix ...