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*opgirl93
writes:Hiya, Back in september, i posted a question on here about my attraction to my college friend called 'Im Stuck Between My BF And my College Friend' and how i already had a boyfriend.( I would just like to take this time to thank those people who answered.)I am still in a bit of a mess. I did end up breaking up with my boyfriend for it just wasn't going to work with me feeling this way about my friend.There is still a big problem. As the months went by in college, me and my college friend grew closer, but only close friends.As we became closer my attraction became stronger, and now even worse another girl in my class has come into the picture and ive heard SHE likes him too. Because i know this, i cant help but get jealous every time they speak. I do hide my jealousy and my feelings from my friend because im too embarrassed to say anything, im scared of his reaction.In the last few months Ive heard off other classmates that he likes me too, and when we are together it seems as if he likes me, but maybe thats just how he is with all girls. Sometimes people ask us if we are going out because we are so close, and it kills me to say that we are not.I cant get him out of my head, i dont want to scare him and ruin our friendship by telling him how i feel, but after nearly 5 months of feeling this way i just cant take it anymore. before i tell him how i feel, i need to find out if he feels the same way, or if there is a slight chance he will.What im asking, and this is mostly for guys. How Would I know if he likes me?..And How Do I confront him to tell him how i feel?Girls and guys i need your help, any advice will be a great help.thanks..xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 February 2010):
You need to tell him how you feel now, before this other girl makes a move. There is no use in you sitting around waiting for him to give a hint. He's a man. He won't. You made the step of ending it with your boyfriend in September, which was a positive and strong step. Now you need to be brave again and tell him how you feel, before he gets confused and backs away from you.
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