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Archived questions from: 4 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Married and hopelessly lonely

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 10 yrs.he's had 3 affairs that I know of! Should I walk away,or try to work @ it again??...

Rejected by mother and father, fearing rejection as an adult. Falling for guys who give attention.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - We have been together for almost 12 years and have a son together. Its the 4th time now where she has developed feelings she thinks are love, with a guy she has gotten to know, who has charmed her, treated her well and shown her attention. She has ...

Is Three A Crowd?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts. Okay alot of people will think im a lucky girl but to me, its a nightmare! A year ago i was out clubbing with my girl friends and i met a guy Alex* talking, he bought me drinks etc. Well after about an hour, he said 'Be right back', when ...

I want the one I cant have...

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4 February 2010 (F) - i am 17, and i won't let a guy i can get even get close to me. though guys i can't get, (for example someone who is taken) i really want.in fact, i really like, and sometimes think im in love with him when i am with him. is there something wrong ...

7 years, now long distance. He says we should see other people. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Boyfriend and I have been trying to get work in another state. He just informed me he got a high paying job in the state where we both have talked of going. He said he's going to look for a place there this weekend. He also said that we should see ...

He is playing with my emotions and stopping me from moving on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I dated a coworker for six months and even though I'm 26, it was the second time I've fallen for anyone. We both work at the Holocaust Museum in D.C. where there was a shooting last summer. We were both there that day, but I was in the middle of it. ...

I want to end the relationship because she has put on too much weight

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - I am trying to find a way to end a relationship with a woman who has simply become too obese for me and I don't want to hurt her feelings. Is there anyone who can give me some advice?...

My BF thinks my friend's a slut and doesn't want me hanging out with her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - One of my oldest friends asked me to hang out this afternoon. I haven't seen her in a while, so I was excited to see her. However, I know my boyfriend doesn't like me hanging out with her. We're both very insecure people, let me elaborate. The ...

Is my friend telling the truth? Is she pregnant with my BF's baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi Iv Got A Big Problem. Im 18 Years Old Iv Been With My Boyfriend For 3 Years Now And We're Engaged And We Were Trying For A Baby. But... I Got A Text From A Old Friend Who I Blamed My Boyfriend For Cheating On Me With Her He Claimed It Was Just A ...

Should we rekindle a first love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I have just met up again with my first love, Matt, who I went out with for 3 years, 18 years after we parted ways. In all that time, even through my past marriage, I never stopped thinking about him and all of the "what ifs". Last year, we got back ...

My boyfriend gave me the same engagement ring he gave his ex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend gave me an engagement ring that was previously used by his ex girlfriend. He says that he redid the ring, but the diamond is the same. It makes me feel uncomfortable. There is also a plus, when we started the relation...

I feel like I have lost all respect for myself after what I did in the past.....how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so last year was a really bad year for me and i spiraled out of control. i did some pretty bad things that could potentially really hurt people i know and love. I began experimenting with drugs, drinking A LOT of alcohol and basically i was just ...

Do you think he still loves her and is just too angry to get back with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles. I am dating a guy for about 3 months now. He does not want commitment he sayd and he just says 'let's see how it goes'. We usually meet up on a Saturday for a drink or meal and maybe once during the week. My ...

I'm so confused and I don't want to lose either of them as a friend!

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4 February 2010 (F) - Please help me! I am very confused right now and just don't know what to do, so I'm hoping you can read this and give me some advice or just some support sort of thing... Well basically I have a guy best friend and me and him and my other best fr...

Any advice on how to keep things cool?

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4 February 2010 (F) - Hi. I was going out with a guy, he was really sweet but suddenly things turned sour. He told me he loved me very much, wanted to spend the rest of his life with me but he was really hurt when I told him we were going to fast, because, as he already ...

I feel so guilty for his anger issues! Would it be best for him if I was not around?

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4 February 2010 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months now and prior to that we were close friends for a good many years. He's always had an anger problem; he's never been violent toward me or any of his friends however he does get verball...

I really don't think he loves me...

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4 February 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love so much, but I dont think he loves me the way I love him... the reason is because I call and text him almost every day but with him it's not like that. I asked him last month, why is he acting in such manner? He said ...

Runaway student!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I'm 23. I want to be a dentist. studied two years already but in another country because in my country it was not possible for this course but from the first day my mum wanted to stop me. she cries every day telling me not to leave her... but as I ...

Please help me understand what my fiance wants from me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - hi,just new here trying to get some advice... i have a fiance for over a year now, we have this long distance realationship, . i dont know why he had the attitude of being so "negative thinker" . i cant understand him, if we are together theres ...

I need some direction in life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - hi im nina... there are alot of things happeneing on my mind and i dont know what to do. i dont know what i want. i mean im really confused and adding on that i cant think straight in my business class (im taking a diploma on it) so its importan...

Do I have to be alone so that everybody else can be happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - hello. havnt quite done this before. so growing up I've had a couple girlfriends. nothing serious or anything. I havnt had a girlfriend in quite a long time. almost a couple years. I met a girl at my work. we are extremely close. she knows I have a ...

I just wish she would try to understand ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - hi. im 18 and im with a girl who i love very much, but have had some past and present issues that are just bothering me too the point of no return. im so jealous lately and here are the reasons why. first off..she left me and cheated on me the last ...

He has unresolved issues with his ex, who seems a really nice lady

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hello. I have just started seeing a guy who is a divorcee and after he split up with his wife he had a long partner for about 8 years. He is 51 years old with a grown up sone at college. I am a bit worried because of the way he talks about his ex ...

I feel I am no longer the light in his eyes

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi all, My partner and I have been dating for just under 2 years now. When we first met, he was loving, attentive, told me I was the woman of his dreams and lit up whenever he saw me. he did all he could to make me happy. I know that this is par...

I keep comparing my husband to my ex, how can I stop doing this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - i was in a relationship for last one and half years. before that i was very practical about my life and family. but all gone vain when i met the guy. he had everything i dreamt of. for his family and my family i had to marry another person,two ...

We talk a lot online but face to face it seems he doesn't want to talk

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - So, I have this best friend who is a guy that I have been really good friends with for about 5-6 months. As you have probably guessed, I have really fallen for him and basically just want to know if you guys think he feels the same because I'm ...

He says he has stopped talking to his ex but they are best friends, it drives me crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. He still talks to his ex-girlfriend. They've been apart for years now and she also has a boyfriend. I know he has no feelings for her and I know he loves me, but it still makes me feel ...

My husband has a serious drinking problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - i've been married for 10 years; my husband has a drinking problem and it's worsening. He has promised to attend AA meetings. I'm thinking of leaving him. Is it right to leave him at this point when he has promised to attend AA meetings?...

My boyfriends sex drive is much higher than mine

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i love sex. But he wants it alot. He respects when i dont but when he cant get any from me he jacks off and he watches alot of porn. He says he is just like that and he cant help it. Why does he have such a high sex drive and is it ...

We talk a lot and have sex but he doesn't want me for a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I'ev been talking too this dude for 8months now. I like him alot and we spend a geat amount of time together i see him about 3 time or more durin a weekday and we see each other every weekend. He is the only dude I have sex with, and over the ...

My mother wont give my very, very shy boyfriend a chance

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4 February 2010 (F) - I started dating a guy ive known for years hes been a close friend for years. I live with my mother that has had a bad past and is single by choice and whom i am close with like shes my best friend. But hes not a socialble person with people hes ...

I believe he has changed, but my mother says he is a jerk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi I am 18 years old My boyfriend is 24 We first started dating when I was only 13 After almost five years together He changed and I knew something was wrong I kind of knew he was cheating I believe that us women just know that kind of things we get ...

My boyfriend doesn't show me affection

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4 February 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a few months and he does not show emotions at all but he takes care of me he tries to give me watever i ask for ..... Everyone has told me to leave him but i care about him....he took my virginity ...he is ...

I need to change my wardrobe to help gain some confidence

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - umm well im tired of myself not feeling good wen i dress up, i want to feel good when i get outside with my frends, so my question is how do i feel better? new clothes? and i do have very minnimum clothes to wear and i do try to make th...

Two failed engagements, I am now reluctant to try again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

4 February 2010 (M) - i am a boy of 25 i had 2 unsuccessful engagement yet now my family is insisting to engage me again and sometimes i also feel to engaged but due to problems i had in the past with my x-fancies i can't deer to... maybe due to the mood i had i have...

I can't tell the difference between love and infactuation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - What is love? And how do you tell the difference between love and infatuation?...

Do all men only worry about how good a woman looks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - How important are looks to men? The ones who show an interest in me seem to only ever care about the way I look. I had one boyfriend who even said he loved how anywhere we went together, all the guys would be jealous of him because he'd got me and ...

Both guys are cheaters, should I just get myself a new love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - Hi i just got back with my ex about a mouth ago and he's in the army but i know that he have girls calling his phone and all way walking away when i am around.... Now my other ex boyfriend wants to get back with me and he cheated on me to many times ...

Boyfriend constantly observes my eating habits and makes me feel bad about my weight!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - hi I was looking for some advice. My Fiance and I have been together 10mths. He is a great guy. the problem is that I am a bigger girl and he is skinny and tall. he wants to help me lose weight and not have any health problems down the road, but he ...

I don't know if I love my husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I dont know if i still love my boyfriend cause everyday we argue and am 23 and his 37 we have 3 kids together and one thats not his which is the oldes. I mean he has nowhere to stay if i tell him to leave my house.but he screams and is always in a ...

Mind Games or Is it really over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I met someone online 1.5 months ago. I blew him off for a week after our first conversation and apologized. I let him know I was talking to other people but nothing serious so I wanted to get to know him better. We met 3 weeks ago. He has a foot fet...

What is holding him back from marrying me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I've been with this guy for 7 years and now we have two kids together. I am ready to get married but I don't know if he is. I tell him all the time that it is time to make a true commitment but he just dont understand. All I want to know what is the ...

Help me figure out if my relationship is worth saving??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my current Boyfriend a little over a year. For the second time since we started dating, I'm thinking about breaking up with him. (the last time was in Nov.) Basically, I've been kinda peeved about how he doesn't really express ...

My boyfriend posted a pic of his private parts on line.

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4 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend posted his privates online, as his messenger picture. I don't know if I can trust him again and this really hurts. We've been together for 2.5yrs,(Sept 15th 2007) and have a 18month old son, Joseph, and I am currently 16wks pregnant. ...