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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together so long that I really can't imagine life without him. He feels the same way and we've somehow managed to stay together going to two separate colleges for the last two years. Lately, though, it seems like we're drifting apart. We used to talk on the phone every single night for like five hours while we did our homework; helping each other out and all. When we would see each other in person, things would just fall into place.Lately, though, we've been talking on the phone probably twice a week for about ten minutes each. It's been like this for three weeks now and I have no idea what's going on. I've called him several times and he never picks up anymore and texting is useless because his phone doesn't pick up the signal for like three or four hours after I send the message. It's getting aggravating and I really don't want to lose touch with him! I miss him so much right now, it actually physically pains me! He says he's been calling me, too, but I never see his number logged in my Missed Calls.What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): Hi i just went through this about 7 months ago with my long distance girl. We started to drift apart and it became like your situation, hourly nightly phone calls became 10 min nightly phone calls, getting less and less as the weeks went by :(. In the end it ended up with us breaking up and to this day i miss her more then anything in this world.. she was my soul mate and i dont know what happened, i think it was my fault, i did not put enough effort in and just took everything for granted, she tried to fix things but it was just no use.. i was into heavy drugs and my lifestyle was not right, i just wish i put in that extra effort to keep her and make the right decisions. I advise you that you start talking to him and telling him how you feel, explain everything and i mean EVERYTHING, but dont do it in a nagging tone, just do it in a venting tone, almost like you have to get shit of your chest... hope it works out .. never give up like.. goodluck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 February 2010):
Talk to him and tell him you're worried that you're drifting apart and you would like to put more effort into it. Tell him you're worried and that you'd like to fix it. This is the time where you need to put effort in.
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