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Archived questions from: 21 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it too late to write my ex bosses.to say I never was a thief at work or let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hi I have worked in a firm of separate partners under one roof and I was on main reception working for them all indirectly but none directly as they all had their own staff. All the time I was moaned at and when things went missing silly things...

My gf runs hot and cold with me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I have just seen this website and I'm looking for some help with the following situation. I am 22 years old and my girlfriend is 19. We have been together for 4 months now. She is the first girl I have ever loved and probably my only real mea...

Problems with my bf...need some opinions on my situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I am coming forward seeking an opinion on a live in relationship that I am currently involved in. For about the last six months I have been witnessing some behaviours that are hard to work with and around. My boyfriend does not want to do anything ...

How do I make some new female friends, again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - When I was in high school I was burned pretty bad by 3 girls that were suppose to be good friends of mine. Ever since the I didnt focus at all on getting new friends and I even avoided people. I find myself now at 23 sitting here with no friends....

I was raped by my ex boyfriend

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - bout a month to 2 months ago i was at my babys dads house who i am not with we have been split for a while now well we were having sex and he asked me if he could put it in my ass i said no he said comeon y not i said no sorry i cant do that so we ...

Is the stress of an LD relationship causing us to argue a lot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I've known this guy for over a year. We met on an online dating site. In the beginning we made plans to meet, but it never happened because I always flaked out. But he never gave up, always keeping in contact. So finally we meet. We hit it off ...

I am pregnat but worried something might have gone wrong

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I am pregnant at 26 years old and thin/fit...size 3/4. I am not showing at all! I have my first ultrasound on Thurs., but I'm so afraid something is wrong. After I was born, and my mother was pregnant again, she went for an ultrasound at 12...

My boyfriends attitude has changed since I told him I loved him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - helle my prob that there were a guy how loved me ; i guess ; he was nice to me , he took care of me and everything that i ever wish but i didn't love him i actualy taught that i hate him ; intel one day he totaly change he stop calling me akin me ...

Is it really a low sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Right here goes, My boyfriend tells me he has a low sex drive but our sex life is headnig down hill in my point of view. I havnt had sex for a week, even thought, he stayed round mine 3 night in a row and we only kissed occasionlly. I ha...

Will he leave me if he thinks the baby's not his?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - The thing is, I'm currently 37wks pregnant! I'm with my partner of 3years who I love to bits but when I fell pregnant we were going threw a bad patch and I slept with sum1 else round that time. My dr said I concieved the 25th and I slept with the ...

My principles say pay him back even though I think he used me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like to seek for your advice if it is a right thing to do. My LDR boyfriend and I of 4 yrs separated 4 months ago. Our love that I used to believe was not really a love at all but was just a mere fantasy. He used...

Three months on and I still have no closure...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I am feeling more lost, alone and scared than I ever thought possible. I met my ex in October 2005 and started seeing him in October 2005. He moved to my city (6 hours away) in January 2006, and until November 2009 we had only spent one night ...

I'm confused how he feels after our first date and wonder what I should do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I met this wonderful guy online. We are in our 40's. We hit it off on the spot. He wa open, I was not, I had one pic posted of myself,,bt his profile stated he only likes slim and slender, I am not I 'm not overweight, I have curves like I told him ...

Thoughts on Love, how do we cope knowing that the odds are against us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - As I am forty in a week's time and finding myself still single, it seemed a good time to write down some thoughts on Love and the seemingly endless amount of torment that we all seem to put ourselves through in its pursuit. And at times it really ...

I am so sick of my girlfriends lazyness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for around 4 years.we moved in and have lived together for 2.as of late she's been a bitch,anything and everything I do goes un noticed. She doesn't cook,clean,or help with bills.she likes to snap over the dumbest ...

What do I do to make things better between my daughter and I so that we can have a close relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I have made a mistake that hurt my daughter badly. It was 10 yrs. ago, when she was 10. This guy who was a 'friend' was coming up to our house. He was interested in starting a relationship with me and likewise. My daughter got a kind of like 'pu...

Do I choose the boyfriend who loves me, or the guy I really like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - ok here it goes...my name is eliza and me and my boyfriend have been toghether for a month he is a good guy but he is reallly immature and really obsessive and grabs my ass and my boobs like every 5 mins. He loves me but sometimes i dont know if i ...

My husband is unhappy because people now know about our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I left the military to be with husband. We kept our relationship on a down low because he is an officer and I was enlisted. But, I got out so that I could be with him and marry him with no problems. I had envited three of my closes friends from ...

How can I break this cycle of pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - Its been a couple of weeks. I was feeling good, and had managed to avoid her for pretty much the entire time. Today I saw her. A couple of weeks ago she cheated on me, and we broke up. I still care about her a lot, but I would never go back to...

I think he is about to propose and I find I am doubting my long term love for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years and lately have been having serious doubts and wondering if I should break up with him. We have had problems in the past due to his dishonesty and he has betrayed my trust and hurt me deeply several ...

I am uncomfortable with the recent increase in porn by boyfriend watches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Whats the opinion on boyfriends watching porn now and again? My bf and i have been together for three years now, live together. one day last year i found in our computers history that he had searched for some porn. not just for a porn site however ...

Although we are FWB he brings out the needy clingy in me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - i started the whole f.w.b. with a guy i had a crush on. at first we went on quite a few dates before we had sex, but soon after it was obvious he wasn't looking for a relationship. in fact as far as i know he's never been the relationship type with ...

When ever there is a private moment my stepdaughter flaunts herself

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - I am a man in his early 50's,,very fit and keep in good shape.I am also married with 2 teenage daughters,and another step daughter from my wife's previous marriage.We all had a lovely pleasant family unity until my step daughter started maturing and ...

My girlfriend's father is horrible and I worry about causing trouble for her and her mother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - Help! im 17 and have girlfriend who i think is the best. and we've been going out for 5 months now. It's all going pretty well but 1 things holding me back with her. Her father! I had heard horrible things about him before i started going ou...

I am in love with somebody who will never love me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - i love this one woman. and yes i know i'm young but i love her and she doesn't love me but we're really good friends. sometimes i think she likes me and other people think so too. but i know, i just know she doesn't actually like me like me. i don't ...

I told my flat mate of my girlfriend's abusive background

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - Hey, I broke up with my ex girlfreind about a month ago. My ex (who i still care for deeply and love very much) was sexually abused as a child by her father. This has affected her in certain ways in her adult life and made relationships very ...

I've been on the receiving end of a cheater!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I'm open to hearing what you have to say about this. Have any of you ever had an affair, or had someone cheat on YOU yourself? If so, what was the outcome? For those having the affair, if it was found out and suddenly out in the open, which ...

He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...

I met my perfect man about six weeks ago, but he only wants a platonic relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hi All! I will really appreciate any insight. I have a lot going on in my life right now, but feel like I have romantic needs. I've been looking for someone kind and mature for a long time. I met someone about a month and a half ago. He's ...

I fell in love but he only wants a platonic relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female who fell in love with a 29 year old male. We're both in college and I believe we are absolutely perfect together. He had been single for six years before he met me, and he isn't the type to fall for just anybody. He really ...

Should I maintain this relationship or look for somebody my parents will approve of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and have been dating my crush/best friend for over a year. By far, this is the best relationship I've been in so far because we're very compatible and honest with each other. He's really sweet, caring (not just to me, but to people ...

On facebook I messaged a guy, but he never responded

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I message this guy on Feb 11 from facebook right, and he haven't response to it.I message him because we would just both stare at each other without smiling or even speaking, and I thought maybe if i message him it would break the ice. He even ...

How honest should you be without risking losing a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - So i just have a basic question. I understand and am all for honesty in relationships, and believe honesty is always the best policy. So if you love someone so much and you dont ever want to lose them, are their limits. And of course its not ...

I am not sure who, or what, I am supposed to be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I look so short and fat. Im in my early 20s. I feel my life is all over because I don't have a good friend to share my problem with i feel so lonely every time. I feel so low when my other girl friends get a call from their boy friends i feel that i ...

I am a girl and wondering what it would be like to kiss another

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I usually date guys and like to flirt around them. I use to have a boyfriend but we broke up because it wasn't working out. I just didn't feel anything when we kissed. But this week i went to a work site at Pet Clinic just for one week. There...

I don't want to have sex, but at the same time am tempted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - So I'm in a situation with a guy that I've known for my whole life (literally). We just saw each other for the first time in years, and we got into some pretty heavy physical stuff, but we didn't have sex. I'm a virgin, and he wants to sleep with ...

She still think's I'll do anything for her, but I wont

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - alright so I have an ex girlfriend problem like many people do as well. This girl has most definetely got my heart for all the wierdest reasons. But About a month and a half ago we broke up because she wanted to be single or didnt want to be very ...

I couldnt talk online due to power failure but she thinks I was ignoring her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - i loved with one girl with whom i just talked in the phone. she knows that i love her and she too loves me but couple of weeks ago she called me online but there was no electricity because of which i could go but she thought i ignored her, plez help ...

I wish we could reverse roles so she would know what it feels like to be cheated on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - How do I React? My girlfriend came out to me that she’s been speaking to another guy for the last two months. She’s met up with him couple of times too. She told me that the reason she never picked up when I called her was because she was o...

Being opposites used to be great, now our relationship is falling apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for over a year, but only had 'title' for eight months. We are complete opposites, but in the beginning that was the best thing because we learned from one another's experiences. We both used to party once in a while, ...

I feel so insecure about my body and my boyfriend makes it worse.

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - I have amjor insecurity and jealousy issues concerning my body and my boyfriend. I know for instance he likes big breasts, I have small, and feel lacking. He's tired f discussing my insecurities all the time and told me to stop or he'll break up ...

We have been together 9 years and are engaged and I still haven't even met his son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Hi All, I have been with my fiance going on 9 years. We got engaged a year and a half ago but have never discussed wedding plans, his choice....whenever i used to begin, he would change the subject, now i don't bother. He is divorced and has a 21...

My girlfriend's father is horrible! Should I stay with her or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago