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writes:hi I wrote last night , title:I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to steal another man's girlfriend, but I cant help feeling this way! too clarify I am not trying too use her to stop my drinking problem. she knows I have a drinking problem and has helped me too slow down my drinking. I drink because my ex, best friend, cousin, and auntie all died in the same year about two years ago, my dad has to take a job driving cross country and is gone all the time, and I am helping too support my mother and father. she has been the only one I've ever been able too truly talk too. the only person I ever felt comfortable enough that I can open up too her. I don't really know what love feels like and these last couple years I've just been going through emotions until I met her. im genuinely happy around her. im not sure what love is but I can say that i have never felt this strong about anyone. I believe that this is real love. I want too tell her but like I previously said id be breaking my own principles by doing anything with her. we are extremely close, she comes too me before she goes too her boyfriend bout anything no matter how small. reading back on this I can say I love her. caringguy and the other responder I would like to have your advice. or if you havnt read the first one and want too search for the title I pasted above. please can I get some advice on what too do? I love this girl but she does have a boyfriend. please help. I know she has feelings for me cuz we just connect on a whole different level, I want too tell her but am scared of her response. what do I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 February 2010):
It makes no difference. Unless she leaves him for you, this is something that won't happen. Because if you stole her, or she cheated with you, you couldn't ever be sure about what she would do in the future. She needs to leave him first.
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