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I don't enjoy sex anymore, will this cause problems in my relationship?

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Question - (17 February 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2010)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *kha writes:

I think I need help sometimes if I'm having sex with my lover I don't anything and I thing that will cause problems into our relationship I don't know what to do

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

Miamine agony auntSorry, english is not your mother language. It is hard to understand you. You need to tell us more so we can help. Does the man hurt you? Do you find pleasure? Is he too fast, is he too slow.. Did you like sex before? Why do you not like sex with this man?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2010):

It will cause resentment. You need to find out about your own body and experiment a bit more so you know what works for you. The longer you do it but don't enjoy it, the more you will become resentful. Then you might not want to do it, and he will become more resentful. You should experiment a bit more with yourself and find out what you really like and what works for you, then work on it with your boyfriend too. See how that goes.

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