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Archived questions from: 8 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What does this really mean for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (?) - My boyfriend rarely kisses me any more, when we have sex there is no foreplay, no reciprocation of oral sex for me, never any kissing during sex, sometimes he's looking at me and other times just watching porn while I perform oral on him. I try ...

Opinions please on Trust!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for eleven months and on March will be our anniversary, but what's eating me inside is the fact that I still have fears and my past relationships are making me a slave. Every time I think about what is my girlfriend up ...

Family doesn't like new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Ok, there is this girl (23) that I really like, and its not like I love her but REALLY like, she completes my personality, she enjoys all the same things I do including dirtbikes, hockey, camping, sports, she's very much like me in A LOT of ways. We ...

Am I going about this the right way? Is there anything I should be doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Okay I’ll try not to go into this too much because it is a long story…. But me and my ex have been broken up for nearly 6 weeks (we were together for 7 months). We split up cos I suspected he wasn’t over his ex of 3 years (LDR) and he finally a...

Many times I get the distinct feeling that he's avoiding sex. What's the problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Please help. I am desperate for advice. I am in a very loving, mutually satisfying relationship with my boyfriend of one year now. We both agree that each is the best thing that has ever happened to the other and have even talked of marriage ...

Who do I choose? The guy I like, or the guy I don't want to hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I been through a lot with my muslim boyfriend being a secret to his parents and where he lives it tool three years to introduce me because I broke up with him. I wish he could have did it sooner. While we was broken up I met a wonderful guy we have ...

I wonder if she is going to break my heart again in this never ending cycle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - About two years ago, i was in a relationship with a really great girl. i mean this relationship was so good, it was hard to believe. i truly believed this person was my soul mate. well, i was planning on asking her to marry me, when she started to ...

He only says nice things to me when he's smoking weed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend over two and half years, i love him so much but he smokes weed all day which doesnt really bother me but it seems now thats hes only ever nice to me when he is high, when he hasnt had any weed he is really angry with me ...

He says all he wants in life is sex!!! Does this mean he doesn't care for me any more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, i am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I love him very much and always have, we`ve had our ups and downs but are still together. He is the first and only person i have ever slept with. However he never says "I love ...

He wants me to go through with this 3-some even although I'm not really that keen!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - A few weeks ago my fiance started texting me asking what I thought about threeseomes. I told him right away that I wanted to do one, thinking that he was talking about a FFM threeseome. I love to pleasure him and turn him on and he has told me ...

Am I paranoid? Am I overreacting? I feel trapped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - Hi, yet another issue of trust Iv had a long discussion with my gf about her talking to her ex and this guy she lied about a couple of times and also kissed, told her it unsettles me and i dont really feel secure because of it. she- however - ...

Is he moving way too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - ok, so there is this guy I have been seeing for about 3 weeks now. But I dunno if I should keep this going, I feel it makes me sound shallow when I say this but I am not attracted to him in a phyical since. He is perfect for me in every way except ...

He admits that he occasionally wishes he were single!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very much. It may seem fast, but I feel that he's the one and I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. However he has admitted that he occassionally wishes he was si...

I had a bad feeling he's hiding something from me, so I went through his messages!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I had a bad feeling that my new(first) boyfriend was hiding something from me.. for the simple fact that every time he got a msg he would turn his fone away so as i couldn't see it.. so after several opportunities to look thru his fone i finally ...

3 months married and I feel I've made a BIG mistake!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Reposted with an update: We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before th...

I found condoms in his jacket but they're NOT ours!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend been together for 3 year we have a real rocky past but for the last 4 months I feel like we have really connected. Until I found condoms in is jackets. They're not ours so I confronted him about it and he gave me stupid ...

Threesome heartbreak...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hi. well where can i start, when my bf and i started dating, in the heat of passion i told him i would doing anything for him, even have another women with him. Later on in the relationship i told him i had a threesome with my best friend and her ...

How can I stop being so jealous and why am I so jealous with my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I am sooooo jealous with my boyfriend, and I dont know why. I Have never been jealouse with any of my past boyfriends. I started being jealous with this boyfriend at the 5 month mark I'd say. We've been together for 9 years now. And I get so...

Got back with my ex because I thought he'd changed... but he hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Me and a guy have been together for like a year. We met at a party and got totally involved in each other although he was in a relationship with someone else but he told me he would break up with her and that he doesn't contact her anymore.. ...

I wonder if he will ever open up and let me in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Ok, so I have been with my current partner for nearly 6 months now. It's been the first relationship in nearly 10 years where I can honestly say that I really like him. He has his head screwed on the right way, works for himself, has his own house ...

My pregnant girlfriend is insisting I move or lose all contact

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

8 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is 6 moths pregnant, now we are arranging to start living together, she lives with her sister in london and I do live in mantchester, now the thing is she says I should go and live in london with them, but I asked her to come over here ...

When it comes to nudity and porn my boyfriend has double standards

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has double stanards. He likes watching porn and even though he's not addicted, he'll defend his porn use until he dies! Well, I don't like him looking at other women. I don't like thinking he gets pleasure from others. I know ...

I tried to spice up our love life but he was shocked

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Hope you can help and understand what i am asking I am not sure how to write this but hope you can get the jest in what what i am asking. My husband and I have been trying to get our marriage back on track after I found out he had been cheating on...

I was stood up for New Year, and since then we have only texted, I don't know where I stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - l am 23 and my guy is 26. we have been dating for 1 year. the problem is l don't know if he still loves me or not. was suppose to meet him on new years and he didn't turn up. l didn't contact him and he didn't also. l then texted him twice last week ...

How to stop being envious of other girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - There's this girl who my ex boyfriend used to date and at the time I was dating him. I was so jealous of her because she was PERFECT. People always say no ones perfect but she is. Every guy wants her and everyone thinks she's beautiful. She's a ...

I'm being criticized by a teenage boy! Why is he behaving like this and how can I get him to respect me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - HI. I'm a happily single 35 yr. old woman. I go to church alone and even though I've been going to this particular church for more than 2 yr.s it hasn't been easy for me to make friends there. Lots of people smile and say hi but they don't really ...

I think I'm driving men away due to trust issues from past relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I think I have serious trust issue's with men. Had to serious long term relationships the first being with my son's dad who cheated on me when my son was 3 months old. The next I was with him for 6 years and he was a free loader which I now see at ...

My boyfriend isnt giving me any time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - i am in a committed relationship since 7 months.the guy i am having in my life is my first boyfriend and i am his first girlfriend.we both really love each other.he says i m the most important part of his life.but now a days his actions have ...

I can barely go to my boyfriend's house without wanting to punch his mom in the face! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - okay so i have this problem with my boyfriends mother i hate hate hate her with a passion!!! she has the worst parenting skills in the world , she screams 24/7 and she moves things and then accuses my boyfriend and his brother of stealing them , ...

I told him he has to be out by March but I want him out now!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I have a huge problem ! My boyfriend and I broke up I called it quits after 5months. He was living with me and my son and I told him that he has to give me half of my rent which is 400 my rent is 700 no problem he has been doing that. Latley we have ...

What should I do..he wants to bring his mother and stay nearby for a week following the birth of our child. I barely know them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so here is the question. I'm pregnant, 37 years old and got pregnant almost immediately after I met the man who is the father. I've always wanted children and thought I would have them on my own by the time I was 40 (if I didn't have them by ...

Cold shoulder. My fault or his?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - First let me start off describing my relationship with this guy, Samuel. I am head over heels for this kid and he knows it. We dated a while back, but he was having family troubles and we decided he needed to work things out. Recently we have been ...

Plagued by indecision and don't know what to do for the best... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5200 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - Plagued by indecision, and am in need of some advice, or maybe someone to shed some light where I can not see! I left my boyfriend of 4 years a few months ago, we have a 3 year old, and Im 15 weeks pregnant. (Im 28) I am so thrilled to be p...

Since I've fallen pregnant he seems disinterested in me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going for two years strong, until a few months ago when we found out that I was pregnant. Ever since I told him he has been very distant towards me, flirting with other girls, focussing souly on his looks and nightclubs, ...