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Archived questions from: 11 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend wants to get married but I can't get this other guy out of my head!

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11 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. When we first starting dating I was working at a restaurant and met one of the waitors there who just blew me away. Ive never met anyone like him EVER! He ended up leaving and goin...

I love her and she's worked so hard to get her life together, but can I get over her past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Should I stay with my ex-girlfriend? I am 24 and she is 27. I love her and am miserable without her but her but her past bothers me. Before she was with me she had sex with at least 15 people (I've been with 7) and even had threesomes. She was ...

I'm feeling like my marriage was based on lies...i don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I have just found out through a source of my own(not him) that my now husband was in love was somebody else while he was with me. It happened years ago before we were married but I now feel that our marriage is based on lies. I don't know that i can ...

Why is my boyfriend starting to distance himself, when everything is going well?

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11 February 2010 (F) - We've been dating for 9 months, so we've pretty much went through almost everything. From him losing interest, being too controlling, and me being sick of putting all the effort into our relationship because i wasn't getting anything back. ...

Is it wise to leave my 28 years old fiance for a 53 years old man?

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11 February 2010 (F) - It's about 5 years already that I'm just attracted to older men.I can not be with young guys for too long.I find them boring,unreliable,hard to deal with... but because of my mum who is so angry at me for loving an older man that she just saw his ...

My sisters breasts are bigger than mine, will he choose her over me?

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11 February 2010 (?) - Hi, I am with a man, and I love him and he loves me deeply. But he is very, very sexual. He watches porn all the time and he basically has one of the highest sex drives knows to man. Well, I have this insecurity. I have really small brea...

I told myself I would move on and be happy, but what happens now?

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11 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, A few years before meeting my boyfriend, I flew back to my homeland to spend some time with my family. I was then introduced to a close family friend, who was just 2 years older than I. He was really handsome and he became intereste...

Why must I wait weeks to hear from her and months to see her?

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11 February 2010 (M) - Oh boy, I have problem. I don't even know where to start with my question so I'll just tell the whole story. I have two very important women in my life. The first is my girlfriend of five years- my love.The second is a very close female friend who ...

This guy despises my family...what would you do in my situation?

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11 February 2010 (?) - Female here, 54. I have a bf who is 52, never had children. He and I have been dating, for 4 years. In Sept 09 he moved to go to work, at the other end of the country. Where his own family (brothers, neices, nephews, aged father) lives. The ...

Is it normal for a man not to send their loved one, a Valentine's card?

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11 February 2010 (F) - Should a man you are seeing send a Valentines? Hi - well my guy has never really been Mr Romantic and he does send Xmas and birthday cards - but last year there was no Valentine and this year he said he hasn't got round to getting me a card yet (so ...

The ex factor - am I being jealous for no reason or should I confront him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year (but have been best friends for 5) and am very much in love and think we have the perfect relationship. We talk about being together forever, having kids etc and in 3 moths we are off travelling around ...

Does his silence mean that he was cheating or that he was offended I asked?

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11 February 2010 (F) - I asked my 36 year old boyfriend just before Christmas if there was someone else (as he had been acting 'off' for several months). He hasn't spoken to me since. Do I take it from this that he was seeing someone else or was he offended that I asked ...

I want to finish things with him but feel like I'll be kicking someone when they're down.

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11 February 2010 (F) - Hello all, I probably already know the answer to this question but I wanted to bounce it off everyone. I'm divorced and an older woman, so I should know better. My boyfriend is no kid either. He is divorced and his ex-wife constantly keeps his 9 ...

I cant cope with my husband's penchant for porn!

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11 February 2010 (F) - I need some advice! My marriage is, for the most part, amazing! I am crazy in love with my husband, and he feels the same way for me. There is one thing I cannot seem to get over. He has a penchant for porn. When I don't think about him lookin...

He keeps putting a lot of pressure on me, should I date him again or not?

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11 February 2010 (F) - Ok so im a 14 year old girl. this kid i went out with before is 16. he keeps trying to go out with me again. he used to text me to try and get me to send him a pic of me naked and would get mad when i refused. he would tell me im weird and no one ...

Is it too late to give her space?

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11 February 2010 (M) - I got mad at my girlfriend and she broke up with me after a year of dating she said she didnt think i trusted her and told me she couldnt take me back so soon and that she needed space. she let me see her after a week and said she still loved me and ...

Should I date her again?

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11 February 2010 (M) - Ok so I dated this girl during hoemcoming and I left a stupid text on my phone saying I was going to hug this girl friend thats just a friend and she ditched me for her ex right in front of everyone and she tore up a 20$ corsage that I did hours or ...

Waiting to be struck by Cupid for Valentines Day!

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11 February 2010 (F) - How long after you date a guy for him to know that he is ready to be in a committed relationship or dating u exclusively? What does it mean if he say, "You may not know it. But, you may already like me. We seem to click and should be in a ...

How can I get past my fears of being in a relationship?

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11 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I am a 27 year old woman, virgin, and has never been in a relationship. My longest relationship was for 2 months. Every time I meet someone, I freak out and end the relationship. I hate this about myself. This is the one thing I am m...

I told her I didnt want to be with her anymore and now she is claiming to be pregnant and having miscarriages, is she faking and should I be worried?

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11 February 2010 (M) - so i had sex without a condom (dumb idea i know) anyways i never really was worried about her being pregnant but we had gotten in a fight the next day and she brought up the fact she was nervous about it. It was on my mind for about a week and we ...

Is it wrong to kiss your best friend while your on a break with your boyfriend?

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11 February 2010 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend and i got into a really big fight and decided to take a break. So, about after a week into our break i called my best guy friend over to make me feel better. We kissed. It was unexpected and neither of us planned it. We both agreed ...

I love my boyfriend, yet I miss the way this "fling" guy used to hold me and kiss me!

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11 February 2010 (F) - Alright, I am a college gal (junior). I started dating this guy in high school, then we went to two separate colleges in different states. We continued a serious long distance relationship, visiting each other every few weekends and such... seemed ...

I feel it is not fair that my wife wont give me anal sex when my ex-partners enjoyed it so much!

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11 February 2010 (M) - do girls like anal sex, Ive been after my wife for 7 years and she just won't give it too me. I feel like thats not fair, Ive had other relationships where my partner enjoyed it sooooooooo much. how do i get my wife to try something new, we've ...

I still can't get over him...

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11 February 2010 (F) - Here's the situation. The guy i've liked for months knew I liked him, and told me he liked me back. (This was a few months ago) But like eventually, he told me he had family problems and problems with his friends and didn't have time for a relat...

Does he behave this way because he is jealous or because he loves me?

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11 February 2010 (F) - since my boyfriend doesn't like when i smile at people ,who smile at me do you think he is jealous or because he loves me?...

How can I get my best friend to believe me? She is dating my ex and he is only going to end up hurting her!

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11 February 2010 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have been broken up for about three months now. He broke up with me so I still have feelings for him. My best friend likes him and they went out before we were friends. He broke my heart and hers many,many times and I don't ...

How do I ask my partner to leave without having any detrimental repercussions to my property assets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid Readers… Here’s my question. My de-facto relationship status of 2yrs and 7mths is at a dismal end and I'd like to know how to ask my partner (D) to leave without causing or having any detrimental repercussions to my property assets?...

I'm starting to think there might be something wrong with me, could my psychiatrist be right about me?

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11 February 2010 (F) - I have never been in a relationship.I am starting to think their is something wrong with me, i finally get the one guy i want and i run after 2 months. I never let it get serious and only kissed him once. Shortly after he and my best friend started ...

We used to be good friends but now that we are dating we fight all the time ....

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11 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for close to 6 months now, and before that we were very good friends for quite some time. Now that we're dating all we ever seem to do is argue, and although I do truly care about him, I know this is not the ...

Does kissing a guy make me a whore?

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11 February 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend, we`ve been together for about 20 months now and + he is the best and most sweetest guy I have ever know. The problem though, is not him, it`s me. I have very strong feelings for this other guy. This other guy has a girlfriend ...

I admitted my past to him, now he wants to date other girls as well as me

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11 February 2010 (F) - bout six years ago, I had a really, really close male friend who I was head over heels for. We were friends with benefits for a while. I thought - as a typical, inexperienced 15 year old girl - that this would make him fall for me. It didn't, ...

My boyfriend has suggested a threesome, I'm worried I might feel jealous if we do

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11 February 2010 (F) - I am 20 years old and have been in an a serious monagomous relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now..sex is great, we don't fight, and we love eachother...Recently he brought up bringing someone else into the bedroom or maybe even having ...

I asked a girl to my prom, she accepted, now I am worrying about it all

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11 February 2010 (M) - Okay so I'm in 11th grade and like a girl in 9th. So I ask her to go to the prom. She says yes with extreme happiness. So for a few days I think she must like me. But now it finally dawned on me that probably the only reason she said yes was because ...

He now is seeing another girl, and I want to get him back!

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11 February 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy over 1 year. We are not exactly in a relationship but I believe he was interested in me when we met first time in person. We met online.. He lives in the other state, so usually we talk on the phone. We talk like ...

I feel like I am a push over for him

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11 February 2010 (F) - I feel like I sold out. Basically, around 2 years ago I started a new job in an office working for an insurance company. It's a great job with great pay, and great people, I'm really happy there. One workmate i bonded with in particular was a...

She was back in town and I didn't even know... why is she so distant now?

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11 February 2010 (M) - I have been seeing this woman for almost a year and a half. Last May she went back home to New Brunswick to be with her sick mom. We were having the long distance relationship thing and it was ok. I recently discovered she was back here when she ...

Boil the kettle before you read... I Need a lot of help!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

11 February 2010 (M) - Like the title suggests boil the kettle before you read this as it is going to be a very long story asking for advice. About 3 years ago, I joined the army straight out of school and had met a girl had an ok relationship but to be fair i was quite...

Boyfriend's behaviour might be giving me second thoughts...

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11 February 2010 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for three years now and i thought i loved him with all my heart. In my eyes he could do no wrong, hes gorgeous funny trustworthy and my best friend in the world. The only problem in the relationship was that he can't ...