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Archived questions from: 6 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She is starting to get naggy...

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6 February 2010 (M) - Im going out with my girlfriend now for about 2 months.. But Im confused.. I think shes starting to get naggy.. To be honest I cant put up with that.. I dont know weather to break up or not.. If we do Ill get all the blame and probaly get a name ...

Internet man troubles. I am confused!

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6 February 2010 (F) - Hi I have been talking to a guy on the internet for 4 months getting on really well. Text me xmas and new year's eve then suddenly went quiet. Text him and he told me he was just really stressed and didn't have time for anything other than work, I ...

Boyfriend more interested in computer games than me. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

6 February 2010 (F) - Hi guys! I have a problem with asking for what I want in my relationship. My boyfriend is a lovely person, I love him very much. He loves video games. He plays online shooters with a bunch of friends. My problem is he does this a lot. I feel as t...

When I am not with him I get a terrible sinking feeling

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6 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 6 months. I love him so much more than I have EVER loved anyone, and I truly believe he feels the same way about me. I had a crush on him for 2 years before we started seeing each other, and he is THE BEST thing that has ...

I kicked him out and although its very peaceful I am tempted to call him

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6 February 2010 (F) - Hi. I don't know if you remember me or not, but I was on here some months ago upset because of everything that had happened in my relationship. My husband had threatened to kill himself twice when we were dating, kept making excuses about not buying ...

She said we needed a break, but I don't know why

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6 February 2010 (M) - Okay so me and my girlfriend have been having problems things just don't seem to be how they use to be in our relationship like she use to tell me she loved me all the time and well there use to be passion in our relationship now it just seems like ...

I want to ask a girl out but things are a bit difficult

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6 February 2010 (M) - Moderator's Note: two questions have been combined. I am 13 and have a hign pitched voice and a bit over weight. there is a girl i like but before i do anything i need to lose weight and lower my voice. Any tips on how to do any of these things? ...

He scares me with the things he says about sex!

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6 February 2010 (F) - ok soo imm going to be 16 in 2 months. the guy im talking to will be 19 in 5 days. we have been talking on the phone and texting for about 2 months now. we`ve hung out 3 times. once in a group, once on our own, and then he came to watch me cheer one ...

My husband wont stop watching porn

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6 February 2010 (F) - My husband of only a year loves to watch porn. I dont think he is addicted to it. But if i leave the house for a long period of time he will sneak off and watch it behind my back. I used to have better self esteem. But ever since i found out about ...

He got a birthday card from his child and the mother, what does this mean

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6 February 2010 (F) - If a woman throws her boyfriend out of the house and tells him to leave and then 6 months later sends him a birthday card is she wanting him back?? I have been seeing a man who split up with his girlfriend but they have a child and still see each...

He told me not to wear makeup because I look like a tramp, now he wont answer my calls

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6 February 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nine months...we've had arguments in the past, but we've always pulled through. We love eachother so much, or at least I thought he loved me... But today I rang him up to see if he wanted to meet up (we see ...

I set up a boy as a backup in case the boy I liked didnt like me, but now my friend has decided she likes my backup guy

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6 February 2010 (F) - ok so theres this boy i have liked for nearly a year now but im always really rervous 2 say anthin 2 him, so i came up wiv a "safty-net" hu seems quite interested in me so incase i didnt get with the boy i wanted to originally if i never asked him ...

I've fallen in love with a married girl

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6 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I am a complete novice at this but I need advice. I have a nature of being a friendly flirt all harmless though. Ok a Girl started working where I work and has only been married for two months, I noticed she was always alone so I just started ...

I've said I wont move back in until he is divorced, so why is he taking so long

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6 February 2010 (F) - hi there, i met my partner 4 years ago, he told me he was seperated and looking for a new relationship, we clicked right away and we were in love in a few weeks i thot he was the most well mannered man id ever met he is 16 years older than me i was ...

My boyfriend is very controlling

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6 February 2010 (F) - Should I be with a guy that I was with four years and was a secret. He never took me where he lived and never took me to his parents. I always felt hurt about it cause my past relationship was not like that I would cry to him sayiing I don't want it ...

I feel he doesn't love me anymore

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6 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I will have been married for a year in about a week. We had a son before our marriage, and all throughout my pregnancy he never had an issue with wanting to have sex with me. About a month ago we found out I am pregnant again. Since ...

Would this mean she had sex with another man?

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6 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend went out partying and didnt come home till noon the next day That night we started having sex About 5 mins into it we stopped She was hiding her virgina when i asked to see it it was swole ang puffy than normal Did she have sex with a ...

Two weeks after I found out I was pregnant, he started acting like all the women want him!

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6 February 2010 (F) - Im carrying my boyfriends baby, 2 weeks after I found out I was pregnant he started acting like he is the hottest thing alive and that all the women wanted him, and his drinking increased and he wanted me to drive him around, I discussed this with ...

Should I trust him or divorce him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

6 February 2010 (F) - We've married for 14 years and no child. Recently I discovered my husband act differently. He started to pay attention on his appearance and he will go jogging with this female co-worker 3 times a week at his work place till 2330 hr. I've requested ...

What should I think about these drunken incidents and the hickies?

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6 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend called me last night,said he was going to come pick me up, after 3 when he called i didnt hear from him all night,i got dressed and waited..after about 9 hours of waiting i went to sleep,i got a phone call at 10 this morning, it was him ...

If you love someone and are committed to them, shouldn't you forgive them and deal with whatever made you unhappy about them?

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6 February 2010 (F) - If I find myself in a situation where my man can't accept my past because we always fight about it and I end up feeling so lost because I don't know what to do, I apologise to him all the time but it ends up feeling like he's not hearing me? My ...

He never told me he wanted to be just friends! What do I do?

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6 February 2010 (F) - Hello, Please help I had a relationship with a man for 1 month and 2 weeks .He told me that he is looking to settle down with a woman and that iam what he is looking for. So he always tells me to send him e-mails or call him .One day we went out ...

It creeps me out that he keeps trying things when he thinks I'm asleep!

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6 February 2010 (F) - I really don't know where to begin but my boyfriend does things to me in my sleep, for example last night he wrapped my hair around his penis and started masterbating. He also puts his hand down my pj's and feels around but I don't let him achieve ...

Why would my so called best friend do this to me??

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6 February 2010 (F) - my best Friend said we should get really drunk and sleep with Random stranger when we go on holiday. i said am not going to get drunk and sleep with Random strangers THX. she called me a boring.Kan.k:( i took off our marriage on face book.. ...

I'm going on holiday with my b/f and wondering if I can wear a bikini

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6 February 2010 (F) - hey, Im a size 16 and im going on my first sun holiday this summer!! Im going with my bf so i want to look really good but im so worried about bikinis. Can someone please tell me wear i can get ones that will flatter my body but still look r...

I have a FWB relationship with my best friend, but I want more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

6 February 2010 (F) - I'm in a FWB relationship. Now let me be honest, it isn't a casual acquaintance, he's my very best friend and we hang out almost daily, call to say goodnight, share a bed etc even when we are not having sex. Recently I've been thinking that un...

He broke up with his g/f but still isnt ready for a committed relationship with me

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6 February 2010 (F) - When I started seeing this certain guy I knew he had a long distance girlfriend, we broke up a month ago because of it. Now he has broken up with his long distance girlfriend but says he is not yet ready for a commitment relationship with me. ...

6 years later she realised she hadn't forgiven me and left

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

6 February 2010 (M) - About 6 years ago on a lad's holiday I cheated on my girlfriend with a prostitute. (we had been going out for 4mths) It's the worst thing I've ever done and I instantly regretted it. I came home and confessed to her and thankfully she forgave me and ...

Can anything else go wrong?

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6 February 2010 (F) - Anyone ever had 2 weeks of your life where everything is going wrong and you cant see any light at the end of the tunnel??? I failed my driving test-again! I didnt get a promotion at work-despite the fact i work twice as hard and the girl that got...

I hate her and I cant let it go

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6 February 2010 (F) - Several years ago, I fell in love with a boy. A girl that I was friends with at the time liked him to and dated him behind my back. Both of them were aware of what they were doing to me. She was always jealous of me and had issues of her own at ho...

How can I forget a girl I never even went out with?

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6 February 2010 (M) - first girl i loved was when i was 17 yrs old.. and i am 22 now.. back then i did not date her but we were very close friends. I wanted for us to be together but she did not want that because her best friend really liked me. so that didn't happen and ...

Our friend just got a new girlfriend and none of us like her!

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6 February 2010 (F) - my best guy friend just got a new girl friend and none of our friends like her. she's just awful and she's cheated on every boyfriend she's ever had.we all love him and would hate to see him get hurt. we were wondering if there was a way to break ...

Should I give my ex's best friend a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

6 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I of one month broke up earlier today. This is our second and last break-up, we broke up last Tuesday (though the whole process was three days)and we decided to get back together this past Monday. I'm hurt but deep ...

Why wouldnt my b/f give us another chance if we ever broke up?

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6 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my fiance have only been together for about 1 1/2 or 2 years. Of course we have our ups/downs like every body else. But, he says that if we ever break-up he will never come back to me.He said if we break up for any reason at all. ...

My wife is going to divorce me and wont listen to me

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6 February 2010 (M) - me and my wife had arugement around christmas about my step daughter brining mher boy-freind over house when i don't like the kid and how i come i always have money to pay the bills. the arugement got heat and alot was said i called my wife a whore ...

My b/f likes to admire other girl's looks

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6 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, How am I supposed to feel about my fiance talking about another female? This includes whenever I'm around him/when I'm not.He has even talked about how good another girl looks when I was on the phone with him one night. He was having a...

I am worried about hair in the nether regions

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6 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old female who is suffering from hair on my butt, not my cheeks, it's inside of my cheeks around my hole. ( I apologize for graphis terms). I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months, and we haven't really gotten to the sexual area ...

Does he love me or is he trying to get out of marrying me

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6 February 2010 (F) - I am married woman due to my husbands abuse and very suspicous behaviour I felt all alone. My husband had his first love and he could not forget and my comparsion. Listening to dirt words. after a year of marriage i deliverd a baby boy who is ...

Could my lack of experience turn my boyfriend off?

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6 February 2010 (F) - Thanks for your time. I just turned 18 and im still a virgen and iv never gave guys bj's or any thing like that. My bf is a all most a year older then me and i know hes had sex and had bj's before and hes more experanced in that then me and im ...

I don't want to be the overbearing mother but I can't have her having sex with a guy that can't commit to her!

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6 February 2010 (F) - Aunts I need your help. My daughter is 18 yrs old, when she was 16 she met Ryan and they dated for 6 months and she got pregnant. Ryan was very supportive during the pregnancy but once my granddaughter was born he was inmature, spending a lot o...

I sometimes wonder if he ever did plan on marrying me

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6 February 2010 (F) - dear cupid's lounge, i have a question because quite frankly I'm at a loss. When my boyfriend and I were together 1 1/2 yrs(almost to the day)we got the news that we were going to have a baby. There were ups and downs because he thought he ...

Can I trust my girlfriend?

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6 February 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend almost 14 months, she attracts a massive amount of attention from other males, a wee while ago she left herself logged into a social networking site, and when i realised she was still logged in i took a little look in ...

I want to have a relationship with him but his ex is always in his head

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6 February 2010 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now,we got together right after his girlfriend/babys momma of 3 years left him,he constantly looks up her myspace,but tells me hes looking for updates about his daughter,when i know hes kinda stalking her,he ...

He fancies me, he fancies me not ...........

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6 February 2010 (F) - Well, this is quite a simple question. All i need to know is this. Does this man fancy me. I've been looking at this from every single angle i can think of, and i come back to yes, he does. But the thing is. He is not like some men. The story is t...

We live together and tonight he said sex is a meaningless act

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6 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. Recently it's like he's lost all interest in being intimate with me. Just tonight actually he told me that he thinks sex is a meaningless act! How could you possibly think that it's ...

He is a horrible abusive man but I cant let go of him

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6 February 2010 (F) - I can't let go of this abusive, horrible man. He has such a hold on me! I love him a lot, I don't why but I love him so deeply and I just can't let go. If he apologizes and wants me back, I just can't seem to resist. I still see more pros than cons ...

I'm confused over this guy who is always there for me

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6 February 2010 (F) - Theres a guy who I've been friendly with for a year now since we first started College. For the past 2 months, we've started to get closer in general. Hes bought me lunch, drinks, he's sorted things out for me, we've hugged, snuggled up watching TV, ...

I don't understand him, or is the problem me?

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6 February 2010 (F) - hi guys hope u can help bit of a long story but here we go. ive been with my partner 7 years and we have one son together (4 years old). we deeply love each other but the problem is his family. im a very straight forward person and spea...

Am I still in love with this guy after all these years?

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6 February 2010 (F) - I have always had problems with my love life. I don't think I have ever gotten over my first love. I always find myself thinking and dreaming about this guy. I haven't seen him for 30 years. Just recently he found me on facebook and starting ...

I am hurting so bad and all he shows is anger

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6 February 2010 (F) - About a month ago I posted a question about trying to fix my relationship. I was having a hard time fixing it by myself and he was putting forth no effort and I left him (changed my number, blocked him from internet communications). He would show up ...

We have solved our problems but other people wont forget

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6 February 2010 (F) - i had some problems with a guy in september,october,and early november. we solved those problems and we are now boyfriend and girlfriend but no one will let us forget about what happened in the past. we have moved on and have now been dating for ...