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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Can anybody feel my frustration and confusion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - We're LIKE a romantic couple but truth is he hasnt ask me yet but instead shocking me with the suggestion "let? "let's be best friends" why would a guy who likes her thinks that he doesnt want to confuse himself anymore and thinks they should a...

Do I just cut all ties and walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I split up from my ex about 3 months ago, thay left me for someone else. Yes it hurt but i've got on with things. I have been in contact with them often but just recently they keep telling me the grass is not greener and they've made my bed so ...

Trust is a big issue in our relationship, and that's what we're lacking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 6 months. Trust is a big issue in our relationship, and that's what we're lacking. I can’t really say that we both started off the wrong or right foot. At the very begin of our relationship, he ...

Should I stay with my muslim boyfriend and try to make it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I just broke up with my muslim boyfriend we were together over 3 years... we were good for the first year but then I couldn't deal with me being a secret anymore all we would do is get into aruements about it but all he would do is ignore the ...

I just can't take much more of this sneaking around.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Please no judgment or negative comments. I have been married for about 5 years and about a year ago my husband’s best friend started to be real friendly with me. My husband’s best friend is nowhere near my type. He is not something I would be ...

Should I write this relationship off soon or continue waiting, with the possibility he will never be ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) - My boyfriend says he loves me a lot and is extremely happy, but does not want marriage very soon, encouraged me to move closer to my job, which is an hour away from the town we both live in right now, and talks about how he'd like his future home to ...

He's clearly not into me any more but why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi Guys I AM PUZZLED?!? I was seeing a guy that I really liked for about a month and then went to Thailand for three weeks. We live 10 minutes away and the sex was amazing. We spoke whilst I was away and he said he missed me, then when i return...

How do I improve this situation? My boyfriend is not giving me any time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - well...umm im in a committed long distance relationship.its going to be almost 8months.i remember that the first 3months my bf used to go crazy with me.he used to text me a lot and even call.but now it seems as a dream.i know its not possible to be ...

My sex drive has really increased but it seems like we are having less sex than before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is always really swamped with work, and usually I am too. However, he's always had a huge sex drive, and I a medium one. I'd try really hard to get in the mood, even when I naturally wasn't, and he seemed to be supportive when I ...

I can't walk away but I don't want to be his little bitch either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal; I like this guy a lot. And I'm really comfortable with him more than any other guy. We went out twice before and he ended up lying to me both times. The first time he cheated on me and the second time he told me he loved me ...

I cant help but feel like I got myself into another horrible situation way too soon

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I don't even know where to begin... but I am in need of advice... Back in June I had left my fiance of 3years because I didn't feel he was the one for me, and he was becoming overly possessive and controlling, to the point where I would get "punishe...

Need opinions on what happened to me..thank you for reading!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I am writing this as my "burn letter", to free me from the pain I am going through and to try to get over this and ask people what did I do wrong so please bear with me and read this, thanks! I went about 4 times with a girl in nov. 2008 (we were...

I'm so confused, is he cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I have dated 3 guys, and 2 of them have cheated on me (cheated on 7 times between both my exes) and now i have a new boyfriend we have been dating for 1 year and 3 months, i recently found pictures of a naked chick on his phone, he doesnt know i ...

Did I make the right decision to cut him off and let him miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My relationship of nine months ended 2 months ago because my ex boyfriend didnt have feelings for me anymore, wanted time and space for him alone, and we argued too much! He was tired of fighting. It was a hard break up for me cuz i loved him, we ...

I cant accept that she hates me! What is the meaning behind her blocking me on Facebook and not replying to my emails?

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16 February 2010 (M) - I have 20 years and am a boy. I love a girl for almost 7 years. I am certain that she was too. But i never communicate my emotions to her properly, (it was only through body language). Now we are enrolled in different universities and i have ...

He feels that since he buys me things and gives me money I should tolerate his bulls**t

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - So, Confused for something I haven't done wrong. I have been in a rocky off and on again relationship for more than 4yrs. I have been through physical violence and disrespect you name it..infidelity and everything in the book..I've taken him back ...

What can these guys online give her that I can not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a girlfriend problem. We've been seeing each other for about a year now, but lately I've seen a different side to her. She's always been a little edgy when it comes to my exes, never wanted me to talk about them. But now all she ...

Does this sound like there is hope for the future or is she just trying to let me down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Ok, long story, and any advice from the women on this forum who have been in a similar situation would be greatly appreciated. My girlfriend of 5 yrs left me this past week. I am going through what you might expect. Complete loss of appetite, ...

He broke up with me because some other guy claimed he'd had sex with me! I don't know what to do, I'm still in love with him....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - hi, am 18. i dated a guy for like 3 months we loved each other, and things were going fine till an unknown guy showed up and started claiming to have had sex with me on all occasions.that he should stay clear off me.initially i told him was a virgin ...

Torn between my ex and my new boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - i went out with this guy for 4 n half years and he cheated on me twice and continuously broke my heart, In the end he left me to be with the girl he cheated on me with, that was nearly 5 years ago and since then they have had a child together. ...

My girlfriend found my fetish through my computer history, now I'm worried she will never be able to get over this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm in a horrible situation and its killing both me and my gf. I've been in a relationship for two years now and despite what I'm about to say, I've never been happier, I can imagine not growing up and living my life with my gf, my freinds s...

Can anyone help me with my doubts about counselors?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Can someone please enlighten me? I am very skeptical about the role of counselors in helping with marriage problems. Several people in reply to my posts have suggested seeing a counselor to get things out in the open and get answers to quest...

She is a moody aquarius and doesn't seem to know what she wants!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - This girl and I were friends for 2 years and a half then suddenly i began to like her, but i was several month of me liking her sometimes but not feeling that i have feelings and i couldn't like understanding whats going on...then i began to like ...

It really hurts to not be able to speak to him and for him to be so nasty

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi Guys. My questions is regarding my ex/on-off partner. We've been together for years and split up on-off over the last 18 months. We always stayed in touch and stayed friends and there are still feelings between us and we are still attracted but ...

I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to steal another man's girlfriend, but I cant help feeling this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - having a little problem here. im working with this girl and we are extremely close. honestly I do have very strong feelings im not sure what this is I just know that I love being around her and just talking with her. but there's a problem she has a ...

He has asked me to marry him after all his revelations, I have no idea what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - About 4 months ago, the man I had been with for about 4 or 5 months, sent me a text message and told me that he had met someone else...yes, a TEXT message! At the time, he had been out of state for about 2 month for his job, but we continued our ...

Is my husband looking for attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - there has been two incidents (1) divorced friend and my hubby got chatting and laughing so much they ate even my salad at table (left with vinegar on plate) when asked what the chatting was about was told nothing, just nothing conseque...

Why does he hate me when I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he loves me but I'm sure he hates me :(. He loses his temper over the smallest things, and tells me I'm shit, worthless and don't care about anything. Sometimes he gets violent as well. For example he's always pressuring me to ...

I told his fiancee we had an affair out of anger!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I had an affair with a man who was in engaged. He is from Italy and is here for work and his fiance is and has been in Italy which I'm sad to say made it easier. When we started hanging out he didn't tell me but after I found out it was so hard to ...

She has a broken heart, can anyone help me find the glue to reconstruct it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Ok here I go this will take a little well it all started right b4 christmas, I was going Christmas shopping and I saw this girl we seen each other we hadn't talked or anything for about 3yrs I wanted to date her back then when I was 15 then which ...

Not sexually attracted to my girlfriend anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I am a 23 year old male who is a collegiate athlete and never had any kind of mental or physical problems in my life. No trying to boast but I am not an ugly looking guy and my gf who i have been dating for 8 months exclusively and been with for ...

I want to know how and IF someone can consistantly keep secrets from someone and still love them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I have recently ended my long term relationship because I found out the man I was with had been lying to me the whole time as he was with someone else. When I look back now, we had become more like friends because he never wanted to be intimate ...

My boyfriend attended a "filthy" lap dancing club..and had a dance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone ... Please read my story , because I just dont know what to do and Im constantly privately in tears . I found out by pressuring one of the guys ( and thats a story in itself ) That my b/f of 3 1/2 years attended a " filthy " lap d...

Should I wait for him or look for others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I love a guy more than my life,but he's 4 years older, from a different religion and background, and has gone abroad 4 years on studies. My mother says to look for other options, but at times understands my feeling for him. He loves me too, and ...

My wife has admitted having an affair and wants to save our marriage, but all my trust for her is ruined

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I recently learned that my wife was seeing someone else through people that I work with. She admitted to having an affair, and I have been on a roller coaster of emotions for about a week now. We've been married for almost 5 years, we have 2 young ...

How can I deal with my problems? Her past haunts me and makes me so jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I have been talking to a girl online for the past 8 months. We have had video, voice chats, phone chat, text chat. I first met her on a friendship site. We started talking on a messenger and soon we became close friends. And slowly the friendship ...

I've been feeling really insecure about her past lately.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I'm 20 years old and got dumped right before this past xmas. I was with her for like 19 months and it was hard at first but I've moved on and am happy without her. I got into a relationship around new years and things became “serious” only a...

Nothing seems to be working when I try to work on our relationship, and now we are fighting in front of our children

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - i am 31 years old and a mother of 2 toddlers, their father and i live together. he has not had a stable job in the past 4 years. we once had an amazing connection and relationship but now it is sabotaged by a drug and gambling habit he has. i have ...

Thank you and farewell to all at Dear Cupid

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16 February 2010 (?) - Hi to everyone! I'm saying goodbye. Not a long time ago my life was miserable, I was suffering from a broken heart for two years. When things got really tough that's when I've decided to get help. I've posted my predicament here in Dear Cupid. T...

I don’t know if we’re only playing games right now, but I know I want to fall in love with my boyfriend's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, I met someone a few days ago, but we’ve been always known each other by face and name, since we go to the same college and he’s a close friend of my boyfriend. A Friday ago, my thesis group had an overnight stay at his place becaus...

Is it normal to hate making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) - is it normal to hate making out? i love to make out, being 24 im pretty much at my prime. my fiancee on the other hand is 30. says making out is for teenagers. weve made out once....in the year we were together. all i get is 3 small pecks on the ...

Still madly in love with my ex...how can I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Ok...This is the situation...This guy1 and I had feelings for each other since we were kids...I am now 24 an he is 25...He never got the gut to ask me out...He kept sending mixed signals...Finally I decided to move on with someone else and was in a ...

I really want her back but she wants to have a large single social life, should I text her or continue to give her space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and i have been dating for almost two whole years i am seventeen and she is sixteen. recently she told me that she did think she wanted to date anymore and needed to find herself. She states hat she doesnt want to look back at her ...

Fiance makes sex seem like a daily chore....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now. he recently just asked me to marry him...i was shocked, surprised and happy. but now im questioning it. for a year its been me begging for sex. i enjoy sex, its a stress relief and it feels good. ...

Is he blowing me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5154 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I was supposed to go on a second date with this guy Saturday night. We originally met from online and i think i played my cards right from the beginning b/c i know he gets busy with side jobs and i never called him much or texted much..we met at a ...

I feel I am second best to her ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - My gf is still in love with her ex to the point she will cry if he dont pay attention to her in a dream, i can understand why to an extent as he committed suicide about 2-3yrs ago, we have been together almost 10mths and i am being put second best, ...

Is it a good thing that he has not asked me about this note my friend sent him, or is he just oblivious to my feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I don't know what to think. This boy "Joe" is really oblivious. I mean, he's busy and everything but really oblivious. We have good chemistry and everything, but sometimes I feel like he's not interested or he just doesn't care. My best friend...

How do I tell my boyfriend I am too young to have a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriends want to have a baby but im only 14 and his 13 we dont even live in the same town, i want to have his baby but not this early. i need help what should i do...

What can I do about my mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - this is a question on what to do about my relationship with my mom... i went through my first break up by myself locking myself in my room and crying even on the bus on i would just cry but always make sure she never saw me cry cause i didnt want ...

Saying anything makes my situation worse..what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hello. My issue is that my boyfriends mother hates me and he wont tell her how she is affacting our relation ship only that she has been stressing us out. When in all reality she has been making him wonder if we shouldnt even be together. Along with ...

She and her Mother are turning me against my own family! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Recently I got introduced to a girl who is still in her school.She is average in looks.But, somehow she and her mother focred me into this relationship.I feel her mother has used some technique that I am totally mesmerised.It started only as ...

He's Pakistani, I'm White - Mum doesn't approve, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - The Title basicaly says all. I am just a teen girl, and my boyfriend has Pakistani Grandparents, and Parents, but his family have been living in the UK since before his parents were born. So his skin colour isn't the same as mine basicaly and my ...

Hot and cold love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi, i need some unbiased advice!..... basically, i was in a relationship from a young age, 15. At the age of 20, i fell out of love with my boyf, and fell totally for my best guy friend who id known for three years. I ended my relationship nt ...

Please help and suggest something about this guy I love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5192 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - yesterday was valentines day. and it was all very freakn perfect! me and my boyfriend went to the movies but the problem was my sister. she came along. my mom made me take her since she was going to be all alone. now me and my boyfriend are 15 and ...