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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can he lose interest in sex with me but watch porn all day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5174 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend who I live with for over 6 years, he is 29 I am 24. I need some help trying to understand. For the last 3 years his been on medications, he has had lots of weird side effects from the medications, including w...

He ran out on me - no explanations!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Dear Friends, I need your help. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We moved in together three months ago. Only 8 days ago (2 days after V Day!) he was being romantic making breakfast for me and got a text, a better offer so ditche...

My boyfriend is busy working and studying and I feel so lonely at times

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend me three years are really struggling at the moment. He's at uni and i work full time so we don't see eachother durin the day. He works in a bar to make his money which means he has to work several nights a week. He also plays ...

When she asks me what's wrong and I say nothing, she just says "whatever"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - ok i just to say thanks to everyone who has read my past post heres my question my girlfriend currently broke up with me a while back and ask me out again 4 days ago because she didnt want to see me in pain *supposidly* but she doesnt talk to me as ...

He answers my questions with questions, should I just walk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I don't even know how to ask for help with this question. I've been asking so many in the last couple of days. Right now my situation is different. In the last month and a half that my boyfriend and I have been dating I have been very up and down ...

My boyfriend says he is happy I am pregnant but he is never there for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I didnt know what else to do so i thought i will ask you all.I thought i was happy with having a baby and with my bf,but for the past weeks he has not been there for me at all since i been pregnant,and i feel really alone.I dont know anymore if he ...

How do I tell my bf..I don't like his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Not sure how to word this so bare with me. Ive known my boyfriend for awhile as friends then we moved into dating and ive fallen for him big time which has surprised me as i never thought i would as quick as this. But while i love spending ti...

Whenever I need to communicate to him about a problem--he shuts down! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5182 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - My bf and i have a problem with communication. When things are good, all is fab. However if a problem arises - namely if I am upset by something - he shuts down. Tonight i came up with a (hopeful) solution to something that's been an issue for a ...

He makes me feel like crap..even when I haven't done anything! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Me and this guy have dated for 3 years off and on. We argue about dumb things that don't matter like I didn't tell him i was at the baseball game with my best friend (which is a girl). He gets very jealous and makes me feel like crap when i haven't ...

I walked in on my best friend having sex and now he won't talk to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - This is a bit long, sorry there is some background here that needs to be explained. My ex and I broke up a year ago. After a lot of ups and downs we managed to stay friends. He had hit on me from time to time, and I didn't sleep with hi...

The last straw! But I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfiend for almost 4 years now, and ive put up with so much of his stuff it pushed me to the last straw. he went out to eat with another girl on valentines day and she stayed the night. he says nothing happened and he didnt pay but ...

I am no longer attracted to him because he acts like a spoilt child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my older boyfriend for 3 years. We've always had a rocky relationship. Lately, I've noticed a change in my feelings for him. I love him, but I want to leave him. I don't do it because I don't want to hurt him. He used to be a truck ...

His kids talk horribly about me to his ex wife, and it's putting a strain on our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Here is one for the books. I was divorced in 2008 and started dating by boyfriend in 2009. We moved in together and each have 3 children. My ex husband passed away last August and my 3 sons are here with all the time now. I have to admit it was ...

Confusion over where we are headed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Since moving in together 4 months ago (I moved to China from Australia and we found an apartment after 1 month together - prior to that we kept up a long distance relationship for about 8 months; we met when I was on tour in China; she's 23 and I'm ...

I'm really confused. does he like me or is he just flirting to seem cool in front of other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Heyy, im 16 and there's this 26 yr old on a place i always go on holiday. he always flirts so much with me when people are around and offers sex and all that as a joke, and to be honest i love the attention, in fact ive fallen for him. one night wh...

What else can I do to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, sorry this is a long one ! I recently had an issue with my girlfriend. I came home one night and she asked me to move out as it was her house. We had been together for 9 months and lived together for most of that time as well. I'm 27 ...

Heartbreakers...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Please i need help.... my boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex girlfrnd, even when she clearly told him she was not in love with him... he says he can't fall in love with me because he believes all ladies are heartbreakers. He said he is ...

DOES he have another woman and is playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I recently made a post regarding my situation about my 35 year old guy who acts like he has a curfew. I tried asking to go to his house and he did give me excuses and he still has not spent a night yet, and i do feel like he has a another women ...

My boyfriend is getting annoyed with my sad and lonely behaviour, but I just cant feel happy after I found out he cheated on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - i had a relationship of 3 yrs but my boyfriend cheated me and confess his mistake that he had many relationship and i dont have any hint, but due to some personal issue i forgive his all mistakes. i gave him another chance but i am not happy but he ...

Jealous of the racy stuff she did with her ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi there, I'm posting because I need help with a relationship/sexual problem that is entirely self-inflicted. I met my girlfriend a year ago and we're still crazy about each other. She is 27 and I'm 25, and she's my first girlfriend and se...

My boyfriend prefers to spend time with his friends instead of talking out our problems!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is almost perfect and we have great time.. sometimes he is the one how seems to love me more and he treats very nice to me.. BUT when we have a fight he becomes incurious and he seems that he doesn't really cares to work it ...

Should I ask her straight about how she feels about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm in a bit of a state at the moment, it is to do with my ex. We have been great friends since we broke up and since then have always had some sexual tension between us. We go back a hell of a long way and her family are friends of my family ...

When we have a fight my boyfriend prefers to spend time with his friends instead of talking it out with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

Followup to my question about my girlfriend's trip to Thailand

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - This is a follow up question to the one asked previously. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-is-away-in-a-foreign-country-and.html So my gf came back from Thailand and openly admitted to having a couple of Canadian guys (apparently couples...

What could be the reason for his non-commitment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - i been dating this guy for a few months and we get along great he is a Libra and i am a Gemini, the problem is he claims he been hurt very bad in the past so he wants to take things slow, but he says he wants to be with me and calls me his ...

I thought he had dumped me so I destroyed his records, and now I feel very guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - i have been seeing this guy for 2 and half yrs never met his family or children. he stays with me and goes home on a Wednesday to see his children, 2 weeks ago his mum died he never told me he hasnt been in touch at all. i sent him texts he hasnt ...

I'm finding it hard to think clearly because of my deep affection for him, can anyone share their opinions on my situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my BF since 2001 and we have had our ups and downs but I do love him and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I have a real chemistry with him physically and he has been very loving, generous and loyal to me. However, he has ...

How can I show her I just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have really fallen for this girl, lets say Anne, off my course in University and she now knows this. I had felt awkward around Anne and wanted her to know why I was feeling this way so on facebook I asked if we could talk and she said yes ...

How can I get my ex to start liking me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I have a few things that I have been wondering about. Me and my ex dated for 5 months then broke up in november, we pretty much spoke everyday and were on again off again relationship until now. we have also been fighting a lot. She told me she ...

Is it normal to be jealous of my boyfriend's ex or am I just over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - me and my friends we hang out in groups of couples and there are three of us . one of my friends tho happens to be my boyfriends ex girl friend. and the other day when we were leaving her house he hugged her and i jealous is that normal or am i just ...

I'm worried that because of my yeast infection stopping us having sex he will cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - i have recently had a yeast infection and then i took the monistat one day thing and the symptoms started to feel better for like almost a week. while it was feeling better i had sex like one time and now i have one again . im currently using the ...

How can I make her feel that it is ok for her to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - ok so i've known this girl my whole life almost and i have fallen madly in love with her. now the thing is her aunt and my uncle got married about 6 years ago. now everyone in the family thinks that there is something wrong with me liking. plus...

I'm really worried I may have blown my chances!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm worried I may have screwed things up with a guy I just started seeing. See, I started talking to this guy on a dating site a couple of weeks ago. He seemed really nice (unlike a lot of guys on dating sites!) and we seemed to really click. ...

I don't know whether I should ask him if I have done anything or just leave him alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hey just after a bit of advice. I met this guy about 6 months ago after seeing him around a bit. At first he was really keen texting me etc and went to his house a couple of times after meeting up out (didn't have sex though). Then he started to ...

How do I deal with an EXTREMELY insecure girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - How do I deal with an EXTREMELY insecure girlfriend? I am going to flat out say this, she is crazy. When I call her back to ask what is wrong, she pushes me away until we fight. But when I do not call back about something she then thinks "oh he d...

She says she cant live without me, but she doesn't want to take the relationship further

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, she is 24. At first it was great, we saw each other all the time, we kissed and held each other a lot, we had lots of sex, we talked about the future and getting a place together. After a year and a half ...

I'm on a study-trip for 4 months, how do I keep my girfriend of 3 years from cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi all, this is slightly long-winded .... sorry ... I have been living with my girlfriend in America for 2 years, and we are best friends and all that, I love her dearly. I do everything for her. But ..... When we started our relationship, she...

We stopped our affair because others began questioning our relationship... but neither of us wanted to stop

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I can't have her but I can't stop thinking about her. We had a friendship that turned sexual over the summer. It was wrong and crazy fun at the same time. It was something I never thought I would do, and I fought my feeling for as long as I could. ...

Trouble getting over girlfriend's past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend's past is not even that bad. She had two ex BFs and only one she had sex with. She says the sex is a lot better with me (i'm her second). However after her second Bf, she had a "fling" whom she knew for a while. They did stuff and she ...

Was it a bad idea to tell my best friend that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - me and my best friend matt are really close and whenever people ask us if we go out we say yeah but were just joking then laugh. but ive really liked him for a long time and i told him and now we havent talked in 4 days because of how he ...

She was pushing me to have sex with her and once we did, we just stopped talking to each other! Why did this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I was dating a girl that is a little older than me. I really enjoyed spending time with her. I feel like I was an amazing guy to her by doing a little surprise here and there that would make her day and I always told her how beautiful she is. I ...

Insecure and wondering if he will get over his first love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - First off, I never really realized it until now, but I am extremely insecure in relationships. I am not clingy or anything, or naggy, I just expect to be cheated on (maybe not physically, but emotionally...like he'll like someone more than me and be ...

Why am I acting like the anxious one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm not really sure what to do. I started talking to this guy several months ago, online. Our level of talk time increased continually. We spent hundreds of hours on the phone, web cam (nothing in appropriate) etc. and I have to say I re...

It seems like I want her a lot more than she wants me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Okay. There is this girl I really like. She's a family friend so she came on vacation with us this weekend. While we were there, we hooked up twice. We've been talking for about 2/3 months now and that was the first time we hooked up. We also sat up ...

I want him to be confident of us being together... not scared

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5158 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - What do you do when your boyfriend loves you in a way he's never loved any other girl before? It's that kind of feeling you get that's kinda scary... and you just want to run away from it cos you don't know how to deal with it - like you just don't ...

Girlfriend broke my trust; should I try and work it out or leave

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Ok at the start of my relationship my girlfriend cheated on me 6 months into the relationship. We broke up for about 4 months. Well we got back together on some rather strict rules, since I did not know if I could trust her she was to share all her ...

What I can say or do in order for him to realise that HE is the one I truly want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I am currently seeing a guy and he is exactly what i've been looking for! However, I told him a while back that I like another guy too. We was in a deep conversation and it just came out - honesty is very ...

My girlfriend thinks she doesn't deserve me. How can I convince her that she does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - my girlfriend and i love each other alot.but she always says that she doen't deserve me.how do i convince her that she does deserve me....

Should I continue to pursue my dream in becoming a nurse, or just give it all up to save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I was in Nursing School, my husband's arguements stressed so much while I was in school that I failed and need to restart program. My husband says, that my dream "becoming a nurse" has doomed my marriage. Now I don't know if I should continue to ...

I have to tell her I love her soon? But how? And do I mention what she said when she was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5155 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - So here's the deal. I'm in love with a girl, and a couple of weeks ago whilst blind drunk, I think she professed her love for me. She doesn't remember this, and has a boyfriend. Here's a more detailed explanation: This girl has been my best fri...

She took him back too fast! How can I help my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - so my friend and her boyfriend recently broke up ( the guy's fault by the way) she texted him and told him that she is willin to make it work she asked him if he felt the same way he said yes. i spoke to her today and she said that he is not calling ...

Does my cheating ex-girlfriend deserve forgiveness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend cheated twice, both times I felt like it was my fault... But I still couldn't believe she did it and she seems not to care. I told her things like, ''I knew you never cared about me'', ''how could you do this to me?'', ''I hate you ...

Men and women are different. We need different things. Does anyone else agree?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Men and women are different. We need different things. Women need continuous validation of their partner’s feelings for them. Men do not. Or do they? Men may not need it as much as women, but they do need it. They don’t know they need it because ...

What do you do if someone is your world...but being together is tearing you both apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - What do you do if someone is your world. You love them more than anything and you can't imagine ever loving anyone again quite like it. You imagine not being with them, not having a future with them and it physically hurts. You break up with the...

I would never consider going out with a young girl so why did I dream about my friend's little sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I am a 25 years old male. Last night, I had a sex dream about my friend's sister who is 14 years old (my friend is 24 years old but his sister is only 14 years old). In the dream, both of us nude making out with each other. In the real wor...

How can I avoid a confrontation with my in laws? I'm near the end of my patience!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi All Aunts and Uncles, I have been with my B/F for 7 years; we bought a house together 5 years ago and have a 2 year old daughter (MOO). My problem is his family, apart from one sister who is cool. The other sister and his mother just do m...

I told her the level of sex needed to increase, but it hasnt, should I dump her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I didn't want to have a relationship with her if there wouldn't be regular (somewhat frequent--at least once a week or so). She promised things would change, and they did for about a week, and now things are back to boring ...