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writes:I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. She has the top average in my grade. In recent years, she wants to be "popular" and acts stupid and bubbly when I know she's not really like that. We like each other, but her style butts heads with mine (I'm usually quiet). It would be tough to be her boyfriend with this kind of situation. Is she going through some kind of phase? Do I keep going? Is there some way to imply to her that I'm uncomfortable with her actions without sounding like I'm not minding my own business?? I really like her but i dont know if i should just forget it and wait.... Reply to this Question
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reader, JesseRider23  +, writes (2 May 2009):
if 2 people really like each other, they will find ways to make it work. she is acting stupid around you to try and impress you, and this phase will pass. don't wait because you never know what can happen. why put off to tomorrow what you can do today? try to flirt with her, and maybe talk about things she is into. it will show that you have an interest in her hobbies, and i doubt she will act dumb while talking about the things she really likes.
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reader, ConfusedDazed  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 All girls go through a phase of finding themselves and identity. when i was in school i wanted to be popular and one of the in crowd. then after my first year. i just embraced the fact i was not really going to be happy in that group. if she's smart she'll probably soon realise how empty a feeling and that it is boring being with the popular group if shes having to act and be some one else like bubbly and stupid. She'll probably grow out of it. xx
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