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writes:Hi everyone,#Please help.I've been in a really bad relationship the last 3 and a half years. It ended after I found out my fiance had joined an escort agency behind my back. I've lost everything because of him and he's bled me dry with everything i have, money, car, family, friends etc. I dont want to go back to him but I'm missing him. Is this normal?? How do i get over him?? I'm trying to keep busy but i dont have many friends at all now to go out with or anything. I'm 21 and just feel like i've missed out. How can i be stronger, make new friends and move on?!?!
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reader, ConfusedDazed +, writes (2 May 2009):
 Don't worry pet. I'm in the same situation. You'll miss him for a while after all he was part of your life for three years. You just have to keep strong and try to keep your mind off him. My ex was similar he never had a job i gave him money here and there paid his rent. but i worked full-time and when i ever went shopping for clothes i always brought him something back like a hat or cd just because i felt guilty coming home with all this new stuff. Yet i shouldn't have felt guilty.
I split with ex in sept. we tried working things out a few months ago and it just didnt happen.
It's when you think back on all the positive things you two had that it hurts. but sometimes the bad can start to chip away at the good.
Its never easy espically since your 21. i'm 20 at the minute i don't have many friends either but i just try my hardest to get through the day. because i have my family and friends.
I honestly can tell you in the next few weeks the missing him feeling will fade away. Because there is going to be a point when you say "I deserve so much more" and its true.
*hugs* xxx Hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Congratulations you are out of that one, he sounds awful. And if your friends went off because of him they are not new friends.
It is normal to grieve for alost relationship so don't feel there is anything wrong with you. You are right to keep busy. You haven't missed out on anyone worth while, you are well out of it. Join some social clubs and meet new people. And make sure your remaining friends know how much you appreciate them for sticking around.
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