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writes:I want to break up with my bf of 2 years as he has no time for me any more and talking to him about it hasn't gotten through, its been 2 days since he's called.What way is harsher and make him think oh my god I miss her... completely ignoring him by not answering fone calls, not replying to messsages or emails from him or telling him straight up. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): If you want to make it harsher it sounds like you really don't want rid of him, so why not try telling him how you feel and give him an ultimatum? Or find out the reason why he is calling you less? Often people react, instead of asking why.
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reader, Klara  + ♥, writes (2 May 2009):
sounds like you do want him to be still pining for you , and thus really not want to break up, if youre trying for the harsh pining induced way.. do you or don't you? :)
so i would agree with the other answer, tell him straight up. If you think and want someone better, you can't change him, now you need to focus on the best way to remove yourself from this situation, who you will hang around with to keep you occupied and strong etc..
but tell him straight up girl! 2years, just say, thanks it was great but it's not what im after and i think we need to go our own ways now..
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (2 May 2009):
 Personally I would tell him up straight. Ignoring his calls and everything won't help. If he has no time for you now, ignoring his calls will just make him mad and angry and he probs won't realise that you've ended it or want to end it.
I don't think you should make it too harsh either. You've spent 2 years with him, that's quite a long time. There must have been something special there for it to last 2 years. Why waste that by ending it in a ridiculous and childish way?
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