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writes:My best guy friend of over a decade and I decided to have sex last night just to see what it'd be like with each other. Well, while he was inside me, he confessed to me that he loves me. The sex was so utterly great and the fact that he told me he loves me made all coherent thought leave my brain and I actually called out his name when I reached orgasm.Immediately after that, he came and then we laid there on his bed, just staring at the ceiling. Admittedly, I had a huge grin on my face when I turned my head to him and saw that he looked undoubtedly pleased with himself. As if he was amazed and proud of himself that he could make me feel that way.Well, this morning, I woke up to find his arms wrapped around me and I felt his breath against the back of my neck. It sent shivers up and down my spine and I got goosebumps. Immediately after this, though, I realized: I just slept with my best friend. Yes, I love him. And he obviously loves me. I just don't want things to get weird if we either break up or never even get together in the first place.How do I handle this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): I'd say that at this point, just go for it. If you both love each other, why not? You've had sex--if you don't get together it will be awkward! Plus, my ex and I are still best friends, and my very CLOSEST friend is my current bf.
Good luck!
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reader, Twistedbaby420 +, writes (2 May 2009):
 I would get together with him and tell him that you thought the other night was great, and were wondering how he felt about it. Bring up the fact that he told you that he loved you and ask him what he meant by that... was it genuine? Was is something he said when he caught up in the moment?
Try to let him lead the conversation from there, and add what you're feeling when you feel you should. Ask him what he sees happening now. If he says he wants to try dating, then you two should definitely discuss the possibility that it might not work out like you want it to and talk about what that would mean for the two of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Well, you can't really put pandora back in the box. It's open and you'll have to see what becomes of it.
Some friends do get over these things when they go bad if given long enough. Like several years and some and life changes for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): you love each other, you probably have for a long time. Get married and enjoy your life. You are lucky!
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