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Archived questions from: 26 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel I was used as a booty call and now I feel so used...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I found out the man I really liked and had feelings for was just using me as a booty call. He didn't tell me this, though. He promised me the world. He told me I was his girl. This went on for months. But it turned out he had a girlfriend already! ...

I am really worried he has been to a prostitute!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend stayed in Hong Kong for less than 2 days and in that time he took out two lots of £125. He is now is Australia and says he didn't do any shopping while he was there - just went to an Irish bar. I am really worried he has used a p...

Is it normal for long term long distance relationship to go through periods like this, or are we just not suited to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I am hoping to get some advice. I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years now. We have discussed marriage and the future a lot recently, which has got me thinking about whether this is really me for life. I moved cities 3 ...

She knows I love her, why does she keep going on about her ex to me all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - About 2 weeks ago this girl told me she loved me and it felt genuine. We have been talking for a while and been talkig on the phone every night and hanging out and we still talk on the phone every night, but she went out with her ex, and she's ...

I don't trust him and everytime he goes out I wonder where he is, and who he's with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I am in a 3 year relationship, have one child and am 8 months pregnant for my second. My partner and i used to have a real good relationship but since october its been different. in october i found some txts on his phone and found out tht he had met ...

My partner has been viewing porn sites and I'm not happy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I have found out that my partner has been viewing porn sites and Im not happy. Should I confront him...again. I have told him i dont like him doing this and he promised not to do it again. Some of these sites have teenagers in them and we have tee...

I have never felt very confident in my body

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I have recently starting seeing this bloke and he is always very touchy feely and wanting more than just a kiss. My problem is that I have never felt very confident in my body and I don't mind touching with clothes on but I hate it when he touc...

I can't bear all this waiting around!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm feeling very sad and low at the moment and can't shake out of it. This man I have been seeing (who has always been quite unreliable) hasn't contacted me for a week. He does go through phases where he contacts me a lot and then disappea...

I don't want to give up on him but he is pushing me away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I've been with this guy for 5 months now: 2 months ago he's lost his job. I've been trying to keep him happy doing all he has ask(like sex, money, cooking 4 him, washing his clothes, etc.). We don't live together but he stays 2 blocks from my house. ...

Should I continue to "take" from him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Oh this is so strange, the guy that I have been dating, now every couple of weeks for 2 years is in the hospital with a clogged stent in his plumbing?.. I mean those were the words he used and honestly I am not in love with him and well I don't know ...

Boyfriend doesn't like to be touched and doesn't talk to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - are there guys out there that don't like to be touched snuggling? and what do you do when you have a boyfriend that is quiet and don't like to be touched and really does not talk to you...

Should I move on? She lied numerous times ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I am so confused. My ex and I dated for a year, but have known each other for 4 and dated a time or two in that period. An ex boyfriend came back into the picture a few weeks ago. I found her lying to me about where she was, and she was actu...

What do I do? Should I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriends co-worker told me that he is planning on braking up with me in july and moving in august and that he stopped caring about me 4 months ago, he told me no to everything and that him and his co-worker had words almost fighting. my boyf...

I want to heal and to trust him. Am I mad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi im 41 and the guy i have been seeing is 52. We have been together on and off for just under a year. In feb of this year, after staying at his house I found very explicit photographs of him and another woman taken over the past few months. I wa...

I truly love him so why am I having these doubts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - ok here goes. I am in a little situation here I have been dating my bf for 2 yrs now and seriously he is not motivated or anything.He is faithful and is a nice guy but I dont think i want to marry him anymore. Ever heard of the saying small thin...

"I am a good man without money" What does it mean???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been dating this man for 8 months now , He first told me when we met that he dated other women and even got engaged but broke up because of money issues he said he just leaves when any women makes any money demands he said he alway...

He is really pushing for us to be together 24/7 !!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I need advice on how to approach my boyfriend so as not to hurt him. We met about 8 months ago; I am having a few doubts about us. I own my own place and he has gradually spent more and more time with me until it has now got to the point that he i...

Is he using me for a fun time at the weekend only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year - we both work hard and only see each other of a weekend (but all weekend). It took him a long time to say 'I love you' (said it for the first time last month, and even now I can see th...

The woman I get along great with has commitment issues.... Thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - So I 'reconnected' with a girl I knew a while back through friends of mine at a wedding last month. Had a great time with her at the wedding, asked my friend for her number, and for the last month we've been hanging out alot and just this weekend ...

Am I JEALOUS of the dog?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I hope there are some pet lovers out there that can help me with this. As a disclaimer, I LOVE animals, I've just never liked them indoors. All right, on with the show: My fiancée is pure magic. She's everything I've ever wanted, and...

I have never been unfaithful but he is constantly assuming I am!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'll just lay it all out on the table. He and I have been together for over one year. I have never been unfaithful to ANYone in my past, I know the pain of infidelity and I would never do that to someone else. For eight months now, I have h...

Serious wife issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - My wife had a male best friend prior to our marriage. While dating, she had me meet her at her work in order to actually meet him. As an introduction, she stated, "I'd like you to meet AA, he's my life." This upset me some, as we were planning on ...

She does not want anal sex but I like it a lot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I live in the USA with my fiancée. We got engaged last year but the problem is that she does not want to engage in anal sex but I like it a lot. How can I convince her?...

I don't want to move with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now. I love him very much and things are going well. The only big problem is that he swears I'm going to move out of state with him when I get done with school. I have a daughter so that would me...

Should I continue with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - my ex, which i think we're back together already, is using me for intimacy, and even though this really good guy is dieing for me, i don't want him, i want my ex. i keep on going back to him cuz i feel that with out him i will die. he is older an...

Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Why do women in abusive relationship return to the guy? i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, which im 15 and hes 18, and even though i break up with him when he leaves brozes on me, i ALWAYS go back. my mom was in a domestic violence relation...

She wants me to be happy, but I don't want to be with anyone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - This can definitely fall under the age difference section. I am currently dating a lady twice my age and at 24 that would make her 48. She is absolutely gorgeous, but I understand that will slowly decline in the not so distant future. Thats no...

She deleted messages to other guys "by mistake!!!" Hmmmmmm...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I am getting married in a few months, I have been with her for over 4 years and love her with all of my heart but the other day I was on her computer and found some messages that she had sent to other guys and I decided to read what they had talked ...