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Archived questions from: 6 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I've fallen for my friend's boyfriend! Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I have a problem. I think I like my friend's boyfriend! I have known him since elementery school (which is longer than she's known him) but the thing is he never really looked that attractive to me until about a year ago. I think he knows Ii like ...

My boyfriend is ignoring me.... HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had a fight a few days ago. He wouldn't say sorry to me or even talk to me at all! It's been 3 days without communication. I see him at school but he pretends to ignore me. He looks for me in the rooms school and when he finds ...

Frustrated with love, lies, needs, and possible pregnancy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - Whoever knows where to begin on these issues? I have been seeing a girl for roughly two years. We have had a few small break-ups in-between, but have ultimately stayed together. I do care or her, but now am facing a difficult question. We...

Why is my mum acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - It's not really a relationship question but any help would be great! I've been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and I've never had such a deep relationship or been this close to anyone before. We see each other about every other day and on ...

What's the best way to bring up "us"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - There is a situation that, well, has been going on now for five years, but especially since last summer. The below link is the whole story to help you get a better understanding of what's going on to answer my question: http://www.dea...

I have worked so hard on it, then we broke up. When do I give it to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - Recently my girlfriend and I broke up on good terms. During our relationship we both made strong commitments about love and the future. About a week later after the break, we were hanging out and everything went really sour. The reason is that the ...

I don't see us surviving this rocky patch. I'm pregnant and I'm scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - hi im a bit scared. im 21 i have 2 beautifull girls who i love more than anything. i found out i was pregnant last week, my relationship is rocky. he doesnt take no blame 4us breaking apart and wont do anything 2 try and save our 5 year ...

Why did she send that text? And what should I do with my ex when I see her? Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - So my girlfriend dumped me after about a year of dating she started to tell me she still had feelings for me but just did not want a boyfriend...even I love you etc...I'm still so in love with her, perhaps more now because I lost her. After a few ...

Does interest fade in ALL serious relationships, or should I take it as a sign to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I'm looking for opinions from married people or people in long term serious relationships.... I'm trying to figure out if what I'm feeling/not feeling for my boyfriend of 2 years is "normal", or is it an indication that we shouldn't get ma...

He's giving me the guilt trip for running late for our quickie!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Does my boyfriend have a reason to be upset? We had plans last night to go watch a movie preview.. begins at midnight. Well we both got off work and I headed off to class. I get off from class about 10:00p.m. and he had time to be at home and rest ...

Why do I feel bad when I hear his voice mail messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I just found out by another woman that my boyfriend of 4yrs were together during the summer time and I just found a text message on his phone that he had sent her 3weeks ago..a nude pic of himself..he denied it at first but after I found out ...

Porn addicted husband wants my help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married a year in May. We have a son who just turned 3 months. I found out about 8 months ago that he has a porn addiction. I confronted him on several occations and he always told me he would stop. He didnt. I have a p...

He's not doing his fair share of the chores and it's wearing me down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for three years and we have a lovely little boy. We moved in together in September last year and things just are not the same. Fair enough he goes to work so I can train at college to become a hairdresser but the problem ...

At times I find myself hating her... should I call it a day with her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my girl 6 years on and off. From the start she has hidden things like texting ex's(denied for 1 year until he told me), joining dating sites, calling me by the wrong name, phone calls from males and then lies as she's unaware I'm ...

It doesn't seem to matter what he does or how much he makes me hurt inside, I don't seem to be able to get over him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have had a massive crush on a friend of mine for years and last year on valentines day I told him how I felt but he blew me off. Ever since then he's been using me to get things. I know he is using me and that he doesn't like me in that way ...

After getting back together he started seeing the girl he'd dumped me for... so I told her! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I recently got back with an ex. He had left me a few months earlier but I still loved him and was happy to take him back but after a few days he started saying he needed time alone etc, then I found out he was back with the girl he had previously ...

The different "other woman" wants to know what this guy is going to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I've known this man for six years now. We have always had a connection from day one, but one of was always in a relationship when the other was available. We would reconnect through the years just to talk and spend hours on the phone (we would ...

Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams? Why do people put the glamour world down? If you work hard in life and you have the hot looks and the acting talent and the right attitude we can achieve what we want right...? Then ...

Help needed to stop arguing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is brilliant, he would do anything for me and I could go on forever saying nice things about him... We have a problem though! I have paranoia towards girls he works with or any girls he comes into contact with (for no good reason a...

Relationship worth saving! Just need advice to send us in the right direction

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He has a 4 year old daughter. We had a rocky start that involved getting together, breaking up, moving in together, him moving out and then finally us moving back in together. We have a great lif...

She won't have me back and she doesn't want time apart either, so what am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - My gf split with me 4 months ago because she said we don't talk to each other. But we never really stopped seeing each other. We still have nights out together, she stays at my house, we still have sex. Yet when I ask her to be my girlfriend again ...

It bothers me that my b/f goes out only the times I can't accompany him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I have a new job and I work shifts and it involves me working till about 9-10 at night sometimes. My boyfriend has been planning lots of big nights out with just his boy mates specifically on the nights that i am working late. I dont mind him going ...

Guys seem to hate me, please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - i have big problem every single guy i liked has hated me for one reason or another.guys just don,t like me.i find hard to get on with guys.i can be hard on guys but i don,t mean to be.but guy are rotten to me telling me i am not good enough for them ...

Co-workers are chit-chatting near my desk, it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I work in a a government office and have a problem with co-workers standing near my cubical and talking to each other for hours on end. My supervisor has a problem with needing to be liked so she directly says nothing to address the problem. These ...

Do women, once they reach 40 become less interested in their partners and is there something more I can do to help her get her mojo back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been with my wife for 20 years. We have been in and out of the ruts over time and each time climbing out has taught us somEthing new about ourselves and each other. My wife turned 40 a while ago and now she has no intrest in me sexually. ...

Why do people continue to lie even though they know that their lies are going to be found out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Why do people continue to lie even though they know that their lies are going to be found out? My partner keeps lying to me how can I believe what he says when I have found out so much about him that I never would have dreamed of, his cheating...

I caught my mum and my boyfriend having sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - A couple of days ago I came home from University a little earlier than expected and I caught my mum and my boyfriend having sex. My Mum even saw me but instead of stopping and being all shocked she carried on more energetically. My boyfriend, who ...

I'm scared the stress will harm the baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been dating for 5 years and I am 4 months preg and when he found out that I was preg he seems happy and now that I am 4 months it seems like he not happy about the baby. Because we always fight and like I told him that I don't ...

Who do I choose: the man who couldn't commit or my friend who comes home from jail soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - I was seeing someone for about 10 months that i really felt like he could be the one and was scared to tell him i loved him because he didnt consider me his girlfriend and i was being faithful to him tho. That was my fuss between us why couldnt he ...

I feel like I hate him and love him because of his porn-watching. How to deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I told him how I feel about porn. I think it is nasty and hurtful. Well, I just got out of the hospital delivering my son. I'm only 18 years old. I found out on our e-mail address he was not only looking ...

How do we make our relationship yummier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm a 40 year old female and have been with my partner for 11years and am 10 years older and have a 5 year old. He tells me that he loves me but wants to be on his own at the same time. We are mostly happy but are in a rut how do i ...

Where am I supposed to go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - So I have been with this man for the last 2 years, everything was great till our restaurant shut down and he got a job right away, and it has taken me a little longer to find a job. but i have found one. but in the mean time, he has made himself out ...

I'm a forty year old man who is fed up with his marriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) - I'm a forty year old man who is fed up with his marriage. I've only ever had sex with my wife as she was my first girlfriend and I have never cheated on her in the 20 years we have been together. There have been 2 occasions at least where she has ...

After we broke up he started calling me all these names... I'm so hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

6 March 2009 (F) - Ok me and my boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up. I broke up with him first because he stays in new orleans and I stay in monroe lousisiana and I was tired of being upset by poor communication. I was also interested in other people and I felt ...