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Archived questions from: 22 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend was beaten and raped 8 months ago. Now can can't bear me to come near her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I have been dating my curent girlfriend for just over 2 years. 8 months ago she was beaten and raped. I have stood by her and tried to help any way I could. I love this girl and can honestly see her as the one. But after 8 months she still isn't ...

Tips on how to end my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. It's the usual story, relationship started off wonderful and then gradually it's began to become unbearable. I have had a long think about what to do and have decided it's time to end it. My ...

He sneaks downstairs to watch porn when he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I am having several problems with my fiance. Distance lying and now porn. When we first got together we would watch it every now and then as a couple and we have done that for almost 4 years. Well in the last 2 weeks since I have discovered all the ...

Do you think that taking a step back is a good thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I just want to start out by letting you know my background. I am an American Army contractor working and living away from home here in Kuwait. I did 6 years in the U.S. Navy. I was in a technical job in the Navy and thats how I got the Job with...

My partner wants us to have sex with other people.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My partner wants us to have sex with other people. I like the idea for myself, but my skin crawls at the thought of him doing it. It scares me he won't come back and I would not be able to contain my jealosy. I know this is selfish, but has anyo...

How can get over my ex girfriend after she dumped me for some other boy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - i am 16 my gf is 14 and it al kicked of on wednesday afternoon me and my gf were sat in my room kissin and stuff and she got my name wrong i was hurt and upset and after a while of her talkin she told me she liked this outher boy who she had been...

How do I deal with a girl who was hurt by several ex boyfriends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - How do i deal with a girl who was hurt by several ex boyfriends. I really like her but part of the reason she just wants to be friends even tho she likes me more, is because she is afraid ill do the same thing in time. How can i prove to her that i ...

I look at and scrutinize everything she has done from then to now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I have a live in girlfriend that I have been with for over a year now and I love her with all that I have. My problem is that 2 months into our relationship we were out having drinks and she drank too much and does not remember the events of that...

In 6 months I have only been with him alone once

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are seemingly the 'perfect couple'. We both come from good backgrounds(private schools etc) and our parents have doing alot to keep us from being alone. In 6 months i have only been with him alon...

I need to heal now but I don't know how

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I was seeing this man for over a year during which we broke up many times because he never made me feel special,etc but i kept taking him back because it felt good to be wanted. I must add that during that whole time i thought he was single, we talk...

Why does my husband think I'm wonder woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - my husband and I have 2 boys and we are expecting our 3rd child in a couple of months. We are definitely busy between work, kids, and keeping up with our daily chores around the house. My husband travels for work which started when I was pregnant...

I can't decide.. I really need opinions! please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Right I have a boyfriend who really likes me, and i don;t really know why i said yes to seeing him, i don't think I've ever had strong feelings for him, but we've been with each other for 3 months, we don't live near each other and maybe see each ...

BF never wants to go to the bars with me, but goes with his girl friends...Isn't this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said we needed to spend "less time together" because we were hanging out 24/7 and arguing alot more than usual. We've been together for about 2 1/2 years. I didn't like that but agreed. I have trust issues and he knows that. Well...

How long do I wait to hear from him???

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22 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up a few weeks ago and continued seeing ecah other. Last week we started arguing i was getting really angry with him and started sending him nasty texts he responded to them all. i truely believe he he still likes me as his ...

I've been confused with his behavior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - How can I forget about a man who has cheated on me twice been physically abusive.. I've been with him for 4yrs and I know he love's me we've had a rocky relationship cuz I've been confused with his behavior. I'm a single 33yr old mother with 2 b...

I'm worried that I had sex too early

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I had sex with my bf for the first time last week and I'm worried that it happened too early. It was my first time but not his. It was left totally up to me by him, I was not at all pressured into it and I really wanted it to be him, but I get the ...

We have even been thru counseling and he lied to the Dr. What else can I try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i need help i have been with my husband for 10 yeasr and married for 6 we have 4 boys together and it just seems like we are not ment to be in a relationship it seems as if te only thing we have in commom are our children and sex at times other ...

I just want my husband to show he loves me more

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22 March 2009 (F) - Help! My husband and I have been married for almost 3 yrs. I have one child from a previous marriage that ended due to emotional and some physical abuse. I left when my son was 8months old knowing I couldn't live my whole life unhappy and need...

He says he was never on this dating website, but I have proof

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22 March 2009 (F) - im kinda in this situation where my fiance of 4 years and th father of my babies has been acting really strange.i went on vaction for week to ohio to see my family which is 1300 miles away from where im living right now. my fiances mom and sister ...

We want slightly different things from life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice on my current situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. However, we've recently realised that we want slightly different things from life. Neither of us wants kids or marriage b...

I'm a monk serving everyone but me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I married my wife 17 years ago. She became pregnant we were in grad. school. We've built the trappings of an amazing life...a son, careers, great house, pets, and so on. We are supportive of each other...we are great friends...but...there is very ...

I screwed up and they are all fine without me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - 14 yrs we were together, she was the nicest most caring person you could meet, so why...why would i ruin it all,, i have/had 3 gorgeous children as well to make the perfect relationship,,,, so i had an affair with some blonde bimbo who i fell for!! ...

After all this time I still don't know if he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I've been i a relationship for 6and a half years now and i still don't know if this man loves me. We have a family now i have 2sons he has 2sons and a 4 month old together.He never tell me he love on his own its always when i say i love you then he ...

My gut instinct is that he is no longer interested in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my 35 yr old boyfriend in a LDR for just over 18 months. Things started off amazing. He was really into me, and proudly introduced me to all his family and after 6 months he started mentioning moving in together. I felt it was ...

My friends and boyfriend don't care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - i went out to a town centre that i havent been to before with my friends and my boyfriend and they abandoned me. i sat down and got out my phone and when i looked up again they were gone. i walked around for an hour no clue were i was going and i ra...

Do I have a chance with her ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I really like this girl..i know falling for her, i think of her all the time and i truely care about her and wanna be with her.. but you see the only problem is that she is still inlove with her ex, who has been a complete jerk to her and they had ...

I'm 14 and pregnant and really scared.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Im 14 years old and I did a really stupid idea with my boyfriend that's 16. We had sex in his truck 1 time... 2-3 weeks ago and it was an accident. I found out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. I don't believe in abortions because its just plain murd...

He isn't on the same page as you, what do you do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i've been with this guy for 2 1/2 years, married for almost 1 and I thought he was for me. english is his second language, and even though i speak his language too I feel like I can't communicate with him at all. i like to use big vocabulary and ...

Relationship is falling apart I feel like I am putting more into than him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now... it seems like the relationship is falling apart... we don't hang out as much. we are always arguing...i am more into the relationship than he is...how can i get him back into it...do i play ...

I'm scared of being alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i really need some help. i have a constant fear of being alone, physically and emotionally. the close friends i had before all managed to hurt and betray me in some way and those friendships are gone now. i've been recently going out with my ex, ...

How do I stop the distance I feel growing between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for over a year and a half. We were completely happy before he left for basic training and for a while when he returned. But for the past 3-4 months all we do is argue. We almost broke up and it scared me a lot. How can we ...

I love him, but he lies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - hi i have asked a question already and it was anwsered thank you. but i need more help. the answer said to keep calling him out about his lies and i try and he is still in denil. how long should i go on with this? should i watch his every more to ...

We never talk about us...so I don't know what we have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months,we meet up once a week for a dinner,cinema and then we end at his place. I got hurt by someone before him and now Iam afraid to get hurt again.He seems to be a nice guy and we have lots of passion. He does...

Should I feel guilty for wanting to move out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I am a college sophomore and decided to take a semester off. I moved in with my fiance but we have recently been having problems and I want to move out and be on my own again. My fiance says he feels like I'm abandoning the relationship and I don't ...

We both hit each other but is this domestic abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I sometimes feel like I'm in an abusive relationship. Me and my fiance fight a lot and it has become physical at times. I hit and so does he. I admit hitting is wrong on any level but I feel like my hitting is justified..is that wrong? I find text ...

My boyfriend emotionally distances himself from me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My bf emotionally distances himself from me. He takes a situation and makes if into something major and then hides for days or weeks. I think he does this to prevent himself from getting too close. Yes I know he loves me but I know he is fearful. ...