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Archived questions from: 9 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He won't leave me alone for a day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years and have two children together i was young when i got with him and he was very controlling of me so i lost alot of my friends, anyway i found out he was cheating on me and he promised to stop, coming ...

My ex husband just won't leave me alone and it's scaring me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am separated three years now and have someone new in my life for a while now and it is serious to both of us but none of my children know about him, I have four sons. I have met my new man's children, grandchildren, his mother and family and they ...

I don't know whether I should tell him and explain why I did it, or keep it hidden.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Little advice here please! I had an abortion last year and only told my best friend, and sister. They encouraged me to have the abortion, and at the time I thought it was for the best. I was in the middle of exams and just weren't ready for a baby. ...

Girlfriend's sexual past is killing me, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I recently asked my girlfriend how many people she has slept with and she said 6. Than a few weeks later she told me the truth of 14. She told me she made big mistakes in high school and shes not what she use to be. Yes, she has definitely changed ...

My boyfriend cheated and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I discovered nearly two weeks ago that my boyfriend of a year and half had been cheating on me for two weeks. When i confronted him he did not try and deny it and said "im sorry i do not know why i did it". He has told me that he has end...

Pathetic drama between my mother and partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, My situation is not very dramatic but its difficult for me to know what to do. My partner is Spanish and I am English, we have been together for 5 years now. Living together for 2 and have recently moved back to England to try and make a go of ...

What is he thinking? Do I have the upper hand now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I guess I will get right to it. I've been in a verbal, emotional abusive realtionship on and off for 4 years. He always breaks up with me, than changes his mind and I take him back. Or, I will show up at his place, or call him and then we ...

Morals

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - A bird with inadequate wings that uses another bird's wings to fly is taking a great risk. A bird that decides that anothers wings are unsuitable and ditches them whilst in flight is a dangerous bird! A bird that uses anothers wings and takes ...

Should I cut all contact with her and get on with my life or try to slowly purse a future relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Hey Guys and Gals, I'm on a slippery slope in my head right now. I broke up with my gf who I've been seeing for 5 years now. I'm 21 and we've seen each other since school, after which we went to different universities but managed to keep the flame ...

How can I stop feeling like a whale in comparison to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Ok, well I have been dating this guy. He's great and I love spending time with him, but I feel fat in his presence. I know it's kind of dumb, but I can't help it. He's very thin and small framed, while I on the other hand, am probably 15 pounds ...

He says he loves me, but how do tell him he is a player not look like I am the insane one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - *deep breath* Here it goes. I'm kind of embarassed to talk about this because I sound so stupid, but I'm stuck.. that's the best way to describe it. I've known Mn for over 3 years now. My school is Mn's rival school, and vice versa. When we first me...

Back together again but is it right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, looking for some outside objective on this. I recently broke up with my bf of 1.5 years 10 days before my 40th birthday. We broke up because he knew I loved him and he didnt feel as if he felt the ame ad said it wasnt fair on me. We s...

On holiday with her, but we both have partners back home... do I make a play for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I am going on vacation with a girl who I really like. Here is the problem, we both have significant others but it is just us going on the trip. We've been friends for a few years and I really want to be with this girl. I don't know for sure how ...

His whole family really does hate me, there's a family event coming up, and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Ok... So i did something really bad. I snooped and found out my future mother-in-laws e-mail password and got into her e-mail. it was just to prove a point to my fiance. I know that I invaded her privacy so I really don't need anyone scolding me on ...

Unfortunately I don't think HE think's I'm the one...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Alright, I have been dating a great guy for the last year and four months, unfortunately I have have a feeling that he already knows that I am not the one. First of all he has never said I love you, only that "you are my best friend" and "I care ...

A temporary break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship for the past couple of years. She has been the love of my life since 6th grade. We had a crush on each other for back in 8th grade but we drifted apart. Again, when I was in college, we started meeting, ...

My guy is very stressed about his life..how to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hello pips Sorry for the long story. just need to let it out here is the story. me and my ex got back together like 2 months ago, he is the one who actually initiated the get together thing, however i knew that he had a girlfriend, the intenti...

Need experienced mature advice from Mothers/Fathers, should I take him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Pregnant, should I take him back? need opinions from experienced mothers/fathers? Ok this may be a little long but just had an overwhelming week and feeling kind of lost and confused. Would appreciate EXPERIENCED mature opinions. Me and my ex...

We're always fighting, she's always bossy, can someone please help?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for nine months and it seems like everytime I'm with her she does something that bothers me. we always fight about really dumb stuff and I'm the one who gives in and takes all the blame. She is always bossing me around ...

Multiple choice question: Guy A or Guy B?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I’ve been having trouble deciding between two guys for months, and this weekend has brought me to the point where I really need to make a final decision. Guy A and I have been dating for nearly 4.5 years, starting when I was 17. Things went very...

How do I get the two to settle their differences without me having to choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I am in serious problems now. My boyfriend of five months and my sister is at war and I am left in the middle! Its like this: My family adores him, however,my boyfriend is a "say it like it is" type of person and my sister has similar personal...

Have you ever been there? Losing the love of you life and there's nothing you can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i tried to talk with my friends and family but i dont think they quite understand what i am feeling. so heres the story i started to date my ex boyfriend when we were 15 at first i thought it was a relationship like any other but i was wrong our ...

This girl means the world to me, and I can't let her be the one who got away...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - Ok, I have been seeing a girl for 4 years. Things were great. After graduating college we moved to different cities and accepted jobs. Anyway things were going well for the first several months. Then all the sudden she started to become distant. ...

He just won't take the hint that I'm not interested, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, I recently went away on vacation for a week to another city about 2 hours way from where I live. I stayed with my best friend, and the frst night I was there, I went out clubbing and met her cousin. I was completely drunk and ended up ...

I tried to break it off with this married man but he still flirts with me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I began dating a guy at work a few months ago. He is married and I knew it from the beginning. (I know it's horrible). For the past few months, we've gotten relatively close. We emailed several times a day, went out on a few occations, (no sex, ...

Should I start initiating contact with her or leave it be and let her contact me again in a week or two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 March 2009 (M) - I began dating my now ex-girlfriend in December of 2007. In June of 2008 we decided to move her in with me because we were very much in love and we were driving 40 miles 2 or 3 times a week to see one another. She was having a hard time finding a ...

Where did it all go wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating a married man for two years. He always told me he was preparing to divorce his wife but he wanted to make sure his kids would be okay (ages 10, 14, and 18). He finally got a divorce about two months ago. He stayed at his house for ...

I feel trapped, unwanted and depressed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 4 1/2 years. The first couple of years was great, but the last 2 1/2 years have been hard. It seems like just for me. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. Me and my partner had a daughter together. ...