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Archived questions from: 19 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Do you knwo what's going on in his head? I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Right I don't get this, what do you make of it...? There's a lad I like but quite some time ago when my mate questioned him about what he thought of me in general he said he didn't have feelings for me... a bit like he assumed my mate was gonna ask ...

Trust issues. Please please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have just had an argument. It was about trust. She says I don't trust her... and she's right. We've been together for 18 months now but for about 4 months I have become suspicious of her. Without going into detail I ac...

Wedding disaster???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Huge problem with my wedding!!!!! I come from a very conservative family and they are paying for my wedding. They have invited many of their high profile friends and I feel like it is about showing off their money and not about my guy and I. My guy ...

Why is my mom so strict all of a sudden?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - There's this guy (Yeah, really original). Any ways, he's ten years older than me, he's 26. His parents are really good friends with mine. The biggest secret I have kept from my parents was not telling them I had started dating him when I was 1...

8 years and STILL not engaged... tells me "not to worry about it"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 8 years. We met and began dating in high school and stayed together through college and beyond. We moved in together about 6 months ago and both absolutely love living together. Everything about our ...

Did she cheat? Was I wrong to stay with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my current gf a few years now, and about a year into the relationship, I went out of town on a trip with my family for a few weeks. While I was gone she met a guy, and started flirting with him. I found this out much later into the ...

I seem to fall in love with everyone I sleep with. Has my childhood got something to do with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I'm a 19 year old girl. I had a pretty bad childhood, my dad was a herion addict and I rarely saw/see him. This doesn't bare much of a burden on my life, I don't mind my past. To me it's fine, but some people say it's why I have this problem: I have...

How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship with an older man who I love but I think things are moving too fast. How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him. I'm 23 he is 42....

Should I continue the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on the next step in my relationship... First of all I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 months together for a year and a half. He really wants to get married and have a baby. Problem is I don't know if I am able to have ...

How do I forgive my mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I will make it short as i can. I grew up with the family who I can called DISFUNCTIONAL family. I cant blame much my father due to his condition, he is disabled and so He also needs to rely on my mother's command. To make it short I ...

Weirded out with ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - We are going out for dinner, birthday party for a friend. My boyfriend of six years is friends with the birthday celebrant. The celebrant is friends with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend so I know she'll be there as well and this isn't the first time ...

I love them both, but I love her more, so why can't I get over these feelings?

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19 March 2009 (F) - When I was in 6th grade, I fell in love with my best friend.. she was so sweet and cute, I loved her so much; I still do, but I feel it fading..I promised her that I would love her forever.. but she's changing. I have complicated feelings, because ...

Am I in the "friend zone" now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I am sorry to rattle on but I am desperately in need of advice on topics that I have never experienced or seen someone go through. It would be helpful for advice from females and males. I met this girl who is three years younger than me. we date...

I need help to decide... Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Long question... I've been with my current boyfriend just over 3 years, and things have been amazing. He's nearly everything I could ask for in a boyfriend, we've even called each other "soul mates". However, during the past few months, I'd been...

Should we move in with his parents?

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19 March 2009 (F) - My fiance and I just found out we are expecting a little one (due nov 3). We were doing great but I had to quit my one job because if not it couldve hurt the baby so now we are kinda in a lil financial bind. His parents offered us their upstairs, ...

I feel as if I'm in a prison hell and don't know how to get out of it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this is a bit complicated but I'll try to explain. One year and 3 months ago my ex split up from me, I'd been with him for 7 years and was obviously devastated at the time. We have 2 children together as well. Anyway 6 months after this happened ...

How can I get my family to forgive him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and have been with my fiance for 2 years. We are getting married on May 1. Three weeks ago he went out to an all guys weekend and got really drunk and cheated on me. He called me the next day and told me we had to talk as soon as he came ...

In love with soldier and a sailor..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in the worst situation I have ever been my whole entire life, so far. I cannot go by a day without thinking of this troubling situation. My story goes like this: When I was 13 I met a guy trough my brother( his friend)he w...

He's with me yet he has a dating profile and a lot more besides going on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for about a year and a half and then we broke up. However, we still talked every day, saw each other and did basically everything people in a relationship do. I never thought for a second that he was looking for other people. I ...

I need help to stop being so insecure and crazy. Why am I so off balance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a guy and have fallen in love with him and he ...

I must wait a year for him... so he says. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - There's this guy in my life who after 4 years has re-entered my life, I met him when I was 17 and he was 18 we were seeing each other, our family knew about us and everything was well. I stopped seeing him as in those days he was very immature and ...

Would you be jealous if your partner was going out to dinner with other pretty girls? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for two years we were on and off quite a lot. He is over ten years older than me and lives about 100 miles away. I see him every fortnight. He is a lawyer and has lots of female friends, some ...

Where Did I Go Wrong With My Boyfriend In This Situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We’ve had our ups and downs which involved him cheating and me finding out, but we worked things out. Things have been going well until he suddenly began to distance himself from me. The communication bega...

It still haunts me, because I am very insecure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Lets start my story with a brief history of my problem; My girlfriend cheated on me about two months ago, i was devestated, but she claimed it was a big mistake (she made out with somebody at a party.) Anyway she is never in touch w...

Part of me says this is good for him and he needs it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been under stress for quite some time from all different angles - work, sick older friend. He is a great guy but can not handle any emotional stress which causes so much DRAMA. (we've been together approx 1 year) We split up got ...

I'm scared his sister will succeed in this petty cunning attempt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been scratching my head and pacing back and forth over this situation all day as I've never really had this problem before (and ive had a few dramas in my life). I've been with my bf for over 10 months now and we have recently...

Is this relationship is worth salvaging?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and I had a huge row tuesday and yesterday that started off over something really small. it was saint patricks day on tuesday and I was going to meet my friend in town.later on we my boyfriend texted me saying th...

He is a very convincing actor and he likes to play tricks on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - OK, I've been going out with this beautiful, lovely guy for a little over 3 months now. I really feel strongly for him but there are 2 big obstacles that I need help with. Firstly, his past. To be frank he doesn't have one. I've asked him a few ...

Question protected sex with person with HIV

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Ok, here's the thing and it's a pretty big thing. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We dated for about four months before we got more intimate. First it was 'making out', then she would give me a 'hand job' for want of a bet...

How many times can someone break your heart before you move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Hi I hope i dont come accross as some sad case here. I need to know how to move on from an ex, this has been going on for near enough 2 years now. I love him with all my heart and i do think he has strong feelings for me back but too much water h...

Does he love me? I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - God i am so paranoid bout my boyfriend its driving me mad. My boyfriend has always been quite honest with me.but for some reason i always see the bad in him and never believes what he says.always think he has a motive for everything. Hes got a past...

Mum and I have different views on how to enjoy the lovely warm sunshine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Mum and I have different views on how to enjoy the lovely warm sunshine. I prefer to spend it outdoors, like going to the nearby park or sports such as cycling or walking, whilst she prefers to go shopping or eat out. Our varied opinions...

Broke up now wants to marry me...Should I consider it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I'm a female of 24 years old. I have 2 lovely childen by my ex boyfriend. Reason i broke it off with him was because he made another woman pregnant. It has been 2 yrs some months since we called it quitz. Now he has been aproaching me wanting us t...

Husband seems unattracted to me only after 1 1/2 years of marriage. :(

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I need help with my marriage. I've only been married for 1 1/2 years and I feel like my marriage is already getting stale. My biggest problem is my insecurity with my body. I've always had high self esteem until I got married. My husband LOVES big ...

I just want to forgive myself and my x .and move ahead in life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - SOMETIMES I FEEL VERY LOW N DEPRESSED COZ OF MY PAST PLZ HELP ME!! Well , i had a relationship with a guy for around two and half years years, the thing in the begening of the relationship only he asked me to have sex ,which i was not ready at...

I want to split from him but can't get him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy I don't love. The thing is I already confessed I loved him but now I wanna get out! What should I do to avoid hatred between the two of us? Will he feel betrayed when I tell him I don't really feel anything for ...

HELP ME! This girl is driving me crazy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I of two years broke up about 2 weeks ago. We started dated pretty early in sobriety I had a year at 23 and she had 6mnths at 20. I know it was early. Anyway we had a really good relationship for a long time, we kept our programs...

I've changed from a fun person into a paranoid needy person!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Im 27, and scared. I have been in a very fast and intense relationship for 6 months now. I love them more than I thought possible, and now I am terrified things are changing and I will end up being hurt. I need to know how mentally or medicall...

I want to know whats going on inside her head

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - well here we go again! i wrote to this column almost 1 year ago to the date. my girl and i did get back together. i received some great advice but unfortunately ive found myself back in a situation again. it may help you to search my previous ...

I feel so down and sad and confused please help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm so confused and dont know what to do at the moment. I met a Swedish girl 4 months ago when I was visiting my parents in Malaysia, I'm based in the UK, now I'm still in Malaysia, on working holiday thing. I met J on the beach, she was supp...

Angry with girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for quite sometime. i was happy her at the begining bt for the past few weeks i dont feel like loving her anymore. she flirt with other guys, having bets with other guy that if they gt the thing, she will give them a ...

Is he cheating on me with my sister? Should I leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Is he cheating on me? Lately my fiance has been selfish. I was sick for example; this entire week and couldn't even get off the couch. I asked if he could please take our daughter with him to the gym. He said "it was too much of a hassle" when I ...

He thinks I am bad luck

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19 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for the past 12 months... 9 month ago his business went down, he also lost a lot of money on stock market. Now he got this crazy idea that all of this bad things happened to him because of me....because I'm a bad luck to ...

I lied that I had sex and now she doesn't trust me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Ok, the other day I did the dumbest thing ever. My girlfriend and I both 18 want to have sex with eachother and we are both virgins. But she asked me if I have been with any other girls and I wanted to seem like a player so I told her ive actually ...

His kids treat me poorly and ignore me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - hi, im 23 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years, he is 42 years old. my situation is that my boyfriend has been married twice and has 2 kids who are 16 and 18 years old. of course my parents do not approve for starters. m...

He turned to religion and now wants to completely avoid sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - MY boyfriend of six months wants to stop having sex with me... when we started dating our relationship was about sex.. The first thing that we both had in common was that we were very inmate with each other... now he wants to stop having sex because ...

Spending more time with our kid but not enough with me

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19 March 2009 (F) - its been 5yr we were been married and now i have a 1 yr old kid. he spends lot of time with my kid but nowadays he don't spend much time with me. so we had lot of talk regarding this matter he normally says that he loves me a lot. if he loves me he ...

Could use a shoulder to lean on

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - First of all..... Holy shit. Where to begin... I left my job for another in another overseas. My fiancee ( almost 6 years together) had wanted us to end up there eventually... Sacrifices had to be made in order to achieve this. Let m...

He's saying our son isn't his..I don't have time for his bullshit

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My kids dad and I aren't seeing eye to eye. We were suppose to get married unfortunately, it didn't happen. We are in and out of a relationship. I recently gave birth to our son on February 26. He wasn't around during my pregnancy. He d...

Its really bothering me that she doesn't want to talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - So the past few days, umm monday tues and tonight, have been awkward, she usually calls me at night, we usually tlak every night, but the past few nights i text her yo su should callme, and she ask why? and for what? and idk why shes being liek thi...

Now that we have a child... what do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 2 years just over, when we first got together we did the usual go out get drunk like young people do, I did notice on a few of these occasions that he could be very nasty in the names that he called me but he ...

He thinks I'm only out to scam him!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Let's say you were in a relationship where your partner had an issue with trust. To the point were they actually believed that you were responsible for something that went missing. 4 years have gone by and I swear he still thinks everything is just ...

5 years and counting

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now. We have a three year old child together. We fight constantly because I feel that by now I should have a engagemet ring and he says he's not ready for that. He says he loves me and doesn't want anyone ...

I snooped and found messages I shouldn't have seen, now it's causing all sorts of problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My mom and my step dad have been together ever since I was in kindergarten. I am fifteen now. They have been on and off basically my whole life. Separating then getting back together, etc. I have never really had a problem with it. A couple ...

Why has he not got back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 4 months. We have been calling each other more and more often now. We even discussed on going out, but we have never been on a date. He called me last friday while I was over a friend's house and I answered. ...

My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend...what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My mother is dating my ex-boyfriend, who I was on and off with for five years. I am still in love with him and she knows it... well I'm not any more. They are actually trying to have a relationship. My kids loved him. She was never a great mo...

Second thoughts about marriage...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - I am 37, he is 38. We have been together for a little over a year, living together for 7 months. We are discussing getting engaged, and I am currently at a point where I am not sure about that. I have had a difficult time with this relationship ...