New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244988 questions, 1084408 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in March, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (16), 2 (37), 3 (30), 4 (10), 5 (19), 6 (34), 7 (26), 8 (21), 9 (28), 10 (17),
11 (37), 12 (34), 13 (22), 14 (18), 15 (29), 16 (31), 17 (18), 18 (46), 19 (57), 20 (30),
21 (31), 22 (36), 23 (43), 24 (43), 25 (36), 26 (28), 27 (31), 28 (34), 29 (38), 30 (60),
31 (34),

Archived questions from: 12 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

(More questions from March, 2009)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My friend KNEW I liked him and now she's with him! I feel betrayed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I'm going throuh some stuff, ok here it goes, my best friend let's call her hannah, well a while ago I told hannah that I was crushing on this guy, well she understood and we became good friends with him. A couple of days I heard that he liked ...

I feel I deserve better...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost two and a half years. I am with a guy who truly loves me and will do anything for me. But I am going for an accounting degree and he does not even have a high school diploma. I just feel like I should ...

Should I tell Adam what I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I need some help... and I dont know what to do. I did something really bad and I'm ashamed. Well me and my buddy Adam are like two peas in a pod... we're the best of friends we're really close and nothing could tear us apart, we get along ...

I need your help aunts!!! How can I find out for sure if my boyfriend has cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend cheated before and I am really trying to forget it but it is so hard, I just cannot seem to get it out of my head. There are no definite facts but I think he's up to something, I think he's hiding a a second sim card that he could...

I'm having trouble reading what he's trying to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - So this guy and I have had a rather bumpy road. We've both been immature and acted hot and cold towards each other and gotten 3rd parties involved in our relationship. Really stupid. But now we are on break and we decided to start over and i ...

Should I give up on trying to find a b/f because I have been unlucky in love so far?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - hi after all my rejection in the last 10 years i think i should give up on getting a boyfriend its too much of pain.there is too much competion out there .the guys i like somebody else so i don,t think is much point, any boys perfer tall,gorgeou...

He's been caught red handed!! - What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - HELP! - c I have been seeing this guy - who I know had an ex partner who he sees from time because of his child! Anyway, the other day, he accidently sent me a text intended for his ex girlfriend saying how much he loves her etc etc! - After the in...

How much space and time should I give her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - ill try explain fully, i met my girlfriend 2 years ago, we got on and was love at first sight we went on holiday after 3 weeks had amazing times never argue have done loads of amazing things, in 2 years we have been on 5 holidays moved in together, ...

I cant take him out of my mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi to all readers, I'm 29 years old, married to a 70 year old man, and we have a son but Im falling to my driving instructor.He is 39 year old and single.Sometimes he calls me sweeheart,honey,etc during my lessons and tease me in a flirtend...

My FWB says he loves me now that I lost weight. Reality check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Ok here is the story I have been fwb with this man for almost a year now. Well I'm losing weight and he is starting to really respond to this. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants me and how he can't keep his hands off of me. He h...

Accept or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - how to accept or move on? my boyfriend of 12 years insist on us seeing each other every other weekend since he and i have lived apart for 2 years . i have had a very hard time dealing with this along with his drug abuse . he is also in a new band...

I would like some advice about what to do, I really like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I need some advice about my ex. You might have read some of my earlier posts, if not I’ll try and sum it up real’ quick; My ex and I met at school almost 3 years ago, we liked each other from the beginning, and after half a...

No intimacy anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok...So I broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years back in June. She was staying at my house and a girl I knew from the pool room I worked in, invited me to stay at her place. I was kind excited because she was roomies with a girl i worked with and ...

I felt for him more than a FWB. Any ideas how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - hi me and my FWB have today decided to stop, and just be friends. ive been feeling for a while that he didnt want to carry on and that something was wrong becuase he was making excuses, so i asked him and he told me he didnt know becuase he doesn...

Is it normal for fiancee to look for nude pics on craigslist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I thought I was hot but fiancee is bringing me down! seems like he likes to look for random (and free) places to view naked pics of chicks. seems to happen daily to some degree and I also thinks he looks on his phone at work. he seems to especial...

How to talk with respect

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Me n my husband been together for 2 years and were living with his parnets till we finsh working on our house, but here latly all we do is fight about anything little, we constly think eachother are mad and that were giving eachother an attuide. An...

I have been hiding my relationship from my parents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I have to hide my relationship with my boyfriend of a year from my parents, just because of his families relgion and it's cause me to become so depressed. His family are muslim but are not as strict as many are protrayed. I really love my boyfrien...

My boyfriend now has an obsession with ropes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice regarding my sex life with my boyfriend. We live together and have decent jobs. Our sex life is usually very good, and he does whatever I want, and I do whatever he wants (within limits, as long as it's safe!) However, for th...

What can I do to help him change his controlling behavior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Question of love is not the issue. My bf seems controlling. If u dont see things the way he does even politics he gets upset, he doesnt yell he just hides for weeks. If he does something wrong (usually not intentional) and it hurts you - he tur...

Is it the truth? Or one of his famous lies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I am an older person and should know this but I want to get it verified. I have been seeing this man on and off for 20 years and just back together afte being separated for over 5 years. Everything was going ok until a couple of weeks ago. He ...

Should I wait and see what happens or be clear about my expectations up front?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Would love some advice on this. My bf of 18 months and I broke up for a couple of weeks as he said he didn’t love me, just likes me alot. Having been apart for 2 weeks he says he has a lot more feelings for me than he thought and he wants me back. ...

He says he can only be with me from 6-10 to celebrate my birthday. Am I being unreasonable in wanting more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I reminded my boyfriend about my birthday just in case he forgot (it's my second birthday with him) and I know he has his son that day so I suggested we "party it in". This is a German tradition that involves celebrating the night before until at ...

I saw him kissing his ex. Should I speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. In December I met a guy and since we were both fresh out of relationships, we agreed to see eachother non exclusively. We've been fine until the last month or so. He began ignoring me for days, while we were at the same ...

How can I change my life to be happy again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Im at the point where i cant take anything no more and i want to know how i can stop from feeling like this. Well i have been through a lot of stuff mostly just being abused by men sexually physically and mentally and i have had enough. I live wit...

My gf wasnt a virgin but I was, and it bothers me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok. Ive been with my gf for over 4 years and we have a 1 year old baby. Ok my problem is that I was a virgin till I meant my gf and she was my first and only. But come to find out i wasnt for her. its kinda hard to explain but the guy who had sex ...

Is it just pretend or in my mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - cutting it short i met a guy through the net. he was sweet and into me. we had some rough patch at beginning when going out. now we're good. but our only form of contact is msn or the phone. now he never has credit and doesn't come online o...

I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - 20 years old and I just broke up with my bf because he was abusive. I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. His abuse has escalted!!! It has got so bad, I am constatnly shaking, feeling faint and dizzy, out of anxiety and fear. ...

Its gotten violent..then its better..why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Things have taken a turn for the worse since my first posting; "I feel a break up coming on and am trying to determine exactly why?"" and my second; "She's lying to my face about things going on!" That night I posted my second question...

G/f invites me over and less than an hour later tells me to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend is being really weird to me lately. She invited me over to her house the other night and I was there for about 40 mins and she told me I needed to leave. We weren't fighting or anything.I usually stay for two to three hours but ...

His porn viewing has made me feel insecure! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I told my fiance I don't want him to look at porn and I found out he did twice. He finally confessed one day out of the blue when I was talking bout porn. That's been almost a month ago.(When he confessed.) I thought it was because I just had a ...

After a year and a half...he cheated on me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. in the beginning of our relationship, when we had been going out for about two months, i kissed another boy when i was super drunk around new years eve. he forgave me and ive never done ...

I need some advice on how to be a success with the ladies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Another week, another night where I see people getting off with people in clubs, while I sit idly by unable to meet anyone myself. I'm starting to feel completely useless. I seem to be the only sad f**ker in the world who doesn't know how to comm...

We haven't talked in days! Doesn't he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - i met one of my brother's friends about 2 weeks ago. we like each other straight away. we were perfect, we'd flirt and i could tell he likes me, he use to follow me around to get my attention. he told me he isn't straight forward with girls he l...

Fiance slept with other guy during break

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Quick background: I am 29 years old, my fiancee has just turned 30 and we have been together for 3.5 years. I proposed to her after 2 years, and it's only in the last year that things have gone wrong. For various reasons that we have now discussed ...