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*andelion
writes:Hey, I'd like some advice especially from you guys out there about my boyfriend. We've been together 6 years, he's a teacher. Recently, I found he'd downloaded loads of student-teacher style porn films from the internet. Some of them involve the teacher spanking the student before having sex, some involve the student seducing the teacher. The actresses are all obviously women over 18 years dressed in schoolgirl outfits, but should I be worried that he's watching this stuff given his job? What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): As for those labeling this guy as being "sick", if he was to watch any other kind of porn, would you still call him sick ? Maybe if was to watch tranny porn he might start cross-dressing. If he was hitting on students, then you could judge him.
I think the last poster has the right idea. Get a school-girl outfit and suprise him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): You know, you could always buy a slutty-school girl outfit and surprise him one day. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): A guy friend said to me student/teacher fantasies are pretty common among men anyway...so should you just relax about it? I don't know...
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reader, dandelion +, writes (31 March 2009):
dandelion is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your comments - it makes me uncomfortable as he teaches 11-18yr olds in the day and has come home at night and watched that kind of stuff. Not sure whether to speak to him about it or not! I know he's also watched other stuff that's not teacher-student in nature. I found the sites in our web history when I was looking for a page that I wanted to re-visit and don't want him to accuse me of snooping.
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reader, Meep!  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Is that the ONLY porn he watches, or is it just some of a selection of fantasy stuff? Admittedly I'd probably be a little disturbed by it if I were you, but the fact that he gets off over that porn doesn't mean he would be tempted to do anything with REAL students.You ought to talk to him about it rather than let the worries fester away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Perhaps ask him about it..I could be nothing, he could just like the idea of acting out his job in the beroom perhaps he would want to try this with you..I was once in the army and would love my girl friend to dress in an army uniform and have sex... Its kinda the same.Just talk to him
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (31 March 2009):
 he is sick! he's a teacher so he should not be watching this stuff, its an abuse of his position! get rid of him. i hope you dont have any children together, if you do then get them out of his way.x
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (31 March 2009):
 This is a really tough question to answer, porn is porn and normally just a harmless fantasy. However as he is in a position of trust (I'm guessing he has teenage students) it makes the situation a little more difficult to deal with.
I think you may have to confront him with your concerns and see what his response is and remind him that he could loose his job over something like this.
You only have to type teacher into the search her to see how teenage girls look upon their teachers. He must understand the implications if anyone other than you knew about this.
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