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Archived questions from: 30 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I get her to respect my feelings more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend takes me for granted. And it's pretty much my fault. I have tried so hard to let her know how much I love her and I have stuck around when she has made some big mistakes. Now she knows that I won't leave. I mean, some day if things ...

I don't feel attractive to him at all. Should I move on?

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30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, he has always watched porn, no big deal but lately I haven't been getting any love. I know I am not his physical type. A lot of the stuff he looks at says escort on it. I don't think he has the time ...

Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that ...

My husband is verbally abusive and has been physical lately too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have been in a relationship for 15 years and we have an 11 year old daughter together, and he has 4 children from another marriage. We are not married, however he is verbally abusive and has been physical lately. It is hard for me to leave ...

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together an...

Future spinster written in stone for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just ...

When I'm not with him I like him but when I AM with him I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I have known this guy for five years now and whenever I'm not with him I can't wait to see him because I fancy him, but when I actually get to see him I get put off by the things he does and I don't like him no more. I need help on what to ...

I can't seem to accept his past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the ...

Did he leave me for his friend? Could he be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, so I was with this guy off and on for 3 years now. We just recently broke up he said it's because I didn't respect him or the relationship, although I did most of the work on it. Anyway my question is could he be gay? Could he have left me ...

I don't know what wrong I have done

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys I wonder if you can help me work out this situation i'm in. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. We don't get to see alot off each other as she works during the day and i work during the night. A few days ago i promised to pick her ...

I'm not lazy and I try to take care of everything but I'm wore down and I don't know how much more I can take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband no longer talks to me except to argue if I say nothing it's still my fault. I've been married all most 10 years. Everything I do or say is wrong. I feel unloved and definitely unwanted. I'm always a bitch. I've been sleeping on the couc...

My friend is flirting too much with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and best friend are good friends. She was a cheerleader for his football team so they seen each other a lot. Me and him go out but people tell me she flirts with him all the time. I didn't believe anything was going on until they had a ...

What if he's the one I'm supposed to be with ???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm with my guy for 6 years.... love him to death. Perfect on paper and in person. Handsome, outgoing, sweet and would do anything for me. He's my best friend and we're getting married in 6 months. Our families and friends love us together and ...

How do I chose between the two women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - so I've been dating this girl, "K" for about 7 months now. i do love her, my first love. and she's in love with me. but I've lost interest since she never wants to come see me. it's been 6 months. (she lives in Brighton) it's heart breaking, and i ...

Can someone help me stay strong and keep my word...to leave this guy alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey aunts i finally did it...i broke it off with the committed guy...it's been two days and i almost fell in today but by the grace of God ive stayed strong and haven't contacted him... this is how i did it: i called him with the thought of us me...

I moved overseas with my family to forget her... I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I'm married with a two year old son. Around a year and a half ago, I became close to a female friend of mine, who is also married. This grew quickly and I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. It kept growing and growing and got ...

His co worker told me my boyfriend stopped caring for me 4 months ago... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I been together 2 years. He goes out with co workers but tells me nothing, does not text or call, he tells me he doesn't need to check in and doesn't want me to know where he hangs out. What do I do? His co worker told me he is ...

I want him to want me, I don't want pity sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been with a man for over 3 and a half years. I am about 14 years younger than he is and that has always seemed to be a good thing. We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage who consider him their father... Here's my ...

Why can't he just be a man and face me rather than treating me horribly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend suddenly started treating me horribly. I feel like jumping in front of a bus just to see if he'll show up at the hospital. Why can't I just break up with him? That would be the logical thing to do. I feel like he's mentally terrorizing ...

He works with his ex, they still call each other, and its bothering me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid i have been with my bf for a year and a half we are in a committed relationship but still don't live together yet.My problem is that he works with his ex-girlfriend whom dumped him three years previous and who is now married and has been ...

How to get rid of a girl???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - hey everyone i wanna ask a cruel question here...please bear with me ....i am being cruel to be kind to someone i care a lot.... how should a guy get rid of a girl who is very affectionate, sentimental and emotionally attached to him ? what if t...

Tell me how to give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - im so in love with him, he doesnt have time and keeps on telling me he loves me.sometimes i think i am putting more effort and giving him a lot of pressure. i want to give him space, which is a bit harder, tell me how to give him space? n how do i...

Should I continue liking her, or will I just get more hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Basically, there's this girl called Js, I've really liked her for about 3 and a half years now, we've been with each other on and off due to various petty reasons. More recently I realised how much she does mean to me, I need not explain myself, as ...

I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only...

Is my sister a true friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I had a full abdominal hysterectomy 3 weeks ago. My sister Marg is the only one of my quite large family who knew i was going for the OP. I haven't really been in contact with the rest of my family since my mum died and there was a family fall ou...

I'm a liar..do I deserve her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - hi, well its a long story. Last year, met this girl, fell in love. eventually found out she was two timing me, and she left me, went back to her country, holland. But then her best mate (on msn) showed up, was there for me everyday to talk to, and ...

My instincts say not to trust him..should I listen to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - things are just not adding up lately with my boyfriend. he was angry when i questioned him over other women's numbers in his cell phone. he deleted the numbers though. a few days later he put his free profile on a dating website that he started. ...

My ex g/f's behavior was horrible! Did I handle things correctly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I finally ended my year and a half relationship with my gf. I have done the best I can. I brought her along with me on Saturday night with my friends to a local festival. I knew this would be the make or break. I warned her about her behavior from ...

I love him but he can't keep a job..and I don't want things to continue this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - 3 1/2 years ago I felt that I had found the love of my life. When I met him he didn't have a job with predictable income, so when he wanted to move in with me I told him he must find another job. He found a sales job, hated it, and cried and begged ...

Is it possible he just doesn't fancy me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 29 years of age. He does not like to have sex often, I usually have to initiate sex all the time. I ask him if it's me and he say's no, and replies with saying I don't have a sex drive any more. Is he telling the truth, when ...

I'm not ready to be acting like I'm a mum!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I really need some advice from someone who has been in the same situation.. My bf has a one and a half year old daughter to his ex and we have been together since she was 2 months old. I have been there through everything but I find it so hard to ...

How should I convince him to forgive and forget our pasts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My ex has made it clear that he is seeing some else because he cannot trust a girl who cheated on him with a cousin (I mean I cheated on him with a cousin)! the thing is I want him back and am really sure.. he asked me to suggest something that the ...

Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to ...

How do I stop comparing myself to the new guy? How to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - We were together for 2 years and it was the most important relationship I have ever had because we started as friends first.(we also did and do work together), we both had issues, tried to work through them and ultimately it ended up that it "just ...

I lied to him and told him the baby was his... when it wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - There is a guy that I met 7 years ago and we were never in a relationship.. but occasionally slept together. We had that "understanding" with one another I guess. Well to make a long story short of course I secretly had more feelings for him than...

Either way I don't want to hurt my friends feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid. There's a guy I like and we are friends but I don't know how he feels. A girl I know also likes him but whenever they're together she's all over him, like literally hanging off him, but he doesn't seem to be showing any interest in her....

Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is w...

Is it time to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been going to marriage counselling now for a few months,during these sessions i have found out that he has cheated on me more times than he had confessed. Sorry its long but a bit back ground on my problems,Feb 08 i was told...

Help with boyfriend's lies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice on dealing with my boyfriend and his lie. It all started a year ago when we had been dating for about 4 months. We had already opened up and talked about our pasts (exes, etc - but not in detail - just names and basics) and ...

I am afraid he will be gone by the time I get home today.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Can some please give me some advice. I am living with my partner and we broke up on Saturday after a lot of fighting over stupid things. I am devastated and I don;t know what to do. We live together but I own the house. He is still there living o...

Is he over it all competly or just playing mind games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - hey guys im in need of some help on understanding my ex any thoughts would be appreciated my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am...

I don't know what to do, I'm scared to stay with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but a few months ago we got into a really big argument over really small issues and he pulled me off the bed and threw me onto the floor, I was really shook up and didn't want to talk to him so he ...

How would I win his trust again?

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30 March 2009 (F) - hey there , to day am kind of happy because we finally had a heart to heart talk with my ex........... recently i was worried about his decision of breaking up with me but now he spells it out for me last night.. apparently he broke up with me ...

I feel so sad right now. Why isn't he calling like he promised?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy from my university for almost a month. We act couple when we are together and he says he thinks I'm so sexy all the time. I asked him what exactly we were and he said that he really likes me and wants to see where this ...

I don't think it is worth keeping this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - i am 21 and my girlfriend is 17...we are in the relationship since a year now ...she has been very responsible and extremely caring and so am i ..but there is a lost spark in the relationship and i am not that crazy for her and have liked her only ...

I just have a feeling he doesn’t like me like that

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So there's this guy that I met about a year ago and in that year we have became very good friends. I believe I can say he is one of my best friends and recently I've developed a huge crush on him. I denied it to myself for a while, but finally gave ...

I'm not attracted to my older boyfriend anymore... why am I feeling this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok please help me based on these facts........... * I am 28 years old * I have been with my 45 year old boyfriend for 5 years * We haven't slept together in over 2 months because I don't feel attracted to him in that way anymore - I could kiss ...

I think he's secretly getting in touch with his ex. Should I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Been with my b/f for 3 yrs. The woman he was with before me really messed him up emotionally. She moved to Oregon. We have a pretty good relationship now but it's been a rocky one and I don't think he's over her yet. He was in contact with her...

Why do women get involved with men that truly aren't free?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Why do some women get into a relationship with a man thats either married or committed and settles with being the third wheel. How do they really feel about themselves. They would spend there last dime on this man and she knows that he will nev...

I love him but I want the freedom that goes along with being single!

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30 March 2009 (F) - I have been in 4 separate relationships since I was 18 (10 years ago), my most current one being 5 years and counting, with a man 19 years my senior. Lately I have been dreaming of being alone, for about a year or so, as I feel I have no idea who...

I found porn, and there is no intimacy in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for 3 years and recently realised that there is no intimacy. sex is great there is no problem there he doesnt like kissing and never tells me that he loves me. Recently i found porn and it was hidden. Do men look at porn ...

Perfect way to apologize?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Hi everybody I just need to know what is the perfect way to appologize to someone?...

Why do relationships fall apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - How can I spend five years with my boyfriend, and he not give two sh**s about me? My boyfriend, who I live with, just left me at a restaruant, 20 miles away from home. With no cell phone, no money, nothing. ...

How do I get her friendship back and bring everything back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I fell in love with my best friend last year, and ever since it's just been really hard to cope because she has a boyfriend. She knows I love her because I told her before, but this didn't affect our friendship. A couple of weeks ago, her boy...

Feeling trapped by the relationship, not by him personally.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

Is it over for good or just a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have dating for 2 years and 7 months. He is 25, but I was his first girlfriend. We have talked about marriage in the past, but he has avoided the topic for almost a year now. He hasn't been saying "I love you" back for the last ...

I let alcohol mess me up. How can I say I'm sorry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - DC readers have always helped me out and now I REALLY hope you can help me. I have a great relationship with a friend of mine who I would hope to one day make my girlfriend. I have screwed up before and she has always forgiven me. We are best...

I have this uncontrolable urge to be on my own...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are always joking around, and yesterday he was joking about what a fraidy cat I am. He says I am scared of everything, which is true, I am a woos lol. Anyway, he said "that's why you'll never leave me... because you're s...

He said he isn't ready to live with anyone as he hasn't lived alone long enough. Is this bullshit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for 5 years. I would like to get married to him or at least live together but he seems to want things his way... meaning he tells me that he never had much of a chance to live alone. He lived with a somewhat abusive parent ...

He says he feels awkward around my family yet he still talks to his ex's family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My birthday is coming up, he says he feels awkward around my family and he doesn't wanna go to dinner with us, but he still talks to his ex's family... what do I do?...