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Archived questions from: 25 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can handle him dating other girls, but not the lies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - So there is this guy I have been talking to for about 8 months now, 3 months into our "relationship" I found out he had a gf and lied about a lot of things. I was okay with that becausde she lives in another state and I want his friendship more than ...

This really hot looking girl has asked for my phone number... but I have a girlfriend albeit I'm not crazy on her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - There is a girl surveying our building at work and I guess she is there for a week or so. The last few days she has been making eyes at me and smiling and I have been reciprocating. I've never had this sort of instant attraction feeling with a girl ...

I don't understand what's going on, was he just using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I meet this lad a few month's ago on a night out, we exchanged numbers and that was it, He was texting me for a while after but I started to back off as I had just come out of a realationship and he was getting a little too serious for me, telling ...

Live my life... or stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 years,(I'm 26, she's 23) we have bought a house together and are set up for the rest of our lives really. We also work at the same place so therefore see each other for dinner etc through the day. T...

I want to leave him but keep thinking that he's going to change, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old and have a 3 year old little boy, and I am in an abusive relationship. We have been together for 5 years and he's the father of our child. I want to leave him but keep thinking that he's going to change, what should I do?...

I want my original girl back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I was with a manic-depressant girl for two years and I know she loved me because she stayed with me even when I physically and emotionally abused her on a daily basis. I really hate to admit this, but I have put her in the hospital twice during our ...

Child porn located on his computer! Now what?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi i recently found numerous videos of child pornography (VERY VERY GRAPHIC TITLES AND HORRIBLE FREEZE FRAMES, NEVER WATCHED BY ME I CAN ONLY STARE AT THE SAVED FILES)on both my boyfriends computers, both of which the children use and his profiles ...

She wants to end this as she thinks I will end up hating her! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been going out with this girl for about 7 days. Now she's all like, 'you shouldnt go out with me', and she says that its bcuz she will probably do something wrong, and i will end up hating her. What does this mean? I'm confused. ple...

I really just want him to grow up and behave like an adult instead of a child running away and sulking and hiding.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend gets angry over something I did he does not show his anger he internalizes it. A few days after he makes more out of it and says he needs space to get over it. He makes mountains out of molehills. His friends all say he is a great ...

Should I worry that is contemplating cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend started a website for dating. He was clueless on how to set it up. He said he wanted to do it to make extra money. He told me that he did a free profile on himself to see what the questions and fees were. He is not a paid member so ...

Is he just a big baby searching for a mother when he is hurt...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - We live in a very wealthy seasonal place. I am beginning to think my boyfriend is a walker. In case you don't know a walker is someone who escorts ladies to events, dinners, etc. My bf of 9 months said he was angry with me so he did not come to an ...

I think my boyfriend is ashamed of me, is he!? Please help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now. At the start of the relationship keeping me a secret didn’t bother me much, I really didn’t care. You see, I am 30 years old and I am also a trans-female or transsexual woman, ...

Why is he punishing me in this way? Is he just scared of commitment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have taken a 2 week break which I really need to sort out my thinking. First I love him and do want to be with him but here is the dilemma... He is very emotional and when he gets angry he runs away and goes into his man cave ...

Seeing 2 women at the moment but find it difficult to choose.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I am in my late thirties and have never really had a proper girlfriend or an intimate relationship. I've been on dates and had a series of short relationships, which never went beyond going out together on dates and kissing. The reason is that ...

Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know for sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Me and my husband are having problems. He was having an affair ad now I can't trust him. I love him, he is from Morocco and I'm from Ireland. Is it me he loves or this other girl? I need to know to end this marriage. I still love him too much. ...

Dazed and really confused. Really need to figure out what I'm going to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very interesting and complicated relationship. I have been dating a guy for about 6 months and we both love each other very much. Now here comes the complications. He's 32 and I'm 21. He has 2 very young kids (A 1 year old and an 8 month ...

What's causing my unhappiness and how can I change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i just need a bit of advice so if anyone can offer some that would be great? Been with my boyfriend 3 years, love him, thing is we had history we went together for 6 months, broke up for a year then got back together been back together three ye...

Really need some help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I was 16 when we got together, now I'm 23, and I am starting to feel that I want to go and explore life. I think I still love him, but I feel I've missed out on a whole part of my life. We seem to have les...

Did I ruin this relationship on my own?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I've had this wonderful connection with a man I met a year ago and I fell in love with him.. we had so much in common in our outlook on life. Though at times my common sense said he might be a player, and has a serial history of 3 marriages, two ...

Please help! I want to make a step ahead

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - my boy friend broke up with me a week and days ago.. the thing is he asked me when i was going to the north that means he wanted to see me i told him i moved on with a guy from an other country he is now jellousy that he d...

Should I cut him off now or wait until I the abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - So, I was with my ex boyfriend for over two years. It was my first real relationship and I loved him very much, we did everything together. Well two weeks ago, we were arguing and he had told me he cheated on me out of anger. The next day he tell...

Can you tell me why she would be acting like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Well my best friend has a boyfriend that she's been with for awhile. When we met everything was fine. But lately it just seems like she finds something wrong with every person i date or have feelings for. And it doesn't seem like she's even int...

Please help me show a way out of this self-caused misery.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I am giving her time, what should I do now? My long distance girl friend says that she is super busy with her program and full time job. She was previously married but got divorced last year and we met during her divorce. I used to date her abo...

I like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - i am scared of something friends ....i have been committed to my girlfriend since a year but i dont love her !! i really dont know what i found in her but i like her only as a friend as she is a real sweetheart to be with. probably the ...

Should I sit down and talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Well tonight he said "we need to stop this because I am starting to get to attached to you, and I'm afraid what will happen if I actually do get attached." SO now what I think I need to sit down and talk to him, what do you think? To all those wh...

Am I ready to let go? Or do I want it all back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - it's been 3 months since i left him, i couldn't take it and i already left nc to start my life in texas when that happened the feelings were "i can do better and better". he came down in december for my birthday, and we got engaged [we were tog...

He wants to take it easy and go with the flow

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man since last Nov. He lives 1 1/2 hours north of me. I knew him for about 2 years prior but we only saw each other every 6-8 weeks and never got involved, timing was wrong. So Nov things were different. We were great ...

Why push for a ring and then back out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Why would she push for an engagement and then break it off? I have been dating this girl for over three years living together for over two. She really pushed for a ring. We went to jewelry stores and looked for awhile then I purchased one. She ...

What made him have a change his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I never left myself fully heal from my previous relationship. We had a good relationship, and a bad break up, our fights were endless, and lasting months even after the break up, but eventually we worked it out, and still remain to talk, though I'm ...

To wait or not to wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I have been on and off dating this guy for about a year. When we started dating I was not 100% on board-- hence we were off and on. I was the reason we did not ever end up staying together long before because I could not decide what I want. Truth be ...

My LDR is crumbling and I think neither of us wants to hurt the other.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

25 March 2009 (?) - Hello Friends! I need some advice. My LDR is crumbling and I think neither of us wants to hurt the other. We have decided to talk to eachother less. Instead of every night, we will talk every other night, but I was really suggesting a longer ...

Why does my ex want to see me for a catch-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Hi there, About little over a year ago a long term relationship I was in ended. We were together for 4 years and 3 and 1/2 years in she went overseas to pursue studies. She was only going to be gone for roughly 12 months and we were very very much ...

What do you think I should do about what this guy (jerk) said about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - This guy I work with is very nice and friendly to me when I visit him at his office (I am a contractor to his company). He treats me like he likes me as a friend. I encountered him last Friday at the mall and he was making a move on a girl in a c...

He doesn't show me as much attention when we're with friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now (officially). The first couple months were good, great in fact.. We have the same friends and are in the same "circle" of friends.. In this group, there more single guys than couples. I'm ...

I am extremely controlling.. can someone help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and I am extremely controlling! I tell him that he cannot talk to girls and that he can't look at girls and that he can't be friends with girls! We fight all the time about this but ...

Do I keep pushing until I break through to him... and if so how can I break his concerns about it being wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend who I've been close with since the start of secondary school, we were both split up from our old friends from school and we clicked instantly and since then we have been really close. But during secondary school there was a lot of ...