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Archived questions from: 18 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Troubles in the bedroom...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving ...

We went from friends with benefits to boyfriend/girlfriend I guess...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand with this guy. I'd never had casual sex before and I thought that's all it would be, but we developed into fuck buddies, then friends with benefits and the more I see him, the more I'm becoming emotionally attached. We now ...

My fault she's pregnant...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with...

Confused... should I break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - SHOULD I BREAK IT OFF? This girl and myself have been seeing each other now for 7 months on and off. She is an old flame, we were boyfriend and girlfriend 2 years ago and got back in contact with each other a year ago. Seeing each other everyday, ...

Her friends say she's cheating on me, she says she isn't. Who do I believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've been going out for this girl for five months now. I really like her and she says she really likes me. Her friends say she's been cheating on me but she says she hasn't. I don't know who to believe. I tried to kiss her last week but she told me ...

How can I explain to my boyfriend that me and Ty are JUST friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - So here goes, I have been best friends with this guy Ty since we were around 2 years old. His mom and my mom are BFF we spend thanksgiving and vacations together stay at each others homes blah blah blah you get it right? Anyhow I had a huge party...

Do I really deserve to be treated this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Five years ago my boyfriend found out that I was keeping a secret from him. I held the fact that I was doing drugs from him. The hard drugs. It wasn't even 4 months into me using when he found out. He was mad and I don't blame him. It is now 5 years ...

I don't even know how but I'm screwing up my dream relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I was in love with my best friend for about a 2 years. i finally told her how i felt and after about 2 months she broke up with her boy friend and made it pretty clear she wanted be with me. so i was stoked and for about 6 weeks it was really gr...

Unhappy with or without her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - alrite so im with this girl and like her alot and we've been going out for like 2 years and im kinda getting over it but i think we broke up i would really jelouse and unhappy more so than i already am but at the same i really am unhappy with her ...

Why would he say hurtful things that he doesn't mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have found the love of my life! I imagine us growing old together and still crazy about each other. The ONLY thing that worries me is that when he is upset at me, he doesn't want to talk to me and says things like he is not so sure about us. But ...

He says he needs time to miss me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating the my boyfriend for more the 5 yrs. 4 1/2 of them we have lived together. Our biggest problem over the years has been the fact that he is more interested in having fun money then money for bills. I own my own house and make more ...

We broke up so he can figure himself out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. We have only been together 4 months. We didn’t break up due to being unhappy or unfaithful. It wasn’t anything like that. Before we met, we both were not looking for a relationship, but we so happened to run ...

I've had sex now with my cousin twice - I need help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Okay, my last post didn't exactly help for several reasons such as not many people posted and some of those who did post clearly didn't understand that it isn't illegal to have sex with your cousin, get them pregnant or even marry them and yet it is ...

Was he just trying to let me down easy by saying "take a break"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Alright so my bf and I are "on a break" kind of, as in we used to hang out 24/7 and were driving each other crazy. He suggested that we just spend a lot less time together, maybe hang out once/week, but still talk online and on the phone. Well s...

What should I say to her and can she legally try to keep my baby????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and 7 months pregnant, my bf is 18 and both of our parents were shocked yet understanding when they heard the news. My mom and step dad have offered to help us in any wya they can. But last night I over heard my mom talking to a friend of ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to be sweet to me any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi there readers!!! I've been having a serious problem with my boyfriend these past few days and I was wondering if you can give me any good advice to what I should do? Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and been living ...

I want a baby but the man I love is sterile...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I'm ready for a baby, physically anyway. Don't give me the "you're too you and financially unstable to support a child".. I don't want a baby right now. That would not be responsible of me. I know I want children... but my fiancee is sterile....

Should I leave him and wait for someone to come along that is going to give me what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I'm having problems with this guy!! I'm 19. He is 26. We met 3 months ago. It turned out we lived a street from each other and I started to go round his in the evenings to chill. He never came to mine because I live with my family and they're a ...

I lost my baby at 30 weeks and don't know how to restart my life...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (?) - Hi everyone, I would appreciate any advice anyone has for me. Six months ago I lost my baby boy through miscarrage at 30 weeks, it was completely unexpected as most of the pregnancy had been fine. I had already bought all of the things for his ...

Is it all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Where do I begin? I know my problem will probably seem childish and maybe even overdone. The logical answer is to simply choose but sometimes it's just not that easy you know? So I've had this friend whom I love, cherish, trust and respect. He's an ...

I fear making a clean break from him... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I finally found the strength to break up with my abusive bf last week. And I stood my ground. He got really angry because of that. I don't think he ever expected me to stand up to him - he couldn't handle it at all, he got so out of control, I had ...

"We can be together... just not right now"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 1 year separated yesterday. Here's the situation... both of us know that we're the one for each other and we are very much in love. The reason for our separation is that she has constant family problems. Her Mother and Father ...

Obsessed boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My bfriend and I have only been together a few months. The first two months were very serious (talks of marriage) but now I have just about had enough. He got really drunk one night and sent me abusive text messages because I was at work and ...

What is wrong with him? Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - He never makes the first move to kiss me, I always go up to him and start kissing him not even when he have sex he say 'baby show me some love or 'are you gonna show me some love and I find this really weird cos it's never happened before with none ...

I didn't enjoy kissing/snogging... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I am not a very confident person and have never had a relationship before but have now met somebody through a dating website and met them for the first time last night. I had a lovely lovely time, and I really really like him, he is just so ...

Was it my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi well a couple of weeks ago I met up with this guy he kept pestering me to meet him saying he really liked me and stuff and he kept putting pressure on me to meet him and I don't like that but anyways I agreed to meet him, I met him the one night ...

I don't know how to handle this situation and could really use some advice.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for two months. From the start, she has pursued me quite aggressively -- a fact that I initially found flattering. Unfortunately, as time goes by, I realize that I am simply not in love with her. She, on the other hand, seems ...

For my daughters sake.., should I settle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I met someone new. My husband and I were having problems. I was 8 months pregnant and he decided it was best for me to go live with my parents out of state. I don't want to get into the specifics of the problems but it did not involve cheating in a...

Do I reply after all this time if he is still married?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys, I started seeing a man just before he got married. I know, bad move... I stopped seeing him as he needed time to figure out his life and what he really wants. I told him if it is me that will make him happy then I will be here for him. If...

Sometimes I feel like quitting the relationship but I like her as a person

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My friend has got a very polite way of humiliating people and I don’t like it, I have spoken to her about this several times but she is a “take it or leave it” kind of a person. She does it to me as well sometimes and it hurts my feelings. But most...

What do I do to make him change his mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - ok... its pretty difficult but i was already pregnant when i first met my fiance. we were together 3 months and he had left for pre deployment training. we had a really good friend and he told me while my fiance was away that he was sleeping with...

Can I enjoy love without infatuation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - I want to start off by saying, in the past I've always dated or pursued a girl that I've been infatuated with. Usually it goes fine except for the "simple" fact that none of them loved me, or they weren't infatuated enough to wish to continue. Af...

Should I or shouldn't I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Last weekend, I went to a dance with my boyfriend at his school(I'm homeschooled). He's in 9th grade and I'm in 7th. I'm 13 and He's turning 15. Anyway, everytime I Met one of his friends, they looked at me in a funny way, like they didn't like me o...

What do I do to save our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for almost 3 years ( since 17) and for the first almost 2 years it was a long distance relationship. We got engaged while still living in different states and planned on one of us moving. Due to some family problems i was ...

Is he right in thinking I owe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have a 2 year old together. At the time we both had great jobs. I took a year off for maturnity leave. Now, my boyfriend thinks that because he had to help support me when i was on maternity leave...he thinks i owe him this huge...

Am I in any way to be blamed for whatever is happening to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (M) - hello everyone....i am scared please help !! me and my girlfriend have had many phone sex chats and masturbate on phone. she rubs her clit with a pen refill. recently she has got irregular periods and strange sensations near her clit area which she ...

What can I do to make my husband understand that this is my problem and happened before I met him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi I am going to make this short as possible about 20 yrs ago I made the biggest mistake of my life I slept with my sisters boyfriend who later became her husband. I didnt tell anyone, but he did he told her and she confronted me and I denied i...

He says he loves me but I'm doubting and he's still wife the wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I met a man online. He said he was separated and would be getting a divorce, but soon after we started to get to know each other, he admitted that he was still with her, just wanting a divorce. We continued to talk and he told her that he wanted a ...

Even his sister calls him a jerk,but I'm confused about what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I just need some advice as im in a tough confusing situation right now. Okay so I posted a lil while ago about my ex that went crazy when he lost his good paying job and left me the same week when I found out I was pregnant. Gave me $ ...

He likes porn because "they look better than you"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - i am with a lovely man who is kind and gentle. He likes his porn and one day i asked him why. His response was that "they are better looking than me". Well, I was devastated. Since then I have forgiven him but I find intimacy with him very di...

Please just pray for his safe return to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I need you prayers, PLEASE! Two months ago I lived a simi-normal life. I had a family, a home and a job. I have been on here before about my husbands abuse, but I finaly got the nearve to leave him. This required me to quit my job and I sent my c...

I used the Plan B pill and denied it! Now he accuses me of lying when he has told me so many, himself! Is this fair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Ok... So I come on here regularly and give advice every once in a while, but now, I really need to hear others opinions. I posted this question last night, but didn't get much responce. So, can anyone help? Ok. My boyfriend and I went on ...

I don't get it..did I do something wrong when we met for our first date! Help me understand!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - Sorry about the length but please do read it all. Thanks! I met this guy online and he was so excited at the prospect of meeting me. He asked me out and planned dinner at the beach. The night we met up something wasn’t right. He seemed distract...

I desperately need your advice aunts! Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I recently posted a question about my fiance and I having problems with him betraying my trust, but I didnt mention that 2 years ago I did something awful as well... Our relationship back then was pretty awful. He was always nasty to me, we fought...

My personal life is mixing with my private life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I have been with the same man since 2000 although we have known each other for nearly 24 years and had a previous relationship. We both got other children and one between us. My 17 year old has caused me a lot of problems and my boyfriend has been ...

I'm finding the distance a struggle... any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. I love him dearly, but it seems like we have had nothing but struggles since we began dating. We have been in a long distance relationship from the very beginning. He lives about 3 hours ...