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Archived questions from: 2 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My jealousy is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for a month and a half now. And everything is going so well. She has a past with other boys and it bothered me a lot, but I got over it. But yesterday, I was on her Hyves (other sort of Facebook/Myspace) and I went to ...

I found my own sister in bed with my boyfriend!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My sister is having an afair with my boyfriend! I was going to his apartment and saw her car. When I got upstairs (I have a key) they were in bed. What should I do? I hate my sister now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

She's found someone else but is it just a rebound relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend about a year ago. We'd been a couple for 2 years. The problem is my parents doesn't agree if i dated her. I'm 24 and she is 22 now. So when we broke up I told her that I can't be with her any more. But the truth is I ...

Should I continue on these pills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for some time now. He's 38 and I am 20. I am also a teacher and I am ready to have a child. The problem is I have problems ovulating and my doctor puts me on fertility drugs - which I am taking now. H...

I sort of went through her stuff and found something I didn't want to see! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - My future in this relationship depends on what you guys think. Please read it and give some wise advice. I don't want to make the wrong decisions, or tell her things I don't mean. Please read as much as you can, and let me know! I have a problem w...

He made up a story that a was seen cheating. Why would he do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been arguing for the last couple of months over the same things over and over. After finally talking everything over and analyzing our relationship we have decided to stay together and work things out. We had a long ...

I like my friend's brother and she doesn't want me to like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I have been talking to one of my best friend's brother for a little while and he asked me out (I said yes) but he is grounded and his parents took away his car until he graduates so he has to wait a month till I get my license to go out with me but ...

Any way to handle this situation quietly and brush this guy off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi - need some advice. I'm a first year university student and I recently applied for an internship at a gallery which I really want and need. I'm doing a history of art degree and without appropriate work experience, nobody will employ me at a ...

What to do about this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Dear All, in particular Satin desire, Star and Eve the ones who helped me with my problem over the weekend - i do hope you are there and read this.... (from im being played for a fool post) - the guy at work the bad night at the cinema!!...

I'm really messed up over the ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of about a year broke up with me a few months ago. We went to different colleges and a few months in she decided she couldnt handle having a boyfriend. School, basketball, and other things were keeping her too busy and so she decided ...

I don't think hes that into me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been in a relationship for 20yrs, I'm 61 female and most of that 20yrs have been very lonely. I live far away from my grown-up children. My partner has always liked a drink and is very abusive in drink, I myself rarely go out a...

I got back with him as I was scared he would hurt himself, how do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been dating this guy for a few months now. And I have to say our relationship doesn't make any sense. For one he's already talking about marriage and having kids. When he has 2 kids and I have 1. I told him I'm not ready for marriage, but ...

How can my husband and the rest of the employees deal with their weird boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I posted my problem originally here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husbands-boss-is-making-increasingly-weird-demands.html I can give you some more info on the context of the situation. My husband works for a firm that distributes computi...

Should I believe that he loves me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I have broken up with my boyfriend of 1.5 years as he felt unable to say that he loved me or and didn't know when he would be able to as he wasnt 'feeling it' and he knew thats what I needed from the relationship after all this time. This was hard ...

My girlfriend has anorexia. How do I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Hello guys, I've got a big issue here. I don't have a clue how to deal with it, my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, we had a break once and she kind of cheated on me then, Anyway I got over that part, she really needed me...

He won't respond to my text message about talking and it's REALLY frustrating me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - He won't respond to my text message about talking. I don't understand this. Why not a yes no or a maybe. If we wait any longer to talk about this misunderstanding there won't be anything to talk about. I have never been with an a man who won't ...

Can you provide some suggestions on how I may react to recent detachment behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I am in a Long-Distance Relationship. Currently, he has a lot going on. (unemployed, singe-dad of 2, lives with mom and step/dad). He often withdrawls which I’m sure it is for him to refocus on his situation. He’s admitted being somewhat d...

So close to something great, but unable to get there.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 1/2. We live an hour apart. Generally spend weekends together and sometimes weeknights. There has been growing problems about her expressing her feelings for me. I know she loves me, I can see it in ...

Help ! I wanna confront my feelings for what He did to me... but I can't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I'm so pissed off but at the same time sad. Please take your time to read this, it might be long but please read it and help me... I went out with this guy - let's call him Bob and so we lasted like 2 months and a half. I later found out that in ...

I know I need to own up but it is going to ruin everything!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend who is working abroad asked me to to go out and visit him for a holiday so we started planning and for some stupid reason thats when I stared lying. As the weeks passed I daren't tell my parents about the holiday (I have never travelled ...

How do you let go of someone that love & care for so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - How do you let go of someone who you care for so much and love? I think I need to break up with my bf because he can be very disrespectful towards me, especially when he has been drinking. But the thing is, he can be the best bf I have ever had ...

My boyfriend is bi and cheated on me with another man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I found a few months ago my boyfriend of 5 years is bi sexual. I found out through texts I found on his phone and pictures and also I found out through a device I installed on the computer which showed up as he been looking at gay porn sites . I ...

How can you have this typeof relationship & not talk about the problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - i got a bit jealous and got mad. I apologoized to him. My jealousy was uncalled for but we had just been back toghether after a 2 month seperation, so my trusting him still needed reassurance. He told me it was disrpectful to him that I did not ...

My boyfriend gets mad if guys flirt with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend gets jealous if other men hit on Me. For example, someone sent Me roses for valentines day and I didn't know from who. He got angry at Me. How is this my fault I still don't know who they were from. I went back home for 1 week once and ...

Torn between my mom and my dad who has major issues.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - My mum found out that my dad had been cheating on her although their marriage,she told him to leave he came to stay with me and my wife as he had nowhere else to go,my wife did not want him at our house because of the things he had done so i spoke ...

How to improve my reputation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - What can I do to improve my reputation? Now that I am feeling stronger after a bad divorce and can take stock of my life, looking back I see a trail of people I have disenchanted and alienated since my twenties in both my personal and professional...

Lied about virginity 12 years ago..trust has been lost

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I had Posted my question yesterday under the headding He found out I lied about my virginity 12 years ago! Hey guys thanks a ton for all your inputs and thoughts. Well just to add further clarity for a few of you yes he very clearly and spec...

I need and want her back horribly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up I accused her of cheating cause she was sneaking around and hiding talking to her ex and going out to lunch with him and hiding it from me, and started wearing some Jewerly he had gotten her for christmas again.(Normally ...

Her parents won't let her be with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - SORRY ITS long..... So I'm in a tight spot.... I've been sorta seeing this girl for almost a month. We've been close family friends for a while but, my parents don't really approve. My dad thinks nothing good can come from me dating her, and ...

I thought I was in love, but now I have feelings for someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years now and we have really had some ups and downs. We've broken up, saw other people, and got back together quite a few times. He's away right now, but planning to come back to me and actually ...

Why do girls go back to abusive relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - why do girls go back to bad realationships, being it unhealthy or abusive? a friend asked me why im in a abusive realationship and i didnt no what to say. so please help me with what to say...

Help settle an argument!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having an argument about cheating. No neither of us is but we can't agree as to what can be defined as cheating. I said that if I made a girl on girl video (hypothetical) but he wasn't allowed to see it BUT I told him about...

I think my boyfriend does not trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I think My boyfriend does not trust me. I live in a small town and know alot of people and am really just nice and introduce him to everyone. I love him would never cheat on him but yet he gets jealous or something even when we were out with my ...

Is she more confused then me? What gives...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - About 2 weeks ago my wife out of no where says she wants a divorce. We have been together eight years and although tings have been very rough at times we have always made it through. We are still good friends and still live together at the moment ...

I'm kind of insecure as my boyfriend is very attractive and a lot of girls like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 and I live in the US and my 2 year boyfriend lives in Mexico. He comes and goes because he is in school over there. I have a big issue with him not doing a lot of things, I am a wonderful girl, I'm smart, strong, outgoing, easy going, ...

Engaged and cheating

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I am engaged and been in a relationship for almost 7 years. However, I have cheated a handful of times throughout the relationship. Since I have been engaged I have cheated 3 times with different people. I feel guilty and know that this can't ...

I think he's cheating and seeing other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I am a 33 year old woman who is in a relationship with a married man that has been going on for a while, him and his wife are separated, and we live together, i feel that he is cheating on me because when we are home together he turns his phon...