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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

She's emotionally taking advantage of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - OK, i love my girlfriend. but i have an ongoing source of frustration. background: we've been dating for 2 years, she moved to my state to be with me, we talk about marriage maybe next year....issue: if i express a need, it becomes a "complex" for ...

Has he changed or will he hurt me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - i want to know if my ex has/can change or will he hurt me again! without going into too much detail (would be an essay otherwise). we went out for a year he broke my heart and went out with someone else for 6 months ( he had cheated on me wi...

I miss my girlfriend so much but I'm still with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much. The trouble is, we're still together. We've been together for 18 months now. For the first 12 months, things could not have been better. We were so close. We trusted each other with everything, we could talk about an...

I confront him and he just lies to me more

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 8 years is lying to me about were he met this girl on his myspace. We have had our problems in the past yet I have stayed with him. I feel like this is the last draw I don't know what to do I confront him and he just lies...

I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy. The worst is that I feel like my husband does not want to have sex with me anymore. I've put on 8-9 lb and I feel like he does not like the way I look now. He still tells me I'm beautiful when I s...

I just wish we were both less jealous and co-dependent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm extremely jealous/insecure. I don't know where it stems from, but let's try and see. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half. He's my first boyfriend ever. In the beginning of the relationship I wasn't this jealous, and I was more...

I have never expressed once that I could or would support her in this way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - since I've been with my girlfriend she has had maybe 5 or 6 different jobs, most last less than a month. the longest was at Macy's and that was 3 months working only weekends. she's not in school, she's not disabled, although she doesn't have any ...

What is she thinking? What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me have recently fallen out and I'm in such a state. The reason for the falling out is not important so I won't go into that. My problem is the way I'm reacting to this. She said she wanted space and I have done my best to give tha...

My ex hs started to flirt with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - i am with my ex boyfriends friend, it did not mean to happen but he treats me better than my ex, my ex was cheating on me with two other girls and he finished me. but now my ex hs started to flirt with me again and asking to come to my house, now ...

I do not think he is cheating on me but I am not sure he is done with that relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my current partner for two years. He has an ex g/f from a few years ago. He stays in contact with her and recently let it slip out that he has not told his ex g/f that we are seeing each other. He sometimes tell...

It got completely out of control and the lie got so big, we couldn't back out of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I've been friends with a girl named Natalie for about 6 months now. She lives 40 minutes away from me. My friends that live close to me and I decided that it would be funny to lie to Natalie and tell her that I had this huge compli...

My friend's wife is very jealous of me

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16 March 2009 (F) - My friends wife is very jealous of me. She thinks there is something going on when there's not, and doesn't want him anywhere near me. I've discussed this and she is very sweet to me, but talks about me behind my back to all my friends. There ...

My husband cheated on me for eight years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hope you can help...... My husband cheated on me for eight years, it took him 5 years to be done with her completely always begging me not to divorce him and take the kids. I stayed but I think she ended it more then he did. He has become a real...

Help me save my friend!

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16 March 2009 (M) - So here's the story. I've been friends with a guy for four years now -- hes my best friend. We moved in together almost 2 years ago now and we have a great relationship. Just this past November, he dumped his girlfriend of 3 years because he ...

A love triangle thing and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Ok im in the middle of a very messy situation at the moment! kind of a love triangle thing and i dont know what to do. From the outside looking in im probably going to look quite bad (i know i feel it) but any knid of advice on what to do here would ...

I need to trust him, could I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a question that I really need some help with. I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and we have had an amazing time. We had a split about a year into the relationship as we were both un-happy and needed a break. About 3 m...

Miserable and a Newlywed...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I got married in October of 2008. We are both young—in our mid twenties. 2008 was a whirlwind year for us. We both switched jobs, bought a house, and were on very different schedules, limiting our time together. When we did get together, we would ...

He keeps me hidden from all of his family...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi I live with a man named Bill and we are having a baby due in April. He says he loves me but I am thinking he is playing mind games with me. He keeps me hidden from his friends and family. He hardly ever wants to take me out. He tells people he is ...

I am very confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I am very confused my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years moved out and moved straight in with another girl who has a child of 6 yrs old and we were due to go to st lucia for christmas. he is giving half the money so gave me...

Should I accept to see him if he suggests this?

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16 March 2009 (F) - After some time that the man i used to date last year did't call me ;as i have decided not to call him again, suddenly he called me. He was polite and i talked to him kindly without denying to go out with him again, although i don't intent to do so. ...

Guilt about sexual attraction

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 March 2009 (?) - Dear Friends, I'm in a very bad state of guilt, 10 years ago when I was 13 years I had a sexual attraction towards my mom and I ended up acting on it like smelling panties, peeping at her and once tried to grope her when I was sleeping next to her ...

Dont know what to do!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is stil...

My boyfriend is balding and I don't like it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I really need help please. I love my bf as a person. I think he's great but recently he's been losing his hair and its really starting to look bad. He's tried many different hairstyles but they don't really suit him. Recently he shaved his head ...

My husband is addicted to porn and pics of really young girls

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - my husband is addicted to porn and he also looks at pics of really young girls, how can I help him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been togethe...

I need advice on stressful family situation.

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16 March 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been married for 13 years and have to cildren ages 4 and 12. I am amrried to a man who was previously married and we live with 2 of his sons 18 and 26. My problem is with his children. They hate me. The older one who is the adul...

Why do guys turn into womanizers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I know this guy and we made out a couple of times. He wanted to have sex but I said no. I like him but it turns out he is a big manwhore who sleeps around. I heard that he was in a 3 year relationship not too long ago. I dont know the exact details ...

Did I find my soulmate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - So... a few things... I am an attractive guy, one night stands never did it for me so after the few that I had, I stopped them. I can't stand girls who do have them a lot. I met this girl.. and she is the sweetest thing on earth, we are madly ...

Being led on hurts so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and was with a girl for two years. I was getting kind of bored and wasn't sure what I wanted. I met this other girl and started getting feelings so I left my girlfriend because I didn't want to cheat. This girl had a bf for 4 years and he ...

Please respond if you know of any recovery stories and explain how it was done.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 March 2009 (?) - Have you or anyone you know had recovery success in a relationship with: 1. A compulsive liar 2. A partner who flirted behind the other's back 3. An emotionally, verbally, mentally abusive partner Please respond if you know of any rec...

Problems with my Xbox friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I met a girl on Xbox right before valentines day. We started talking as friends then started getting more serious after we found out we were almost the same person now what I'm gunna say will make her sound like a psycho bitch but I love her so ...

Other than waiting for therapy to give results does anyone have any ideas for how to liven things up or does the dark cloud loom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend would be the perfect candidate for someone with a necrophelia fetish. Unfortunately, that's not me. As I think back over the past year I can recall times of better sex and some of the worst encounters possible (the train keeps running ...