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female
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30-35,
*atie610
writes:We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by my locker, he'd go straight to the buses. He told me he loved me a few times, but now I don't know if he really meant it or not. Whenever he ignored me, he'd be with his guy friends instead. Some of the excuses he had for not being able to hang out were: being grounded, being busy, or his friend having problems and him needing to be there for him. But he could be really sweet when he wanted to be. A lot of times, however, he would only hold my hand or put his arm around me when my friends told him to! Once I asked my friend to ask him if he wanted to break up, and she told me he said no. On Thursday I was talking to my friend on the phone, and asked her to tell him it's over unless he does something about it or talks to me. I know, I should have talked to him myself. Later when we were walking to our first class, she told me he cared a lot and was going to talk to me when he got the chance. At the end of the day, I was at my locker, and he was at his. I know he saw me cuz he looked at me, but he walked right past me and straight to the buses. Do you think he avoided me cuz he didn't care anymore, or because he didn't want to break up and didn't know what to say? It's spring break right now, and he hasn't called me so I'm thinking it was that he doesn't care anymore, and I'm really hurt by that. He was my first kiss and my longest relationship. We only kissed once.But one problem: I have a new boyfriend! My best friend introduced us to each other at the mall on Saturday, and later he asked me out. But he has done more than my ex ever did. He put his arm around me, held my hand, hugged me a few times, and kissed me twice. Is that going too fast?Thinking about my ex has been ruining my break, and I don't know if he considers us over or not. I don't even know if he's mad at me, but if he is I can see why. What should I do about this?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 March 2009):
This is the third time you've asked this question.
Why don't you follow the advice you have already been given?
Good Luck!! xx
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