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Archived questions from: 28 March, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm in love with someone I will never have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I'm in love with someone i will never have! I had him, and i screwed it up big time! Now i will never have him again. I am kicking myself. Has anyone been in this situation? how did you move on? because i can't seem to!...

My friends say someday we'll be on the same page

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been dating 8 months now. We knew there was this huge connection from the moment we met. It was one of those chemistry things. From the day we met pretty much acted like we were dating. He got jealous at a party we were at on ...

Should I cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over ten years. This man has nothing to offer but child care. He is extremely selfish. He has been unemployed for over three years. Refuse to work under any circumstances. He complains when ever he do a chore and ...

He ignores me but talks to other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Ok,there's this guy i liked afew years ago who lived near me.He used to buy me a drink when he saw me,kept asking if i had a boyfriend,and once he wanted me to go to his house,for a drink,at least,i think that was why.Thats what he said anyway,but ...

He's cheating,..got another girl pregnant..but loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My child father cheated on me and got another girl pregnant but she miscarried.and he says it was an accident.he tells me he loves me.but he continues to cheat. I don't know what should I do?...

I've invested a lot into this friendship. What do I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My best friend of a year terminated our friendship this week. I don't know what to do. I'm in a mess. This is the situation: We've been friends a year. He's a gay guy I'm a female "Grace". My gay friend I will call 'Will'. We hit it off immediate...

Follow up: My husband has impregnated a girl-twice in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This is a follow up to My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-impregnated-a-girl-twice-during.html Thanks to all those who responded to my question i really vaue all your...

He is really confused and miserable, and so am I. How can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - i am in a kind of tight situation. my best friend is in love with a girl he has known for 3 years..but..he has been with his girlfriend for 7 years...he doesn't love her.never did.but he was with her,cuz she needed his support and he wanted to suppo...

Will I ever be able to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - i was married for 24 years to a man that didn't love me. i fell in love with another, while married, our feelings seemed to be real, specially his, he had been hurt before and he said it was very hard for him. he said that pain is too hard so he ...

I keep asking questions and its driving him crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is 29 the kind of guy that doesnt like to be touched. and very quit.been together 2 years. met in a strip club. well i found out from one his co workers that he stoped careing for me 4 months ago and planing on moveing in augest and brak...

I don't know whats going on with him and I need help figuring this out before I go crazy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - ok theres something going on between my fiance and i and i cant figure it out... we have been fighting for about 2-3 weeks now. we've been together for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. but some things are little as him chargeing xbox stuff to o...

The day the earth stood still

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - Why is my ex being so unfriendly. She saw someone else behind my back, i found out walked away no questions or trouble. Very hurt. I thought if thats your choice good luck. Time passed a year or so i did everything i could to be friends or at le...

Have I gotten too clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend that I've gotten VERY close with but we have not yet reached the point of being boyfriend-girlfriend. It's a long distance relationship (about 100 miles). We were supposed to meet over lunch recently when she left me a voice ...

This, in my mind, has broken my trust for my fiance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I am very much in love with a man and we are about to get married quite soon. I have been married before and I bought my first husband a very expensive watch which he left behind when he left me. I gave my fiance the watch to sell for me as he know...

I don't know what going on. Can you help me solve this mystery?

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28 March 2009 (F) - ok so my fiance and i have been having some minor/major difficulties in our situation i thought we have finally worked everything out opened up to each other but it dont seem that way. well we have been fighting for weeks over everything and i was ...

I'm in love with my FWB....he is my ex boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I am in love with my friends with benefits....he is my ex boyfriend. we became best friends and then we went to being friends with benefits. the thing is that i have fallen for him and i don't know what to do. he is a really sweet guy. we have date...

I want my son to have his father in his life full time, but his dad has two other sons that wont leave home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have been together for a year and we have a 2.5 month son together. We don't live together because he has a 21 year old son and a 26 year old son that live with him. He says that he wants to buy a house for us but ...

My flirty fiancee wont stop flirting with our younger friend...why does she need to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am 47 and my fiance is 41. She constantly flirts with a younger 23 year old friend of ours everytime she sees him. She says she has no attraction toward him and it's innocent but this really pushes my buttons everytime she does it. I've told ...

Is he just trying to find an easy way out of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - So recently stuff has been hard. I'm under quite alot of pressure from school to get the best grades I can and at home as well. So me and my friends started going out on a friday night and taking off the pressure by drinking. We've only done it for ...

Was I wrong to make a rude comment about his new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I'm so afraid that if people that I think of as my true friends were to find out what I had done, that they would be let down or disappointed in me. I'm afraid that they might think I'm a bad person. Maybe I'm wrong and just listening to fear. ...

Will my boyfriend leave me because I don't want children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I don't want kids. I have never wanted kids. I just don't like them, have no motherly instinct, plus childbirth = ow. My boyfriend does want kids. He's said he used to think about being a father a lot. He knows I don't want them, and knew that whe...

I'm the one making all the effort in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks and it seemed to going well but... My problem is he used to text me a fair bit through the day, not loads but enough to know that he does like me. Now though I only get one text a day and he leaves ...

I miss the intimacy and don't know what's wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue. When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was wit...

Now I'm being bullied by the co-worker he's dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I dated a guy in my workplace:we kept it secret due to policy.i previously helped him get a job there. he didn't know at the time that i was bullied there.i didn't want to get him involved and was scared he would think less of me. anyway, i fell i...

Dont want to push him further but don't want to give up either

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Can time realy heal I met this guy on line Jan 08 shortly after joing a chat site. We became friends instantly as we had a lot in common. About 4 month into the friendship he met another girl that he almost instantly fell for. As there relation...

My husband has left me for another woman and I am devastated,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - my husband has left me for another woman and i am devastated, i can not cope, he was my whole world and my world has collapsed, just need to know how to get myself strong again. ...

How do you know when you've ruined a friendship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This is bugging me so much that I can't sleep. Sorry it's long but I need to get this off my chest. I'm feeling very conflicted about a friend. Part of me feels overcome with guilt because I think I've ruined the friendship and part of me is...

I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a waitress. I recently moved in with her 2 months ago. Everything was going great but then she left her myspace open so i looked at it and saw that she was talking ...

I want to break up with my girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - hello everyone ...i am 21 and my girlfriend is 18 ....we are having an affair since one year but due to some reason i have decided to dump her ...she has been a very responsible and caring girlfriend and i am really very lucky to have a person like ...

I don't trust other guys after I been cheated on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - First off, I'm nineteen. My ex and I dated for two years. He physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me on an almost daily basis for about a year and eight months of that. Four months ago, he cheated on me with a girl who had already had eight ...

She wants to go see an old guy friend, but won't let me come with her...to meet him! Right or wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am a 28 year old male, in a long distance relationship with a 22 year old female. I had plans to go visit her, for a week in April 3. But we hit a snag here and now I am not sure if I should go, (in light of what's happened) After my visit...

Who do I choose...my wife or my lover?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I ended up having an affair due to lack of affection from my wife. I know I was wrong and I take full responsibility for my actions. Obviously, I wasn't looking for affection, it just grew from a friendship to an emotional level, which turned ...

My ex invited me & my b/f to a housewarming party and played a sex tape we had made together!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - dear aunts, my boyfriend and i have been dating for two and a half years. he's funny, honest, smart, hard-working, just everything i could want in a man. i have never connected with another person on so many levels, and i can't imagine loving a...

He left me for another girl and it's killing me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - This guy left me for another girl. It's been a week. She is prettier and more popualar. I feel really gutted. But also, we parted on bad terms and I can't ever speak to him again, and I know for a fact he will never contact me ever again. I miss him ...