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He has me confused, is he messing with me?

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Question - (16 December 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I need some advise. I dated a guy for about two months. When I met him things moved at his pace. I met his fam right away and he made me his girlfriend. I thought nuthing of it, but i knew things had moved to fast since I had been in a long term relationship before and he had never been in one. At one point in time I asked him if being BF+GF was what he really wanted, I wanted to make sure it wasnt a moment kinda thing. He said yes. We started having issues because I felt that he still wanted to lead the single life and have a relationship at the same time, and thats something that i wasnt into.So came the day that I confronted him w/ the issue and he told me he didnt know what he wanted in a relationship, so we broke it off. That seemed like an excuse to me. So I stopped calling texting basically cut him of because I just couldnt be friends although he suggested we should be friends and still chill. I wasnt ok with that. So know when he doesnt hear from me for extended periods of time he finds a way or excuse to come around/contact me. when I talk to him or start coming around he backs off. It seems to me like hes just messing with me. Im confused??

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