A
male
age
41-50,
*he_phoenic
writes:Hi every one..i am a healthy man and i love sexmy problem is the time i need to ejaculate..i have always been slow and it took me from 20-40 min of intercourse to ejaculte ..but since 4 months,the time has encreased to 50-90 min wich is very unhealthy ..my partner is sadand me alsosome times after an hour or two of intercourse i find my self very very tired and loose erection and finaly i finish masterbating !!please help and is this curable ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): Definitely, stop masturbating if you are. She is a lucky woman.
I completely sympathize with her feelings of sadness. She is assuming that you only orgasm when you ejactulate.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (17 December 2009):
the_phoenic is verified as being by the original poster of the questioneyes wide open
it making both of us sad !!
i am not lieng some times it reahces more than 90 min
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 After a hour or TWO of intercourse is your partner sad or sore?
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (16 December 2009):
the_phoenic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionguy it is making my partnet sad more than me
i have always masterbated even in the early days when it was taking 30 mins..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): What abuot ending the act before you orgasm? Sex doesn't always have to end when the man climaxes. So many women never climax during sex, and they still enjoy it. What will happen if you don't ejaculate? Unless you feel any discomforts, there should be no need to have to come every time you have sex.
Just accept it as it is. Have sex for as long as you enjoy it, set a time of 30 minutes of intercourse perhaps? Then have sex again later in the day, and that time maybe it'll be easier for you to come since you've already had a "taste" earlier? Speaking from a female perspective, it takes me ages to come too, and after a while it gets boring and tiresome for both parties. Taking breaks help. And not do it any longer than it's comfortable. Then after a while, if you start having sex again, it feels a lot better (for me at least, it makes it easier).
You could also invest in some toys and see if they help you climax since they will give you a new sensation. Then use those to finsih off or for foreplay.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 If you correct your vision about sex, then all the best follow you automatically, as a gift!!! Now, read carefully 1.Sex-organ { of male and of female also] has only one character or attribute, TO PLEASE ONE'S MIND. Pleasure is the only thing located in sex-organ.2.But,see by yourself that sex organ is only form, which expressed 'pleasure' through hardest possible erection.3.But, this hardest and pleasurable erection is not primary, means it is dependent upon another factor, which is your 'semen'. If it is in good quantity and quality [thick], then you both will enjoy unbelievable pleasure.4 Conclusion: Don't go for ejaculation. stick to 'foreplay'. have good cognition and communication...all the best is waiting for you!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Are you masturbating at anytime during the day before you have sex? If so stop that.
Have you tried some variation? Changing positions, recieving oral beforehand, dress up play or using toys.
I found I had similar problems when sex had become a bit routine, but with some experimentation and adding some toys into the mix can spice things up.
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