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anonymous
writes:Hi all got a relationship question if a u go steady with someone and the relationship goes down and only becomes a sexual one am i right by saying that the person introduces it by saying he/she just wants sex because they hoping that some how they can work things out? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 It sounds like he's just interested in having a convenient booty call without the effort of a relationship. He seems interested in only one thing...
I would leave this relationship and finds someone who wants all of you, the fun, the laughter, the socializing, the talks, the hugs, the kisses and the sex. You deserve it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe reason i ask this question is we've been going out for 3 yrs and i no his love for me is deep and my love for him is deep too , so he asked how will i feel if we just had a sexual relationship and i said ppl who love each other as much as we do shouldn't because that would just be making sure the feelings we have don't fade and if it should end let it rather no use giving each other false hope . thing is we hardly get any time together and when we do it leads to sex and last year before he got the promotion we spent way more time together not just having sex but socialising enjoying each other and more .
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 If someone says they want sex only from you it means they just want sex from you and nothing more.
they just want a casual open relationship. no strings attached.
Hope this answers your question.
Good luck!
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reader, Calamity Jay +, writes (5 August 2009):
I'm a bit confused as to what you are saying I'm sorry - you had a proper relationship going on, but now he just wants sex and nothing else? Is that what you mean?
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (5 August 2009):
I think if you are in a relationship and you really, just want sex, I think it should be made clear, yes. Otherwise, someone is getting strung along thinking that there might be more to it, that the other person actually cares about them and is serious about the partnership.
So, the person who just wants sex should definitely say something and maybe the other person will be receptive and okay with it, but if they're not - it should be over between the two.
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