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writes:Kind of a long story but I really need some objective advice...I was dating a guy for almost 2 years and then we got engaged and moved in together everything was fine for about 6 months then sort of fell apart. He ended up leaving me and I was so hurt I didn't want to see him or talk to him to help myself get over him but I still loved him. Well in the few months he was gone I ended up falling in love with someone else while still having some feelings for my ex but figured I would never speak to him again. But then he came back and begged my forgiveness told me what a big mistake he made and I left my current boyfriend and went back to my ex. Everythings going fine so far but I'm wondering if I made the right decision.. my previous boyfriend says he still loves me and would do anything to get me back..this doesnt make things easier. I love them both and they both love me...what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): life is not a ping pong ball, so don't go back and forth bet the two. you made a choice to be with this guy. it will be incredible selfish of you if you want him to hang around, just in case this doesn't work out again. please make peace with your decision and move on.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (21 August 2009):
 i dont understand why you would take back the guy that left you in the first place did he have a reason for leaving you the first time?maybe scared to commit or another women maybe?i think you should be with the other guy personally i mean the one your with now left you once he can do it again and again and yourl probably always take him back but that isnt showing love and respect is it. he was an ex for a reason and you should have kept him an ex as you vowed to move on with the next guy and i should imagine you hurt the next guy alot by doing exactly what your ex did to you how do you think he is feeling?he must care for you dearly to still want you back i mean you must have hurt him alot and he didnt do anything wrong.anyway in the long run who can you see yourself ending up with?you need to really think about it maybe take some time away from both guys and see who you think about the most but only you can decide who you choose to be in a relationship with
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2009): you made your decision when you left the new guy to go back to your ex. That is your choice. Move one and dont complicate things.
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