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*abbie
writes:I am 40 and my wife 39 and we have been married for 17 years, about a year ago a 21 year old girl came to my church and i can,t get her out of my head. am i in love with her? it is driving me crazy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): My friend don't even go there. you stepping in to a mine field. Danger danger danger!!!!
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reader, rcn  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 When did people start associating "driving me crazy" with LOVE. People go to strip clubs and watch cute, young girls, drives them nuts, doesn't meant it's time for divorce and picking up on a young thing.
It's lust, infatuation, puppy love, would look good on a poster, but not LOVE. You have to know someone, their personalities, their behaviors, before you have a capability of loving them.
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (17 September 2007):
Lust its all lust
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (17 September 2007):
 No, you are simply infactuated and probably having some lust also. You are at the age where you are trying to recapture your youth and virility. You see your wife as the same-ole, same-ole and you're probably craving something new and exciting. First of all, this young woman would never be interested in you long term and do you really want to break up your home and your family for a fling? Please think about this very carefully and perhaps ask God to remove these lustful thoughts you're having and try to replace them with something real, why not consider spicing up your sex life with your wife? Whatever your imagination conjures up, might be worth experimenting with but don't cheat on her. It's a road that will lead you to destruction and devastation and years of guilt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): I don't no why men are always going for younger women... but I you dump your wife then go out with her just know its because shes using you for your money... and nothin eles and if she says "I LOVE YOU" shes LIEING. Your better off staying with your wife
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (17 September 2007):
You don't know her and she doesn't know you. It's lust, all in your head.
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