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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008): dont go with what others tell you
they arent your boss
i think this choice is yours and follow your heart
thats what makes a person wise
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnak u guys all 4 the great advice !x0x0
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Well I just got to say, his girlfriend is pathetic. If that was my bf I would not for a second waste one minute of my time emailing the "other" girl to tell her to stay away from my guy. Ha! Yeah right! I would be using that time a little more constructively and dumping his disrespectful self for doing that to me.
And you are who your friends are. So if he is dating a girl that pathetic that says a lot about him. ugh. loser. Anyways this guy sounds like nothing but TROUBLE. You are lucky he lives 3000 miles away! Thank your lucky stars. Oh and when a guy makes false promises, oh jeez! Just be ready for more false promises. Ha! Look he sucks. There are alot of cute guys in Cali.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): Oh please! There are so many men. Why chose one who lives more than 2K miles away? An emotionaly healthy person will never chose an emotionaly unavailable partner. If a relationship is problematic when you live close imagine that distance. I suggest you stop calling and if he contacts you give him the ultimatum. But in my mind you are just looking for trouble with this relationship that makes no sense.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 Long distance relationships are difficult, I suggest you set a time for yourself when you have to meet in person, say 3 months. If you don't meet in person by that time then allow yourself to let that person go in your heart. Give yourself a break and find someone closer to home. Life is too short to be feeling lonely and unhappy. Find some fun and have it!
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 sounds like he is lying. if he was as keen to meet you as he says, why hasnt he done it by now? and i dont think his best friend or his sister would be out to get him as he says. you need to trust your instincts, be strong and walk away from him and dont look back, i know you care about him but hopefully since you havent met him in person it will be a little easier for you to forget him when you have broken the routine of texting and calling him. good luck x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (15 September 2007):
 You said: he was always making me promises of coming here or sending me a ticket to go there but it never happend. That is your RED FLAG right there. He is lying, the others are telling the truth.-Frank B Kermit
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reader, youcant loose what you never had! +, writes (15 September 2007):
first you shudnt be his girlfriend if youve never met him in person you dont no him propely he could turn out to be a nutter.i met someone threw the internet and he made all the promises just like yours and gess what there never happened to me ither so i decided enough was enough and i havent spoken to him since.ok maybe you fell a special bond with him despite numorus people telling you to stay away but to be honest just like me you rely dont need the hassle.itll be a waste of time eventually he proberly wont even speak to you anymore. so next you should go out meet new people or even on the internet but neer you closer to home so you can meet and have a relationship that way there will be no excuse for not meeting up or tickets not arriving.to me this thing between you and him isnt a relationship you havent met him you have doubts about him and people warnig you off for all you know he could be married or something like that.you need to do whats best for you and if that is him the ok.hope i helped and i hope you make the right desicion for you good luck x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): hey, i think you should let him go. Maybe find someone close by? hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007): he's clearly lying.. i'd get rid of him
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