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Last night I had sex and we forgot to use protection, what do I do?

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Question - (9 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 16-17, anonymous writes:

last night i had sex with my boy friend. and well let's just say it wasn't that great and the worst part about it was we forgot to use protection of any kind what do i do if i get pregnant i will be in so much trouble i am only a freshman i know i shouldn't be having sex but i couldn't help it i needed it badly. what do i do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

If your 13 and don't wanna get pregnant ... Then you shouldn't be having sex!

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A female reader, satindesire United States +, writes (9 May 2009):

satindesire agony auntYou didn't NEED to have sex, you wanted to have sex. If you were in need of sexual relief and orgasm, you could have masturbated instead. Masturbating is easy and worry-less, you can't get pregnant or catch an STD from masturbating.

Since your boyfriend is probably around your age as well , he has no idea sexually what he's doing...so of course it didn't feel good. You need to take responsibility for your actions and make better choices in the future.

Take the morning after pill, but some condoms, and get on some form of hormonal birth control such as the pill, patch, shot or ring. Use condoms every time you have sex, as you really don't want to catch anything, and hormonal birth conrol does NOT protect you against STDs.

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2009):

BlondeBabe x agony auntJust use the morning after pill you can get it over the counter. But you will have to use it soon as the sooner you use it the more effictive it will be.

I would take your scare of being pregnaut as warning and just remember to use protection is the future.

Hope everything turns out okay.

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A male reader, Ignorance United States +, writes (9 May 2009):

Talk to your parents IMMEDIATELY or to a responsible adult to help you and guide you. Having a baby at your age would be very a unpleasant situation for you and for the poor baby.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntMorning after pill costs £20 from any chemist including Tescos, while you are there buy some condoms!

and read this when you get homehttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/sti-std-what-are-they-and-how-do.html

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2009):

Take the morning after pill if you are worried. Be careful in the future, and learn discipline.

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