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writes:I have been in a relationship with this girl for over a year now, I want to talk with her about sex, but I can't ever bring myself to... How should I start the conversation? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): It sounds like you mean you want to start having sex with her. Maybe you could start by asking if you can hold her hand and see how she responds. Then try to kiss her. You may be able to tell something from her response.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): You're not giving us enough to go on. Just going by your posted age, and your saying you've been together for a year, I'd have to think you've already done some stuff. And maybe everything but sex. To give you a sensible answer, I really have to know that. It's one thing if you've stayed at the kissing stage. It's quite a different thing if you've done "everything but ...".
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reader, niki20 +, writes (20 May 2009):
 just ask her how she feels about taking the relationship to the next level and ask her if she would like to make love and explore eachother in a new light. as long as you dont force her or try to manipulate her she should be ok, and talk about w/you. just dont make her feel cornered.
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reader, TaoTang +, writes (20 May 2009):
 You shouldn't, you should wait, im 15 and i aint gonna have sex
Even with a condom, i dont understand why guys under 20 want sex so much
Save it more Marriage so that you get to have it the first time with your true love
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