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writes:How safe is to plan to stay with my husband in this life, if he stopped being sexual with me at 43?What kind of future a marriage have, without sexual intimacy?He does not know what is wrong, but he wants me to accept this, that he is off sex, for unknown reasons. I mean ,the doctor have no idea, and he has no idea.He is not sick.He used to be very passionate about sex, and suddenly he just couldn't get an erection, and soon after that he cooled out in the bed.They checked him very well, at the doctors, so I have to say this again we don't know, why..Now ,he is a different man, and I don’t know, if I should leave him, or not? I'm very clear on the risks on both way, if I stay or I leave. But what, if I can't take it anymore? I think, if I leave, I might be even more depressed, as I have to build a new life, and upset my kids. I just wonder, what do you think of this, and if any of you went through on something like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): If he is good to you in other ways don't leave him just because of this. Give him a cuddle often and let him know it can stop there if he wants nothing else. Ask him whether there is anything else bothering him that he'd like to tell you about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): well i would be very upset to find out if my parents got seperated just because their sex life stoped. that simply means that there was no love in the relationship at all and you started of for lust untill he couldnt. its about age, not all men can get an eraction forever.is that the reason you bouth got maried? for sex? or do you realy love him? its up to you from there.
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