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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i slept together for the first time on saturday, and im seeing him tomorrow and think he wants to do it again. i want to again, but not tomorrow as ive just come on my period. however im quite shy about things like this and hes my first serious boyfriend, how do i tell him i cant tomorrow?
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reader, LadyEviil  +, writes (11 May 2009):
 Im sure hes going to want to know your on your period before he does anything. Just tell him, it really is no big deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2009): Yeah guys are a lot more understanding about it than we realise. If they have ever had a gf before they already know there are times when it's off limits. Just say you are feeling too sick, and if he asks why tell him you're bleeding.
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reader, natnatxxx +, writes (11 May 2009):
 Normally if youve had sex, your more sexually open? Are you sure you're ready for a sexual relationship with him? If your not comfortable with saying it to his face, say it before you meet up through text or msn. Or when he tries to get intimate gently push him away and say "time of the month" or whatever you might call it. However many people still do itimate acts when they're on, its natural and theres not much difference, if you have alot of tissues or towels to clean up after! but if your not comfortable with doing it when your on (which most girls arent, espcially on heavy days!) then just tell him, if hes a nice guy hell understand and wait until next time. x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (11 May 2009):
If he's dating a girl over the age of 11 then he is going to realise at some point that she's started her periods and has them monthly.
Just don't let him get that intimate and have a fun date night instead. If he says anything then just tell him that you can't "this week".
If he's got an IQ above 60 then he should figure out the reason that will stop you having sex for a week.
Good Luck!! xx
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