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female
age
30-35,
*issEmilina
writes:Dear Cupid,Last week i wrote to you about the problem i had with my friend and the whole sex with benefits ordeal. After i wrote to you he contined to text me asking for sex, i said i was busy every time hoping he would get the message.Then yesterday he text me again looking for sex. I was busy and said no. But i ran into him on the way home and he brought me to the park where we ended up kissing.But as i was walking he text me saying it couldnt happen again as he was, wait for it......getting with someone. I was furious but not surprised, it didn't hurt as much as it would have had a few weeks ago. But i was disgusted that he was getting with someone and was still wanting sex off me, it's not fair on me or her.I text him telling him how hurt and angry i was andthat he had no right to treat me like tat an how he had completely destroyed me over the last 6 months. He didn't care which stung as i gave up my virginity to him and i was nothing more than a booty call to him. Anyway we had a fight and he asked me to delete his number. I didn't and not planning to. It's finally over with us even though he has told me that before. I'm not sure if he deleted my number but maybe he did.What i want help with is i still want to give out more to him and let him know what he as put me through and basically get my own on him. Is it wise or should i walk away? I'm afraid that if i do i'll regret it, could you pease help?
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (11 May 2009):
 Walk away from this guy, hes clearly a user and his new girlfriend will find that out sooner or later.
You don't want this boy to hurt you anymore so show him what maturity is and rie above him and move on.
You can't get your viginity back but you can go out and find a boy that will respect and love you.
Join some clubs and you will soon get to know new people just like you and mabey you might even find that special someone!
Good luck babe :)
Livia
xoxox
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