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Archived questions from: 26 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Will sexual experience help my anxiety with the opposite sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I am 18 and wondering if having sex will reduce anxiety towards the opposite sex and if yes how effective is it. Thank you....

How do I know if I'm REALLY pleasing her in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm a 20 year old male, and I want very much to please my girlfriend with oral sex. However, she is very stoic and reserved in bed, so I can't tell if I am doing a good job or not pleasing her, I've asked her straight up, and she always just says it ...

Did YOU bleed your first time???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...

Is he just nervous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and he is a virgin and I am not. We have discussed having sex and have even tried a few times with protection but whenever we are about to he stops and doesn't want to try any more... Why is ...

So what else can I do in place of giving him oral sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hello! I posted a question yesterday evening, but only recieved one response. And, well to be quite honest it didn't really answer my problem. So I'm reposting in hopes that someone can help out. Here is the question in it's original form. "My bo...

Popped cherry questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - hey im 15,I recently did it with my boyfriend and it was my first time and it was his2nd time.I really like him a lot and I wanted to loose my virginity to him cus I really like him and he really likes me 2,I think I won't regret it because I am ...

What should I do about my friends pressuring and harrassing me about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I really need help. My last attempt at getting my first girlfriend failed in a really odd and stressful way that has yet to end fully and conclusively because she keeps telling a few of my friends random messages to me saying that she still l...

I have never felt very confident in my body

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I have recently starting seeing this bloke and he is always very touchy feely and wanting more than just a kiss. My problem is that I have never felt very confident in my body and I don't mind touching with clothes on but I hate it when he touc...

How do I know that he loves gay sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - hiya,, I've got a problem mates.Any help plz. I love such a handsome guy older than me 4 years. I love love love him so much. I'm in doubt that he loves me. He is chatting only with me in class.having coffee time 2gather.He sometimes put his ha...

Can casual sex between friends work or is our friendship heading for disaster?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - My best friend and I hang out together alot. She's always over at my house at the weekends, she stays over on Friday and Saturday nights. Last Saturday, she was over as usual. We were watching a film on the settee. At the end of the film, we were...

Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that...

Have I been stupid in trying to help her conceive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm in a crazy situation. One of my friends, a girl my age, has asked me to do something for her. Let me say that I have always been attracted to her, she is quite the beautiful lady, but it could never go further than friendship. She's one of thes...

Yeast infection ruining sex for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - i have a problem. i have this yeast infection that wont go away and it driving me crazy. i have been to the doctor several times about it but none of the medications worked! this is crushing my sex life. i told my boyfriend about this. we still h...

Is he using me for a fun time at the weekend only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year - we both work hard and only see each other of a weekend (but all weekend). It took him a long time to say 'I love you' (said it for the first time last month, and even now I can see th...

Secret rendezvous with my ex's mum, is that OK?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - It was my birthday yesterday and my ex-girlfriend's Mum called me to wish me happy birthday. We have always got on so it's not unusual for her to call me. During the call, she said that she was preparing a surprise for me and would send it to my ...

I'm a 41 year old virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - OK here we go... I have NEVER talked about this with ANYONE. I have to get some feedback on this one. I am a 41yo male. I had many girlfriends when I was a teenager but never had sex with any of them due to religious reasons. (I tried to have se...

She does not want anal sex but I like it a lot

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I live in the USA with my fiancée. We got engaged last year but the problem is that she does not want to engage in anal sex but I like it a lot. How can I convince her?...

He gets a lot of pleasure but I get nothing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm 17, and I have a question about sex. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex, but we do other things and while he gets a lot of pleasure out of everything I get nothing. He tries and it upsets him that he can't please me. I suppose I'm being selfish, ...

Being hit on is flattering and disgusting at the same time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I'm almost 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm not socially awkward, I actually have a lot of friends. I just keep my male friends at a safe distance. The way I was raised, combined with some bad experiences in the past, taught me that men are ...

Possibility she's pregnant even though the condom did not break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend where having sex for the first time today. I wore a condom and shes not on the pill. After we done it I pulled out and I cant remember how but I found cum on my hand (not sure if it was mine or hers). Anyway I checked the cond...

Am I gay because I watch lesbian porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Hi. So I posted a question before, but I am still feeling very uncomfortable and frustrated with myself. Here's the whole story. I am 18 years old and go to an all women's college. I chose to come here because I knew I would never have to worry ab...

I want to be able to pleasure him as much as he does for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says that he doesn't like oral sex because it hurts. Mostly just the head of the penis. I thought at first that he was telling me it hurts specifically when I do it but apparently hes always been this way and its not me. I'm wonderin...

Does masturbation makes a penis smaller?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - hello good people! does masturbation makes a penis smaller? and does weight play a role in as far as the penis size is concerned?...

I was told that I have camel toe!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - One day I was at shool I notice people looking between my legs and I ask my friend what was going on with people looking between my legs and she said I have a camel toe I bein tring to hide it but I dont know how to please help....

I don't understand his reasoning on a 3-some???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Not sure why I can't get this off my mind or why it bothers me! My husband and I have been together for 3 years; married for 1 year. A few months ago the topic of threesomes came up. At which time he said he had one with both of his ex's (g/f ...