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writes:My boyfriend says that he doesn't like oral sex because it hurts. Mostly just the head of the penis. I thought at first that he was telling me it hurts specifically when I do it but apparently hes always been this way and its not me. I'm wondering two things here. One is why would it be painful for him? Is it a sign of some sort of health issue? Two, I love doing it, so its disappointing that I cant. I want to please him in other ways besides just sex. It makes me feel good to make him feel good and it's something I was always told I was good at. In this situation, I can't do it. So what else can I do in place of it? He will go down on me forever if he could and I want to be able to return the favor in some way or another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): do you use teeth???
Teeth can hurt sometimes really bad. You might find if you don;t use any teeth at all, or as little amount of teeth as you can, he may be ok with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): I have to wonder if he's circumcised? If he's not, it may be that the foreskin is unusually tight, and then, yes, it might indeed be a medical issue.
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