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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What is the most common time period a guy can last the longest during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - What is the most common time period a guy can last the longest during sex? Me and my boyfriend have sex every saturday, probably like 3 times throughout the day, but... he finishes in like 2 minutes! Is that normal? Is that okay? Is there anythin...

Me on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a couple of weeks now and we've had sex a few times. I really want to try going on top, it's something that I fantasise about often and he's said he wants me to but I've never tried it. I can usually get on top but t...

French kissing and oral sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - If a man french kisses does that mean that he will be receptive to oral sex for both female and male. Or does one have anything to do with the other. Also, why would a man want oral sex but doesn't want to give it? If he is born in 1938 would th...

Suggestion on stopping this from happening so fast??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I need some advice, wen I'm having sex with my girlfreind on top I can last a good amount of time, but when I'm on top I just seem to cum after a few minuites any suggestion on stopping this from happening so fast??...

Lying so no one gets hurt

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I would like people's opinions on whether i am doing right by lying to a friend to ensure she doesn't get hurt. My friend and i were very close at one point but we don't really speak as much anymore, not as much as we used to anyway. Anyway, she ...

What's it like swallowing for 1st time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - what is swallowing semen like for the first time? i want to swallow my boyfriends but im nervous ill gag. ive heard a lot of people dont like the taste and gag from it. i just want to know what its like because i want to swallow i just dont want to ...

Guy's completely shaved pubic hair..opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hey, pls How do girls feels when a guy completly shaved his purbic hair. Is it attractive to girls and i have been with 4girls now and each time we are about to have sex , they will ask me if i love them. So i want to know if it is a common ...

Is this a sign of an STD?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - hey like 3 weeks ago i was having lots of sex with my GF once a day at least but like recently ive found red spots that arent bumpy they go if i dont have sex/BJ for awhile but come back when i do, me and my GF where both virgins. is this a seri...

It hurts when I masturbate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hey everybody! I'm almost 23 years old and STILL a virgin! Anyway my problem is that I do enjoy masturbating a lot, and I only give myself clitoral orgasms. However, whenever I try fingering myself it just hurts so i have to stop. I was just won...

I miss my girlfriend so much but I'm still with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 44 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I miss my girlfriend so much. The trouble is, we're still together. We've been together for 18 months now. For the first 12 months, things could not have been better. We were so close. We trusted each other with everything, we could talk about an...

Sperm filled fingers!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I am just wondering this is really weird for me to even have to ask.. I started my period on the 1st of March yesterday was the 15th.. me and the boyfriend where having sex and well I ended up with quite a bit of sperm on my fingers. Instead of ...

I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm four months pregnant and I feel so not sexy. The worst is that I feel like my husband does not want to have sex with me anymore. I've put on 8-9 lb and I feel like he does not like the way I look now. He still tells me I'm beautiful when I s...

Does anyone think fetishes can be 'cured' or diminished?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi. My main problem is excessive masturbation.i seem to put more effort into it than any other area. I have a steady girlfriend and things are generally ok in that area, guess could be improved a bit but thats cos we dont always see a lot of...

My husband cheated on me for eight years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hope you can help...... My husband cheated on me for eight years, it took him 5 years to be done with her completely always begging me not to divorce him and take the kids. I stayed but I think she ended it more then he did. He has become a real...

Help me save my friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - So here's the story. I've been friends with a guy for four years now -- hes my best friend. We moved in together almost 2 years ago now and we have a great relationship. Just this past November, he dumped his girlfriend of 3 years because he ...

A love triangle thing and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Ok im in the middle of a very messy situation at the moment! kind of a love triangle thing and i dont know what to do. From the outside looking in im probably going to look quite bad (i know i feel it) but any knid of advice on what to do here would ...

Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...

Is it normal to be curious at 14?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I feel so dirty. I find myself looking at porn or toys and playing with myself. Is it normal to be curious at 14? How do I stop myself doing it again? I want to stop cos I know it's wrong but when I'm feeling down or horny I find myself doing it ...

Dont know what to do!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is stil...

My boyfriend hasn't seen a girl naked before

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't seen a girl naked before. He hasn't had a girlfriend nor had sex [[before me]]. Hes 21, but...hes waiting a long time for the "right one" Anyway, i feel like he might be disappointed in my body. B/c before me- the only na...

My husband is addicted to porn and pics of really young girls

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - my husband is addicted to porn and he also looks at pics of really young girls, how can I help him? hi every one, for most people, I have a perfect relationship, and to some extent i believe it. me and my husband are in our 28-29s and been togethe...

I am so insecure about this I don't even want to have sex anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have always been a little unconfortable about "down there" but now Im really ashamed. I have a really big labia on the right side and its kind of umm "loose" I had a boyfriend a while back and he is the only one I have ever been with. He was givi...

He loved anal stimulation but won't do it again for fear it's 'gay'. What should I say to calm his fears?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I enjoy taking turns masturbating ourselves while the other stimulates elsewhere. We were doing that a couple of nights ago, he was masturbating while I was massaging his testicles. I started lowering my fingers slightly to his ...

Other than waiting for therapy to give results does anyone have any ideas for how to liven things up or does the dark cloud loom?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend would be the perfect candidate for someone with a necrophelia fetish. Unfortunately, that's not me. As I think back over the past year I can recall times of better sex and some of the worst encounters possible (the train keeps running ...