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Archived questions from: 29 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How can I make myself more confident with kinky sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a month, we have liked each other so much for a very long time and he was, well still is, my best friend. We have had sex and I really enjoy it and so does he, I have had 3 other sexual partners but with ...

Could anyone possibly tell me why sex didn't hurt the first time but hurt when I did it again today?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Last weekend, I lost my virginity to a guy that I'm deeply in love with. Well, it didn't hurt the first time we had sex (We did "Doggy style" then had regular sex) but just today, we had sex again (Yes we used protection) and it seriously hurt. He ...

Ways for him to last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex and we've discovered that he doesn't last very long at all... I'm talking like, a minute at that [don't get me wrong tis' a wonderful minute]. We've tried with a little foreplay, before...

Is there a possibility that I may be pregnant after only 4 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Well me and my bf had (unprotected) sex last Wednesday. We've been toqether for 2 years. I'm just very paranoid because even though he said he didn't cum I'm nervous. We didn't go all crazy and I didn't do anything to make him cum cause it was our ...

Could her nausea indicate she's pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I don't use condoms but she takes the pill religiously every day, but for the last 4-5 days she's had a stomach ache, could she be pregnant? I don't know if having a stomach ache means she might be or not, all I really know is t...

My girlfriend and porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend looks at porn and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't think it would annoy me if she was more open about it (I.E. watch it with me), but she is very closed minded when it comes to it. I've also noticed when she looks at porn, w...

Why can't I get hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - i cant get a boner i watch porn i do all this stuff and nothing happens and i cant cum and my girlfriend hates so can u help me? please...

Will this stop her from being pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - We have had lots of problems, all of them stopped =]. Last night we had sex for our first time and we were drunk, i came in her but she is on birth control, will this stop her from being pregnant? She had just got off her period the day before and ...

Should I stop sleeping with him until he commits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (?) - I have been seeing this man for 3 months and he says he wants to be with me but he's scared. What does that mean? We are in the getting to know each other stage I suppose, not officially dating. Is there anything I can do to make him not scar...

I'm confused. When do you ovulate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey,im just wondering when do you ovulate? Is it 14 days after or before your period.? Isn't the same thing,how do you know you are ovulating If your menstrual cycle lasts 28 days and your period was the 11th and you had sex the 23 could you stil...

I am finding it so hard to move forward.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I moved to the USA 9 years ago. I married an American. We have had the usual ups and downs but apparently now he wants to call it a day. He has gone up North to his family and I am left here with my 15 year old son from a previous marriag...

I think I'm afraid to orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I think i'm afraid of sex. And by that I mean i'm afraid to orgasm. I know it's supposed to be this awesome feeling but i can't bring myself to experience it. I have a boyfriend, and i love him very much and am very attracted to him but every time ...

4 years into relationship, and I don't think I ever had an orgasm. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i am in a relationships for almost 4 years..we didn't see each other often. when we we're together and we're making love i didn't feel any orgasm since the day we made it until now. i made different strokes or styles but it doesn't worth. i'Neve...

Today I lost my virginity. Could I become pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey. Today i lost my virginity. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. The strange thing is, it didn't hurt. I've always been told it's sore and i'll bleed but nope neither happened. Is something wrong with me ? And afterwards because...

Is this what orgasm feels like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - i was wondering if i had an orgasm. last night my boyfriend was giving me oral and half way during it felt like the room was spinning and my cheeks got hot and i felt like i had to pee and then i got this amazing sensation in my stomach and vagina ...

On The Matter Of Porn Addiction and Masturbation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Because of the easy availability of all genres of porn, in all levels of explicitness and in the media of one's choosing, many people, especially men, are using it for their entertainment. To some, these activities are vilified and this behavior is ...

Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health?? I have a very good healthy body, I'm 34" in waist and 5'5" in height with 73 kg weight. Kindly advise me and let me know if I ejaculate 3-4 times a ...

Is it just about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Theres a guy I've become quite friendly with over the past year. He lives quite far away, so I don't see him often. Whenever we're together we act like a couple, with him intiating most things (as I didn't want to seem to keen, as I like him loads) ...

He says he doesn't have "those feelings"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I am curious if a guy really digs you and spends all his free time with you, and doesn't see other women, and there is lots of good loving sex, and has talked about the future ect... but then sez he does'nt have 'those' feelings, what does it ...

Do things fall out of place so better things can fall into place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I after a while broke up. I was great to her, we had a very great relationship and we never fought and we always had a ton of fun while hanging out. We broke up and decided to take a week space from each other to help figure t...

Help! My boyfriend has a low sex drive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hi Friends~ My bf, 33yrs old, and I, 26yrs old, have been dating for 6 months now. On our second date he told me that 3 months prior he had dated this girl for 2 weeks and after he broke things off with her she came to him 2 weeks later and ...

Tips for having sex with a taller woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I am on the short side and have been dating a woman who is taller than I am. I don’t think the differences in our heights should be a reason for us not to have sex. Any tips for having sex with a taller woman? What positions work well? ...

Irritated swollen skin after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - Hi, i have been with my wife for 5 years now and every time we have long oral sex (3-4 hours) followed by Intercourse, my Skin that covers the head of my penis get really big (swollen) but the next day its goes back to normal, My Wifes Vagina is ...

Red bumps on my vagina after trimming! How do I get rid of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Okay I have a HUGE problem here. My boyfriend told me to leave the pubic hair I have but I trimmed the pubic hair just about a half hour ago while I was in the shower and now I have red bumps on my bikini line and just above the lips of my vagina! ...

I would like our frienship to include sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend who is a beautiful woman. I would like our relationship to include sex. I hope she wants the same thing in our relationship. How can I hint at the fact that I would like our relationship to include sex? How can I mention this ...

Will he be put off by my breasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - I have got a new boyfriend of 3 weeks, but i am worried that when he asks for sex he will be put off by my sagging 48f breasts....

How many positions during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Quick poll/survey/whatever you want to call it: How many positions do you like to go through during sex?...