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Archived questions from: 5 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Could it be normal, if he orgasms to still continue satisfying me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a first timer. So, when we have sex, it doesn't last as long as us girls want him to. Could it be normal, if he orgasms to still continue satisfying me? Would it hurt him? Be too sensitive? or is it okay? By the way, my age is n...

My boyfriend can't keep his erection and it's not doing much for my confidence.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Hello... my boyfriend and I have been going out a year in a couple of weeks. I'm 15, almost 16 and he's 16, almost 17. We've had sex a lot but then I went away over christmas and we haven't had sex since then. We've tried but it didn't happen. ...

What else has she not told me...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Well my fiance has a pretty bad past as far as boyfriend's and sex and partying and all that stuff a lot of girls do. She told me that she only had been with 2 guys before me. And that would make me her 3rd.... at the time of us talking like that ...

My friend told me his girlfriend has awsome control "down there". Has anyone else encountered this with a woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend that has told me that his gf has some awesome... how do I say It (control down there). I have never encountered a woman that can do the things he has said she can and was wondering can any woman do that? I have a woman that ...

How effective are condoms? I don't want to get pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Hey people. Me an my boyfriend are about to have sex an he is goin to use a condom. but i'm so afraid i'm goin to get pregnant. A lot of my friends are saying i won't. But i don't know. I really want to do this. I'm not gettin birth control but how ...

How can you tell if your man is getting bored with you

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - How can you tell if your man is growing bored with you?....First two years we had sex almost every night. Now it's barely once a week. He makes excuses to work late, or have lunch without me. I don't know if it's just because he's really that busy ...

Love Me? Or a sexual gesture?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - with all these love language issues going around. im a bit curious about how people in general think. is kissing the strongest way of showing affection. Its been 8months since i started going out with my b/f. Each time we meet he kisses me. does he ...

Boyfriend? OR FWB guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I can't choose between my boyfriend, who loves me a lot and a friend who wants to be sex buddies. I love my friend more than I do my boyfriend. What should I do?...

Daughters friend was raped and I'm wondering if thats the real story

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I have a 13 1/2 year old daughter. She comes to me and tells me that her best friend was raped the other day. i din't know what to say to her but in my head i was thinking with the way some and i mean some girls are now a days i thought maybe she ...

He says I need to be more open when I want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Is it okay to let my boyfriend know how I'm feeling? He says I have to be more open with him and tell him when I want sex. He tells me all the time. Do guys like that? Makes you feel wanted.. ummm a turn on? I don't know..maybe send him a naugh...

What does a woman smell like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - i don't want to sound like a jerk or anything, but does a woman's vagina have a bad smell. what does a woman's vagina smell like? The reason i am asking because i don't want to get that far with a woman on pleasing her down there and then find out ...

Ladies: Poll about size

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Ok ladies I have been in a discussion with my girlfriend and many other females the age old question here goes . DOES SIZE MATTER ? IS IT THE LENGTH ? IS IT THE GIRTH ? IS IT BOTH ? I am just asking. Please do not assume i am a...

Ladies: How do you know when to consider sex in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Ladies help …. Are there aspects that need to be present in a relationship to consider sex? How do you know when to consider sex in a new relationship? How can a man let you know he is ready for sex in a new relationship? What things do you co...

She's very shy when it comes to anything sexual

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - hi, Ive been seeing a girl for over 2 months now and been going out with each other 3 weeks now! the problem im having is that she is very shy when it come to anything sexual! when were alone i.e my room kissing, i would rub her leg and move my ...

Is it possible for a guy to be that good in bed yet have no prior experience??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - OK, this is my second question on here and and I just want to say thank you to everyone who responded to my last one, you were all very helpful. Anyways, I'm in an amazing long term relationship with my boyfriend. We are very much in love an...

Is there a rule of thumb as to the number of dates you need to go on before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - I have a friend who we started dating. We just had our first date it was fun. We were friends for a while before dating. I think she is cute and would like sex with her. Typically is there a number of dates to go on before talking, thinking about, ...

7 months since we have been together and I haven't climaxed yet, why, do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together 7 weeks and i haven't yet orgasmed during sex.... is there something wrong with me?...

I relapsed and had sex with my abusive ex quiterecently! How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - My ex and I dated for two years and one day. After three months of the actual break-up and two months of avoiding him, I relapsed and had sex with him quite recently. This guy physically and verbally abused me and even cheated on me and my hormones ...

He lied about loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I'd been dating my ex-boyfriend for a year and a half when he dropped the bomb. He was nearly my first everything- first kiss, first love, etc. He was the sweetest, most romantic guy ever, and he was everything I could have asked for in a guy. I ...

Can a man tell if a woman has orgasmed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I'm not talking about the physical stuff that women do when they orgasm (like shaking, moaning, etc.); more like the internal. If they're having intercourse, can a man tell that a woman has orgasmed by the change in her vagina (it contracts)?...

We are really nervous. What is the cause of strange symptoms after sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - So I've had unprotected sex with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago and i finished inside of her. She has not had sex before that for a while. After that night i had sex with her again but she said when i went all the way inside of her she had pain ...

She's hot and I want to have sex with my cousin

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - hi guys , wat up! I wanna have sex with my cousin sister but she is in USA and I m in Australia , she is too hot 20 and I m 24 , I just want her she is my dream what should I do to find if she is also interested in me please help me guys ...

Never had orgasm during sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my lovley boyfriend for around a year and half and we've moved in and everything is almost perfect- however I have never "came" when we have sex. I am really worried this isn't normal. I can come when I am masterbating with a ...

I faked an orgasm to get the sexual experience over quickly

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - i faked an orgasm with someone i really liked because i realized i wasn't comfortable to be sexually involved with them yet and wanted to stop the experience soon. now they think i have no sexual stamina. but i actually have a lot, i just realized ...

How do I get her to have phone/webcam sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend over the summer, and we've had a long distance relationship for seven months. I love her a lot and we've had sex before. I'm so damn horny I have to masturbate everyday just to feel sane. I keep asking her if she masturbates, but ...

I think I'm ready, but how can I make sure that I will not regret it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I was completely ready for sex just a little while ago. My boyfriend of 6 months is 17. I'm turning 15, but I was completely ready to have sex with him a little while ago. We had a good talk and decided it was time, I love him, but I feel like ...

How can I stop getting turned on by naked men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - im in high school and im not bisexual but i get turned on when i see a naked men. i have swimming classes and most of the guys get naked in the locker room and i wanted to know if any one knows a way that can stop me from getting turned on? ...

What is the average size for a Mexican's penis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - ummm i was wondering what the average penis size for a mexican was? because my hubby is a mexican. it isnt big but not to small....

Why do people like seeing their partner sexually excited by someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Why do folks like seeing their partner sexually excited by someone else?...

How do I give the perfect blowjob?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Hiya could anyone give advise on how do give the perfect blow job? X...

What's this sticky stuff that the doctors say nothings wrong with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I have a white-like discharge. It used to concern me, b/c it just didn't seem natural or normal. Plus it was sticky. I've been to 2 different doctors, and both said i was perfectly clean, and everything was normal. So, anyway, i was telling my ...

Why can girls turn down sex but guys cant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, Why is it that if a girl turns down sex with someone she just met it is seen as normal, but if a guy turns down sex then the girl gets really upset and/or thinks that he is gay? I dont like sleeping with girls I dont know properly but ...

Is being fingered even anything like sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - I'm a virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I'm 18 and I've never had sex before so I'm kinda nervous but we both feel ready to do it. I've heard it hurts when you have sex as the hymen tears but my boyfriend has fingered me ...

Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

5 March 2009 (F) - Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman? My boyfriend said it's cheating even if it's just for experimentation. I on the other hand have no problem with him experimenting with a man if he so chooses. What do you think? ...