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Sex: Help and advice

I need tips to spice up foreplay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - Hi cupids... Well in short, I'm after your best foreplay ideas, tips and tricks, other than kissing or cuddling... Not that cuddling or kissing are bad, but it's all I seem to be able to think of, and it can sometimes feel a bit repetitive,...

Can't get off from handjobs or blowjobs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - I have a problem. Every time that my girlfriend gives me handjobs or blow jobs I cant get off. I dont know whats wrong with me but it's starting to suck because she thinks theres something wrong with her. Can someone please help me?!...

I have sensitive glans and it will hurt to have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - I have very sensitive glans! Everytime my foreskin gets pulled back i cant bare to touch my glans. My girlfriend gave me a blow job and i had to get her to stop because the glans were so sensitive. What should i do? Is it normal? I read an article ...

Unprotected sex with my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - i just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of 6 months it wasn't my idea but i kind of liked it i had sex with him before but i used a condom what should i do...

Anal sex--does it hurt? Can I get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants to have anal sex will it hurt can i get pregnant by having anal sex ...

Painful sex and possibly pregnant.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - i may be pregnant i took like 20 test also this was my first time having sex what do i do oh ya it was so painful having sex...

Am I turning gay or am I just curious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - I don't know what to do. I am married and have a child, I'm am 5 years married. When we have sex she stimulates my anus with her fingers or a dildo. Now I have a want to feel a real penis in my anus. And I spend hours reading stories of first time ...

Pain during doggy style. What could be wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - Okay so this is very frustrating for me and my boyfriend, but for some reason doggy style is very painful for me. It's not too bad when he doesn't go in all the way, but when he does, that's when it hurts. But I have no problem when he goes all the ...

Any sex tips for plus size girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - Any sex tips can help I need some here's why I have a thin boyfriend and I'm a plus size girl much bigger then him and we have sex but not as much. we have more oral sex then sex and I feel bad that he douse most of the work when haveing sex...

My ex keeps staring at me, even though he has a girlfriend. Any thoughts on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - Hi people, just a quick one, Me and my ex split last yr he dumped me but have remaind on speaking terms, anyway 2 weeks ago he stoped talking 2 me as he has a new gf, anyway even b4 we stoped talking we would occasionly have sex, and when ever i s...

We snogged. He likes the idea of having a cheeky fumble at work! But I want more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - I have liked this guy at work for a while (I mean a few years) and we finally snogged, the thing is I am not the type of girl normally just to do that sort of thing (he knows I am shy) and he now thinks we have this sort of work thing, it was good ...

Over several years, I've been dating girls and guys... I feel more comfortable with girls. Am I lesbian?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - When I was 16, I had a 3 year sexual relationship with another girl. After 3 years she left me for another girl. I thought it was just a phase I was going through. Since then I’ve had the odd boyfriend but only for a month or two and never had sex ...

Advice on making first time sex a wonderful experience

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and i are thinking about having sex for the first time, but i dont know what to do to set the scene. i want it to be wonderful for her, as well as me. any advice on what i should do?...

Unprotected sex and the pill

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always been very (perhaps obsessively) worried and careful about contreception. However, recently, I started taking the pill, so we 'relaxed' a little the other night. I have never missed one, always taken it properly and ...

My best friend recently got married, we had phone sex, I don't know what he wants from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - Confused bigtime- my bestfriend recently got married and moved away. We talk regularly on the phone but haven't seen each other for about a year. Last week we was talking and he suddenly starts telling me how much he misses me and that he wishes I ...

Husband has went into the military and I am suffering from separation anxiety!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - I'm having some issues. My husband has been away at BCT (Basic Training or Boot Camp) for 2 weeks. I know it hasnt been that long, but it feels like a month already. I thought I could rely on the comfort of family while he was away, but instead I'm ...

Is it dirty to love giving my b/f a blow job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - Is it dirty to love giving me boyfriend a blow job. Sometimes i just fantasize bout turning him on and giving him one say in a dressing room when we r out shopping. I just love giving him one and how it makes him feel and me. He says i turn him on ...

Ladies advice on the handling of their breasts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - Ladies can you give me some advice about loving my girlfriend’s breast during sex???? When is a good time to touch them? How should I know that she wants me to touch her breast? What kind of things can I do with my hands on her breast that she ...

I'd like to have sex with this lovely older woman..any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - My long time friend is getting married and asked me to be the best man in his wedding. He will be marrying in a few months after he graduates from university. He and I have been friends for a long time and have been attending the same university and ...

Do women fake orgasms?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - I am having a problem having an orgasm with my bf. Ladies do you fake orgasms? I don’t know if it is a good idea. I rather help my bf help me have one. What tips do you have for having an orgasm? Are there some better positions for having one? ...

I want to have sex with her how would I go about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - Some time ago I was introduced to a very cute Italian woman. Since them we have become friends and have done some fun things together. I mentioned that I would like to go on a trip with her to Italy. She agreed. We have planed it. In a few weeks we ...

I'm scared that I may be loose

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old, and "back in the day" i've made some really screwed up choices in my life. I came from a very bad environment, and it ruined me completely. But I have changed, and learned from my mistakes. I went from never going to school, d...

Girlfriend doesn't want sex anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - Im 17 and my girlfriend is 16, we have been together for 14 months we didnt have sex until 7 months into the relationship. It was her first time and we had sex about roughly once or twice a week an then about 4 months after that it just stopped. we ...

Casual random sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) - seen this women around she is pretty, 25yrs old and just recently sent me an email sayin she wouldn't mind having sex with me because she likes my built body. I'm 18, she knows that and she said she wants to do roleplay sex, which is why she wants ...

Hubby visiting porn sites..I don't want to keep having this fight!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - Three months ago, I found out my husband was visiting a ton of porn sites. I don't have a problem with him looking at porn, however, I do have a problem with him viewing live webcams, and registering for accounts on websites that appear to be sex ...

Is it obvious to tell if a condom breaks

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - So me and my partner had sex twice in february. When we had the 2nd time, he had a condom on and before he finished, he took his penis out of my vagina and so i saw he finished in the condom OUT of my vagina. the first time we had sex that month ...

B/f cannot feel my vagina during sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - 9 Years ago I had a baby by C-section. I had not had sex for 8 years (From 2 months pregnant until 14 months ago). I met my current boyfriend of 14 months and on 3 occasions (1 recently) he told me that he doesn't feel my vagina at all during sex. ...

Sharing things in a marriage is one thing... but him wearing my clothes????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) - My husband has always like for me to do anal sex on him with a strap. But now he is wanting 2 dress in women's clothes. I let him know I was not into this so he quit. But I came home early from work the other day and he was dressed up in my leather ...