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Archived questions from: 23 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Trippin out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - In the middle of February I had unprotected sex. I got my period at the beginning of that month, but now is March 23 and I haven't gotten my period. It's already going to be April and I am worried and stressed out. HELLPPPP:)...

I really want to be in porn!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I really want to be in porn. It's my dream. What do I do. I'm even on chatrooms where I meet up for all sorts of sex with all sorts of people and send photos of me. Everyone says I'm a stunner and I really just really want to be a porn star. Advice ...

I'm really falling for my friend with benefits!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and he's 15. We're friends with benefits! It started about a year ago with just fingering, then oral, then vaginal sex in all different positions and then anal. Now we just do whatever whenever. I think I'm falling for him, he's so lovely ...

I've thought about breaking up with her, but I still do love her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I have a problem. My gf and I have been in a relationship for almost a year. I love her very much and she is completely crazy about me. She's basically made it clear that I'd have to just about kill someone for her to not want to be with me ...

I cannot buy one that is exclusively a sex toy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I have read on this forum about girls using the handle of brushes and other items such as shampoo botthes for personal pleasure and experimentation. I went shopping and could not find anything that looked reasonable, It need not look realistic in s...

Broke up still sleeping together, but he says we shouldn't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Can anyone shed some light.... My boyfriend finished with me a few weeks ago and since then we have continued sleeping with each other, i am still crazy about him and it was my fault we broke up, we argued a lot. It's obvious he still cares about me...

Erection problems... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Help! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, and whenever we try to have sex, it won't happen. Whenever he puts the condom on he loses his erection and can't get it back to put it back on again. It's happened around 10 times now ...

Use vibrator for stimulationj want boyfriend involved!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I don't honestly know how to say this but the other week my boyfriend and I were having anal sex. It's a regular thing. But when he 'pulled out' I emptied my bowels involuntarily. At first I thought something was wrong and my boyfriend was a bit ...

We want to spend the night together, but we are only 15

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I'll of been going out with my boyfriend next week for a year, and were both fifteen even though he's almost sixteen, i've still got another 10months to wait. i see him alot and we love each other very much; we know we probably wo't last forever but ...

He says he didnt write that email. Could the computer have a virus, or is he lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Just a couple of hrs ago I was mailing out an Invoice for my partener of 8yrs and opened up his contacts which opened up an old email account of his that was rarely used. I found an email in the drafts folder addressed to Sexy Men Directory. The ...

Any tips or tricks to make kissing really great?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (?) - Hiyas! My bf and I have been together for a little while, but I have found that I don't have any tricks or anything. He immediately found my soft spot in my collarbone, but I don't have anything that can make him go crazy like he does for me. Any ...

My husband became suddenly impotent. Any ideas why and what can be done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I;m really looking foreword,to see your take on my situation... This is about my husband. So we live together 25 years ago, and a few years ago ,my husband went limp suddenly in a middle of an intercourse. It never happened before. We just sto...

My sex life has gone all down hill and I am just 20

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hello i'm sorry to give you all of the gory details but i don't know how else to explain it. Well i have been with my boyfriend now for nearly 3 years, I am 20 and he is 21. When we first began having sex it was a great experience for both of us, ...

How long until we have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hey, I just started seeing this guy. He seems very nice, and cool ... little bit of a party animal, but I don't mind. We went for 2 dates .. kissed .. and at the second one he did ask me, if he can come upstairs, but I said no ... he didn't push. ...

I don't know what to do... Should I have sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Let's just get straight to the point, I'm nearly 14 and I've been seeing this lad for just over 3 weeks, he's nearly 16, but the thing is he wants sex even though he says he's ready when I'm ready. Sometimes I think he will dump me if I don't have ...

My husband allowed me to have sex with someone else

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - My husband allowed me to have sex with someone else. Could he love me?...

Her libido is way off the richter scale!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I couldn't ask for a better lady. She's intelligent and absolutely stunning. The thing is though, she has a massive sex drive. She's never satisfied with just vaginal intercourse, she has to have...

I'm trying to train him not to treat me as a sex object!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Need advice. The ex rang and wanted to be with me sexually last night after avoiding me for an entire week..yes 7 days.. so I said no cos I wanted him to understand he can't just creep back into my life like that and expect me to go with him just ...

I don't want to be intimate with him, and he is upset about this

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - We've been married for 17 years, and I thought I am the one and only in his life. He had recently started a new job that requires really long hours, he practically disappeared from my life and our son's life, it affected our relationship, but I neve...

Loving girlfriend but all I can think about is her exes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi, Im in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. When we started going out everything was great and I was never worried or jealous of previous sexual partners but as we are together longer I get more and more jealous. We are lesbians and ...

She doesn't want me to perform oral sex on her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and have a healthy sex life. Just recently I've wanted to find more ways to pleasure her and one being eating/licking her out. She has had a few male previous sex partners, one being who she let ...

He left and came back! Should I believe him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old and married. He is 22 years old. We have been together for about 3 years now. Last year i got pregnant and thats why we got married. My mom kind us forced us too which was kind of stupid of us to let her do that. So everything ...

8 years of marriage..6 with no intimacy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Help!!!! I have been married for 8 years, six of which have been void of intimacy. My husband can't even hold my hand or give me a hug!!! We have had sex once in six years !!!!!!!!!!! We have had counselling which has in no way helped. I hav...

I am a virgin so this type of thing bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I am a virgin guy 24 years old. I was on a trip few months back to some outstation.It was a group of some people so it was a nice time. We all slept in a single big room each time. I usually sleep wearing a payjama without underwears. ...

Vaginal infections from fingering or oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - hi, well me and my girlfriend have just started trying out oral sex and fingering as well. But my girlfriend is worried that she could get infected by it. Can she get vaginal infections from oral sex or fingering? if so whats the risk? is it a hi...

Tips on making love longer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 246 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - hi how can i help my boyfriend stay on making love a longer? ...

How long after you had unprotected sex do you know if your pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - How long after you had unprotected sex do you know if pregnant.If I got my period this month? I really don't want to be pregnant:/ because hopefully I'm going to graduate from high school this year:)...

Can using a vibrator ruin your vagina?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - would using a vibrator ruin my vagina? would it give me BV or would the vibrating make it look different than a regular vigina?...

I'm straight but want to experiment with gay sex! How do I go about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

23 March 2009 (M) - I am a straight, 20 year old, virgin male. I'm insanely horny but have been unsuccessful by all means. I have always been turned on by gay porn, but always was attracted just to the sexuality of it, not the fact that it was men, and I never had any ...

We use plenty of lube and we've done all kinds of positions and I still come home walking like a penguin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Every time I have sex, the bottom of the opening hurts really bad afterwards for the next few days. I've been sexually active for the last 4 years now, and...have been sleeping with my current boyfriend of 2 years. It feels like everytime we hav...

How will I know when she's actually had an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a woman and I am also a female. She's slightly different from the other girls I've dated. But in a good way. Well, we really love each other and have been going out for a while now, and we both agreed we are ready to ...