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Archived questions from: 2 March, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I get the feeling he wants to take our relationship to the next level.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for about 6 to 7 months but I feel he wants to have more then just love... meaning he wants to have sex with me. Should I and if I do decide what are the best condoms to use? ...

Help - lesbian sex advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now. I'm 16, as is she. However, this is my first same sex relationship but it is not hers. She's a very confident lesbian, while I'm quite a bit more timid and only just come out as bisexual...

After using a spermicide is it safe to have oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - This may be a dumb question but it's important to us, so here goes. Me and my boyfriend use Encare spermicide inserts along with condoms. We're wondering is it safe for him to do oral on me after having sex, or would it be harmful if the chemicals ...

Nice guys always finish last..she doesn't want to go out of her "comfort zone'' for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Me and my gf have been together about 10 1/2 months. We have a pretty active sex life and we love each other very much. Lately however she has been saying that certain things she doesn't want to do sexually which she had previously indicated she ...

What makes a woman sexy? guy's response

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Random question for the guys.. what makes a woman sexy? what does it take for you to capture there attention (and not just looks wise..) also.. How does a guy (if hes kinda shy) flirt with a girl say at college? like is making fun of her in a p...

Am I questioning my sexuality because of college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi. I am 18 years-old and a freshman in college. I am currently struggling with a huge issue. I have been in a three year relationship with my boyfriend and I love him so much. Recently, I have been questioning my sexuality, something I have never, ...

Do guys keep in touch with girls they've slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Do guys keep in touch with girls they've slept with? I had a fling with someone, decided not to take things any further then changed my mind so I sent him a text. He replied straight away, then later started texting me and we were texting for a co...

Any there any toys that can help make anal sex more comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - ok so my bf of 3 years and i have been playing around with anal and i was wondering if if there were any toys or "bum nummers" that would make it more comfortable? i want to casue i like it but we cant get very far casue it is someitmes unplease...

Could I still get a purity ring if I had sex before marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - i have already had sex once and it was the biggest mistake of my life.i wanted to wait until i was married.could i still get a purity ring?a promise to myself that i will not have sex again until married?...

I want to continue being intimate but I don't know how to tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I have a friend that I am very attracted to. I think he is attracted to me as well. We have been intimate. I want to continue being intimate but I don't know how to tell him. What do I do?...

If a man cannot penetrate a woman because she is still quite tight - would he hold it against her...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - If a man cannot penetrate a woman because she is still quite tight - would he hold it against her or would he be quietly relieved that she hadn't been putting it about much? By the way, the woman in question is not a teenager....

All of a sudden my male friends all want to have sex with me!!! Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I am completely confused. First off, I'm a 24 year old single parent. I have a 2 year old and have been raising him alone for a year and a half now. I've made a lot of friends, mostly male, over the last 3-4 years through work, and we've always ...

Could I have pulled a muscle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - About 15 minutes ago I had a really intense orgasm. After my boyfriend left, I had extreme cramping and pain in my abdomen. Please help, it really hurts. Could I have pulled a muscle? I feel a bit nauseous as well...

How good is Spermicide?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - Which spermicide works the best and what are the chances of it not working properly? (Never used it before). My girlfriend likes to make love without condoms because we feel closer that way but we also would not like a baby so I am wondering just ...

How do I reassure him that he hasn't ruined my first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Me + my fwb i told him i was a virgin + b4 we i told hin we did stuff + now i told him he feels bad + that he has ruined my first time by doing what we did we havent slept with each other what can i say 2 him 2 reasure him that he hasnt ruined any ...

Rythym broken during sex..my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - often when im having sex with my bf he falls out meaning we hav to pause and out him back in. is this my fault if so what am i doing wrong and how can i stop it happening as it is kinda breaking the rhythm? many thanks ...

She is sexually stressed! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - I've been with a woman for 10 months now, and we love each other alot. Things have been going well, although last night she admitted that sexually she feels a little stressed out. Part of the reason, she stated, was that she has alot of problems...

Is this my period? Or something else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I got my period today, well at least i think it's my period. It's not your normal, red flowy kinda thing. but like when i went to take the bathroom, i looked at the toilet paper, and it was reddish pink. so i was like oo i have my period, and i put ...

Getting over a bad sexual experience

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I'm feeling traumatized. So the second guy I ever tried to have sex with completely crushed me. He asked me up to his room and things progressed, then when i tired to get undressed, he pulls away from me (pushing me off him) and says something ...

He slobbers all over my face!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend used to be an amazing kisser. But lately..i think hes got a little crazy with the kissing. B/c its all over my face, and soo much slobber. I started it a few weekends back, to where i would use my tongue more, but i was really me...

Other ways to be sexually pleasured

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend are sexually active. We've always been kinda..exploring idea's, since..i'm his first etc. Well, lately its just been missionary or...me on top. When i went over to his house last weekend, while we are getting ho...

I get blood when he fingers me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Last weekend, my boyfriend fingered me and afterwards there was blood. I talked to quite a few people that I trust and they all said I might've ripped my hymen which I believe I did. But just yesterday, he was fingering me again and there was more ...

Virgin who didn't feel tight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, I recently lost my virginity at the age of 28. I had always wanted to wait until I got married but as the years have gone by, it's just gotten harder and harder to wait. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and have k...

3 some with bf & another male possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - Sorry for the fashionable part of the title. I have a best bf in the world we got on great and have a super sex life. I have a few secret fantasies most of which i keep secret and would never even dream of trying or suggesting to him as sometimes a ...

Help settle an argument!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are having an argument about cheating. No neither of us is but we can't agree as to what can be defined as cheating. I said that if I made a girl on girl video (hypothetical) but he wasn't allowed to see it BUT I told him about...

Being used just for sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him came to me a condom and ready to go amd i said no because i'm a virgin now he said next week he want's me to suck his penis.but he want's he's friend there to.is he using me just for sex?should i do it?...

Was this experience an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - last night my boyfriend went down on me and after a few minutes i got an amazing feeling! my vagina felt like it was pumping my legs and hips went all funny and all i wanted to do was scream, my breathing got heavier and i couldn't stop squeezing my ...

Did I pop my cherry???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love, believe it or not. We had sex and it didn't really hurt... and there was no blood. Just a tight burning sensation. Someone told me I probably already popped my cherry via tampons or masturbation. I mean t...

Crying during anal sex normal?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - is crying doing anal sex normal it was so painful my boyfriend said if i don't get things straight he will brake up with me what should do...

I think dad will ruin plans to have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) - ok well my dad asked me to talk to im before having sex and me and my gf are planning to very soon and her dad know and i think hes getting her birth control pills i want to be responsible so he will trust me more but i think he will ruin our plans ...