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writes:I live in the USA with my fiancée. We got engaged last year but the problem is that she does not want to engage in anal sex but I like it a lot. How can I convince her?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 March 2009):
You can't convince her.
Some women just do not want to do it. If you nag and nag and nag until she gives in, then she will feel dirty and used and very upset.
If you cannot live without it then marry a different girl.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): if she really does not want to do it then do not push it.. many girls dont like anal sex and its not something that they should be co-erced into doing if they dont want to.
but having said that you should talk to your wife and tell her that this is something you would really like to try.. if you put it like that she might oblige
start slowly with fingers beforehand
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): Anal sex is, frankly, not something you should expect. It's a way more personal thing than standard intercourse in some cultures, and can often be so taboo as to be a non-starter. It can be intensely painful for her, and can have health consequences. If it's a deal-breaker for you then let her know, and be prepared for her to call the engagement off. Because if it's not a gift she's willing and happy to give you, you have no right to demand it.
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